Phobias, Disappointments and Grief: A Fast Remedy
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Андрей Ермошин. Phobias, Disappointments and Grief: A Fast Remedy
Foreword
Preface
Introduction
Part 1. Work through Phobias and Panic Attacks
1.1. Introduction
Ten minutes
Fast facts about developing phobias
It is not enough just to understand
The active role of a patient
1.2. What is a phobia: general remarks
Sad statistics
Risk factors
Other risk factors
Special cases
What doesn’t have to be treated
A phobia is an information trauma
A phobia is similar to an allergy
What do our sensations reveal to us?
Ways to react
Psychocatalysis helps in the case of phobias
1.3. How phobias appear
Rest state
The beginning of neurosis
Neurophysiology of fear
Phenomenology of fear
1.4. Other ways of working with phobias
1.5. How one can overcome fear and enjoy living
Start with a simple drawing
Set yourself free from fear
A case from practice. Fear of fainting
A case from practice. Mother-in-law in my chest
A case from practice. A sniper
1.6. Step-by-step algorithm of “removing fear from the body” and the subsequent work with a phobia
1.7. “I’m not afraid any more”: illustrative cases from my practice
Claustrophobia
“I’m afraid of being attacked from behind”
“Shivaite!”: a powerful process of self-regulation after a deep-rooted trauma
“I’m afraid of cars”
“I’m afraid of driving”
“I’m afraid of dying during labour”
“I’m afraid of flying”
“I’m afraid of leaving the house”
“I am afraid of getting stabbed in the back”
Fear of loneliness
Fear of the spirits of ancestors
“I’m afraid of staying home alone”
A lopsided elevator
Fear of exams
“I’m afraid of the hum of the engine on the plane”
“I’m afraid of hearing the sound of a falling body”
“I’m afraid of an upset stomach”
Fear after a friend’s suicide
“I’m afraid of cruelty”
Post-rape spatial distortion
1.8. Psychotrauma in utero
“I look over my shoulder in the bathroom and I’m afraid that they will kill me”
1.9. Psychotrauma at birth
“I’m afraid of tunnels”
1.10. Ancestral fear
“I stop halfway to the success”
1.11. Fear substitutes
A case from practice. Anger masked as fear
“I was attacked by a paedophile.” Hyper control was the result of long-time fear
1.12. Conclusion. Get your energy back
1.13. The rise of the dream
“I’m afraid of dying”
1.14. “I worry about my health”
Prince Gotama
Undermined trust
Hypochondrium
It’s absurd
The two ingredients of fear for health
A case from practice. Sweeping out that fear
A case from practice. Over treated
A case from practice. A floating kidney
The meaning of life
1.15. If your brain is “starving”: this may be a reason for anxiety and panic
Panic attacks, sympathoadrenal episodes
Conflict between intake and supply
Feeling literally depressed
Mysterious signs
The key
Grounds for panic attacks
What should one do?
A case from practice. A toy from the trunk
1.16. Taking in the knowledge with the body
A case from practice. “I am reserved and I’m afraid of changes”
1.17. Algorithm for taking knowledge into the body
1.18. The method of diagnostic phrases is an effective way of testing and reinforcing the new state
Suggestion and autosuggestion: formulae of success
“I’m scared my boyfriend will dump me”
1.19. Action algorithm from the “diagnostic phrases” method
1.20. “Imagine…”: the method of diagnostic images and ideas
1.21. Difficult cases
A case from practice. Fears in the midst of an attack
Exhausted
1.22. Natural predisposition to shame and fear
A case from practice. “I feel ashamed and scared”
1.23. Work in different directions
What else can we do to help?
Lack of confidence and fear have to be treated differently
Part II. Psychological Traumas. HOW TO OVERCOME THEM AND MOVE ON
2.1. Kinds of psychological traumas: understand them in order to heal them
Kinds of traumas depending on how massive and painful they are
Kinds of traumas based on their direction and “gates”
2.2. Heal yourself from disappointment and feeling offended
False expectations. Risk factors that trigger feeling offended
Enchantment – Disappointment
How different personality types react to offense
Typical symptoms of offense
Explore step by step that sinking feeling
What your body might experience when feeling offended
It’s not enough to forgive
2.3. Algorithm for working with the offense
“I feel like I am being used’
“I was deceived”
2.4. Natural predisposition to getting offended
“I want revenge”
2. 5. Special cases. The offense of the womb
2.6. Disappointment and offense: two sides of the coin
“Immune” to offense: what does it depend on?
2.7. Injustice and betrayal: how to work through the consequences
When your friend betrays you
A case from practice. A watch on the right wrist
“It’s not my fault”
A case from my practice. “My daughter is pulling out her hair”
2.8. Insults and abusing language: how to work through the consequences
A gobbling mother
2.9. Psychological attack and anger response; how to work through consequences
A case from my practice. “My future mother-in-law doesn’t approve of me”
2.10. Infidelity and jealousy: how to work through traumas in intimate relationships
A case from practice “Chase the beloved!”
2.11. Action plan to fight infidelity and jealousy
2.12 Trauma associated with organic lesion of CNS: working through the consequences
A case from practice. “Hallucinations”
A case from practice. An exposed brain
2.13. Loss and grief: how to overcome them
A case from practice “Life is ruined”
Resistance Factors
A case from practice. An awful tragedy (1)
2.14. Algorithm of working with grief
A case from practice. An awful tragedy (part 2)
2.15. Feeling sorrow after a loss: how can one “restore” that part of the soul
A case from practice “I miss my dead husband”
Pain of the grandmother
Mum
Family tree
2.16. Step aside from dead-end projects
A case from practice. Ancient history
2.17. The algorithm of “getting the potential back”
Heart in the wrong place
2.18. How to stop dreaming
A case from practice. Action-style dreams
Conclusion
Bibliography
Summary
Appendix I. The list of Phobias
Appendix II. Brief algorithm of how to use the method of Psychocatalysis
About the Author
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The book Phobias, Disappointments and Grief: A Fast Remedy written by the well-known Russian psychotherapist Andrey Ermoshin presents Psychocatalysis, his own method which has helped thousands of patients to recover from the consequences of psychological traumas. The work is illustrated with detailed examples of working through different kinds of phobias, from the fear of flight to the fear of sudden death. It also provides examples of how Psychocatalysis can efficiently relieve the pain caused by disappointment, betrayal, infidelity or loss of a loved one. Psychocatalysis is an original method based on bringing special attention to one’s inner sensations. After 30 years of working with this method the author offers the readers this step-by-step guide to self-regulation which can be useful for everyone who needs help with his or her problems or is going to help others.
The method and the working algorithms, are described in a highly intelligible manner, including reference materials and artwork.
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A patient can observe the processes that take place in his or her mind, and the result depends on the patient, on his or her decisions and not on favourable circumstances or the authority of the healer. This is a method of internal work: it’s reliable, simple, natural, and fast.
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