LEARN TO LOVE

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Ann Yang. LEARN TO LOVE

Introduction

Chapter 1. What types of women do men love?

Question 1. Men get acquainted with you, but they don’t want to have a relationship

Chapter 2. Does he like me?

Question 2. A man is torn between me and his ex

Chapter 3. How to make him fall in love with me?

Question 7. What can we talk to men about?

Question 11. When should say “I love you”?

Chapter 4. How to become the most needed woman for a man?

Question 12. Sex on the first date. Is it wrong?

Question 13. Who do men chase?

Question 14. Our plans don’t coincide. Do we have a chance to be together?

Chapter 5. He is not proposing

Question 15. Why does passion fade?

Question 16. He doesn’t want to live together

Question 17. I have gotten two marriage proposals. Who should I pick?

Chapter 6. What kind of a woman will he never pick as a wife?

Question 18. Having done everything he had asked for, I became not interesting for him

Chapter 7. How to choose the one and only man?

Question 19. I am 15 years older than he is. What is waiting for us in the future?

Question 20. How to forget about your former partner and cherish the one who is next to you now?

Question 21. To continue a relationship or not?

Chapter 8. Infidelity

Question 22. My husband has a lover. What should I do?

Question 23. My husband writes poems dedicated to another woman

Question 24. I think my partner will cheat on me soon

Chapter 9. Who are womanizers and how to live with them?

Question 25. My husband looks at other women. Is it normal?

Chapter 10. Can any person become faithful?

Chapter 11. Sex, sex, sex

Question 27. Sex scares me

Question 28. What if he has problems in the bedroom?

Question 29. He doesn’t want to be having sex all night long. Is it normal?

Chapter 12. What does he expect from sex?

Question 30. If there is no sex, does it make sense to stay together?

Conclusion

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Ladies keep looking for ways to be loved. Maybe it is better to be silent in front of their husbands? Or on the contrary, to chatter a lot? To cry loudly or quietly clench their teeth? To take extra care of their face or body? Manicure or pedicure? It’s my personal opinion. It is important to take breaks! It applies to both partners. Love is impossible in the atmosphere of constant overload. These are two incompatible states. Love is giving. If one of the partners is tired and overwhelmed, he or she doesn’t want to and can’t give anything to the other one. He or she wants to take instead. So imagine a relationship where both partners constantly want to be taking from each other. Taking is not an energy intensive action, you just need to ask or reach with your hand. Gifting and giving is a lot of work. Be yourself. Everything that you can discuss with your friend or grandma, discuss with your husband instead. And do it as soon as you feel that you want to. If you have to pretend when you are with your husband, then why do you even need him?

A man looks for femininity, and femininity can be different. There is no charm in insolence, but there is charm in modesty. If you want a worthy man, you will have to be a worthy woman. Are you ready to meet that worthy man today? Not on Sunday, not during some celebration, but today. I am asking this to show you that you should be a worthy woman every day. The main thing in a woman is her state of mind and her mood. In a garden, atmosphere is created by flowers, in a home atmosphere is created by a woman. From everything that I have observed I can conclude, that if a husband is a deadhead, it is not a big deal. The most vital thing is a woman’s energy. It makes a family quite stable.

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That short affair made me want to have a love life again. But there is nowhere to meet men. So I started meeting them online. I have had a couple of dates, but I haven’t found anything stable. It is disgusting. It looks like I can get acquainted and attract somebody online, I can arrange a meeting and have a date with him. But how do I make a long lasting relationship out of it? I have several online options right now. One of them is not even married and really wants woman’s affection. I haven’t seen him yet. I am afraid that nothing good will happen. I do call him though to vent out and he comforts me. I am so confused!

Answer. I think your mistake is that you give more than you take. You make three steps toward a man and he makes only one step toward you. This is what too compassionate and kind women constantly do. There is this simple rule: when you stop running away, you stop being chased. Practice, try it on somebody and then share your results! You show that you are dependent and interested too much. At the end of your date you could say: «And now it is time to say good-bye, because I wanted to meet with you only this one time.» It is very likely that after that he will not want to leave you alone! You need to know men’s mindset. You need to use this simple principle: love a man less than he loves you. Act as if you have a lot of other options. What you lack is confidence. And males, just like females, choose confident partners. It happens this way because nature tells them to pick out the best ones, to procreate.

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