What Makes Us Girls

What Makes Us Girls
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We cannot give what we do not have. So, if we do not love ourselves, or even if we are too obsessed with ourselves, how then can we love others? <i>What Makes Us Girls</i> examines the topic of self-worth through a modern cultural lens. Using examples from the author’s life experience and the life experiences of a variety of other girls, <i>What Makes Us Girls</i> analyzes seven of the most common issues that result in a destructive sense of self-worth: comparison, rejection, bullying, inauthenticity, purposelessness, betrayal and guilt. Every girl in the world, no matter our age or the country we are from, will have to face a battle for self-worth. Some of us will win and some of us will lose. But those of us who win will do so for two reasons: because we are able to see the battle for what it is, and even more importantly, because we have the right weapons to fight it.<br /><br /><i>“Faced with the very real suffering of today’s women and girls, it seems like society only reacts by promising women that they will inherit the earth, and also that nothing is their fault. Brittany’s book is a wonderful dose of tough love, which reminds us all that a sex that cannot take responsibility for anything, cannot achieve anything. This book feels like a summary of every time Brittany and I have laughed over coffee, or when she has held me while I cried and put my broken heart back together. I am so thrilled that so many other girls will have that experience. If I ever have a daughter, this book will be on her nightstand.“<br />– Lauren Southern</i>

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Brittany Pettibone. What Makes Us Girls

Author's Note

1

Dear Girls…

Self-Worth: The Ultimate Struggle

2

When You Think You’re Not Good Enough

When Others Think You’re Not Good Enough

When You Think Others Are Not Good Enough

When You Think Others Are Good Enough

3

Taking the Bitter Pill

1st Piece of Advice:Sometimes the Signs Say Go Forward

2nd Piece of Advice:Sometimes the Signs Say Make a Turn

Dispensing the Bitter Pill

4

What Bullying Is (And Is Not)

Why Bullies Bully

From Victim to Victor

Why You Don’t Want the Bully to Be You

5

How We Fake Ourselves Out

1st Way We End Up Fake:We Know Ourselves But Act Like We Don’t

2nd Way We End Up Fake:We Don’t Know Ourselves But Act Like We Do

3rd Way We End Up FakeWe Focus on Beauty (But Not Real Beauty)

How We Let Others Fake Us Out

Fake Change Versus Real Change

6

Finding Something to Live For

1st Trap: Settling

2nd Trap: Leapfrogging

3rd Trap: Pleasure-Seeking

4th Trap: Running From Reality

Motherhood Versus Career:Sorting Through the Misconceptions

How To Choose Your Purpose So It Doesn’t Choose You

1st Piece of Advice: Focus on Your Skills

2nd Piece of Advice: Think Solo or Duo

3rd Piece of Advice: Pick One (or More)

7

When You’ve Been Betrayed

When You’ve Been the Betrayer

8

When Guilt is a Blindfold

When Guilt is a Guiding Light

9

Mercy Looking Upon Misery

10

Self-Worth on Steroids

11

It’s All About Balance

12

Attracting the Good with Your Goodness(Including a Good Man)

13

Dear Girls…

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There are many topics I initially wanted to explore in this book such as female friendships, equality, femininity versus masculinity, the struggles of modern dating, professional careers, marriage and children, and so on. But after writing the first chapter, I came to understand that these topics can’t be adequately explored without first exploring one of the major problems that all girls, myself included, struggle with: self-worth. So, I’ve decided to dedicate the entire book to this topic.

While I will include references to all the other topics listed, I will wait to explore them fully in another book. That said, please be aware that this book is not intended to be an argument packed with facts and statistics; it’s largely anecdotal, using advice and stories from my own life experience and the life experiences of girls I know as a way to be encouraging. Lastly, most of the stories in this book are true, but I have changed names, relations, dates and even genders for the purpose of protecting privacy.

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The second young man, Andrew, who was sitting in the back seat, answered, “How do you not remember Anna, Britt? She made us all dinner.”

“Oh—of course. Sorry, I forgot.”

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