What Makes Us Girls
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Brittany Pettibone. What Makes Us Girls
Author's Note
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Dear Girls…
Self-Worth: The Ultimate Struggle
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When You Think You’re Not Good Enough
When Others Think You’re Not Good Enough
When You Think Others Are Not Good Enough
When You Think Others Are Good Enough
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Taking the Bitter Pill
1st Piece of Advice:Sometimes the Signs Say Go Forward
2nd Piece of Advice:Sometimes the Signs Say Make a Turn
Dispensing the Bitter Pill
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What Bullying Is (And Is Not)
Why Bullies Bully
From Victim to Victor
Why You Don’t Want the Bully to Be You
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How We Fake Ourselves Out
1st Way We End Up Fake:We Know Ourselves But Act Like We Don’t
2nd Way We End Up Fake:We Don’t Know Ourselves But Act Like We Do
3rd Way We End Up FakeWe Focus on Beauty (But Not Real Beauty)
How We Let Others Fake Us Out
Fake Change Versus Real Change
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Finding Something to Live For
1st Trap: Settling
2nd Trap: Leapfrogging
3rd Trap: Pleasure-Seeking
4th Trap: Running From Reality
Motherhood Versus Career:Sorting Through the Misconceptions
How To Choose Your Purpose So It Doesn’t Choose You
1st Piece of Advice: Focus on Your Skills
2nd Piece of Advice: Think Solo or Duo
3rd Piece of Advice: Pick One (or More)
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When You’ve Been Betrayed
When You’ve Been the Betrayer
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When Guilt is a Blindfold
When Guilt is a Guiding Light
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Mercy Looking Upon Misery
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Self-Worth on Steroids
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It’s All About Balance
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Attracting the Good with Your Goodness(Including a Good Man)
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Dear Girls…
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There are many topics I initially wanted to explore in this book such as female friendships, equality, femininity versus masculinity, the struggles of modern dating, professional careers, marriage and children, and so on. But after writing the first chapter, I came to understand that these topics can’t be adequately explored without first exploring one of the major problems that all girls, myself included, struggle with: self-worth. So, I’ve decided to dedicate the entire book to this topic.
While I will include references to all the other topics listed, I will wait to explore them fully in another book. That said, please be aware that this book is not intended to be an argument packed with facts and statistics; it’s largely anecdotal, using advice and stories from my own life experience and the life experiences of girls I know as a way to be encouraging. Lastly, most of the stories in this book are true, but I have changed names, relations, dates and even genders for the purpose of protecting privacy.
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The second young man, Andrew, who was sitting in the back seat, answered, “How do you not remember Anna, Britt? She made us all dinner.”
“Oh—of course. Sorry, I forgot.”
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