Contradicting Maternity
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Carol Long. Contradicting Maternity
Contents
Acknowledgements
Preface
1. Introduction
Images of HIV-positive Motherhood
About This Book
Overview of the book
2. Facing the HIV-positive Mother
The Interview Setting
The Clinic Context
Hlengiwe
Pumla
Leleti
Nombeko
Conclusion
3. The Joys of Motherhood
Deconstructing Motherhood
The idealisation and denigration of motherhood
‘Normal’ mothers
Categories of deviance
Deconstructing motherhood
Jocasta’s Tale
The spectral mother
Motherhood in South Africa
Conclusion
4. Finding the HIV-positive Mother
Finding the HIV-positive Mother in the Scientific Imagination
Disclosure
Incidence of psychiatric symptoms
Coping and support
Parenting
Finding the HIV-positive mother
HIV-positive Motherhood between Inner and Outer Reality
5. Minding Baby’s Body
Minding Baby’s Body: ‘Oh God, maybe He’s Like Me’
Imagining the Baby’s Body
Observing the Baby’s Body
The Promise of Medicine
The End of the Wait
Conclusion
6. Mother’s Mind
Maternal Attentiveness
Lukanyo
Dikeledi
The Interruption of the Mother–Infant Relationship by HIV
The loss of breastfeeding
Conclusion
7. Mother’s Body
The Largely Absent Mother’s Body
The Mother’s Body Powerfully Evoked as an Infecting Body
The Infected Mother’s Body most Visible through Stories of other Mothers
The Baby’s Status Changing the Mother’s Body
Conclusion
8. Thula Mama
Nombeko: Love and Hate
Nonyameko: Life and Death
Joyce: Alone in Context
Tragedy and Joy
Conclusion
9. Contradicting Maternity
The Mother of a Baby: A Secondary Position
Good or Bad Mother?
The Mother Herself: A Primary Position
Appendix: Interview Content
Bibliography
Index
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Contradicting Maternity
HIV-positive motherhood in South Africa
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When Pumla told her boyfriend that she was positive, he ‘chased’ her away, ‘and he said to me, “if you call me and accuse me of that, you’re wasting your time. You can see me that I’m happy, I’m healthy, I’m okay”’. He accused her of becoming infected through ‘sleeping around’ and denied any possibility that he may be infected. He had seen the baby once since he was born, but denies paternity.
Left with nowhere to live, Pumla approached her mother and disclosed her status. At first her mother was supportive, but, when her baby was a few days old, told her to leave and not come back: ‘I’m finished with your child.’ Pumla thinks that her mother assumed that she and her baby would become sick immediately and did not want the scandal associated with an AIDS-related death, that her mother blamed Pumla for becoming infected, and that ‘it’s my fault, because I didn’t listen to her’. When I asked what her relationship with her family had been like before her diagnosis, she said that she was ‘very, very close’ to her mother:
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