This Is Not the Life I Ordered

This Is Not the Life I Ordered
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Become Your Own Life Coach An inspirational book of self-care.  For over a decade, four women came together for weekly “kitchen table coaching” sessions that they designed to enable them to support each other through life’s ups and downs. The power and strength of their collective friendship has enabled them to not only survive but to thrive, and the remarkable results can be found in this collection of lessons, stories, and wisdom. With this book, you can learn how to turn any unfortunate event into a joy-filled opportunity. Overcome adversity, embrace change, and discover your power—together.  In addition to stories and advice,  This Is Not the Life I Ordered  will teach you how to put together your own gathering of kitchen-table friends. At the end of each section, you will find tools that you can work with as a group to help each other grow, learn, and thrive. Don't get stuck telling your friends that «everything happens for a reason» over and over again—learn how to encourage them effectively and love them well. Show yourself and others compassion, kindness, and forgiveness.  Part autobiography, part self-help book, and all useful and actionable content, the authors and friends pulled from their experiences supporting one another to help you do the same. If you are struggling with work, family, love, or just life in general,  This Is Not the Life I Ordered  is for you. In this book, you'll find advice and stories that will help you grow to be better than before. Topics include: Managing misfortuneFinding courageUnderstanding moneyReinventing yourselfLearning to love your mistakesFacing naysayersAnd much more! Readers of motivational books and personal growth books like  Tell Me More ,  On Being Human , and  Carry On, Warrior  will be inspired by  This Is Not the Life I Ordered .

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Deborah Collins Stephens. This Is Not the Life I Ordered

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CONTENTS

ACKNOWLEDGMENTS

INTRODUCTION TO THE. SECOND EDITION: HOPE REMAINS A STRATEGY (ALWAYS)

WHAT'S NEW?

WHO ARE WE?

PREFACE: SLIGHTLY LESS THAN WORST-CASE SCENARIOS

When Bad Things Happen to Smart Women

Kitchen-Table Friends

Surviving and Thriving

So, How's Your Life?

FOREWORD

Just Deal with It

You Don't Die from Not Being Liked

Perseverancia

CHAPTER ONE. MANAGING MISFORTUNE

1. CONVENE A GATHERING OF KITCHEN-TABLE FRIENDS

Find One Safe Place to Tell Your Story

Seven Steps for Forming a Kitchen-Table Group

2. TRANSCEND MISFORTUNATE EVENTS

Jungle Encounter

3. WHEN LEFT ON THE TARMAC, START WALKING

Three Minutes from Death

One Step Forward, One Day at a Time

Life Gives No Guarantees

4. WHEN LIFE IS NOT WHAT YOU ORDERED, BEGIN AGAIN

Death and Divorce

Moving On

Am I Dating . . . or Not?

5. LEARN THE SECRETS OF THE BLUE-HAIRED LADY

Blue Hair on Fridays

Obstacles and Possibilities

Light Travels Through Broken Places

This Isn't My First Rodeo

Endings

6. WHEN YOU ARE STANDING AT THE EDGE OF THE POOL, JUMP IN

Hide-and-Seek

A Family Full of Secrets

Where in the World Is Zimbabwe?

7. LISTEN TO THE CHILDREN

Minus One at the Dinner Table

If It's Worth Doing, It's Worth Overdoing

Sorry to Hear That

Not Gone—Just on a Long Vacation

Why Don't We Have a Daddy?

Choose Your Own Path

Always Rise

I'll Be There

WIT KIT TOOLS FOR MANAGING MISFORTUNE

CHAPTER TWO. LEARNING TO LOVE MISTAKES

8. BE WILLING TO MAKE GREAT MISTAKES

Creative Accidents

The Theory of “Oops”

9. GIVE UP THINKING THAT YOU CAN DO IT ALL

You've Come a Long Way, Baby

Find Fifteen Minutes

10. CREATE “TO-DON'T” LISTS

Misguided Pride in Multi-Tasking

Are You on the List?

11. NEVER UNDERESTIMATE YOURSELF

Polite and Waiting for My Turn

Don't Be Your Own Worst Enemy

12. DON'T WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE. DEPRESSED OR DESPERATE (OR BOTH) TO NETWORK

Do You End When a Job Ends?

Tending and Befriending

13. DON'T BELIEVE THAT TO. SUCCEED YOU MUST BE “MORE LIKE A MAN.”

Think Like a Woman

14. MOVE ON, MOVE UP, OR MOVE OUT

Learn to Be Comfortable with Being Uncomfortable

15. TRUST IN GOD, BUT ROW AWAY FROM ROCKS

They'll Take Care of Me

Never Make Assumptions

Moving On

16. LISTEN TO YOUR INNER VOICE

Nagging Doubts

17. REALIZE THAT RISKS ARE PART OF THE PACKAGE

Take Wise Risks

Do You Dare?

WIT KIT TOOLS FOR LEARNING TO LOVE MISTAKES

CHAPTER THREE. MAKE COURAGE AN EVERYDAY COMPANION

18. KNOW IT'S THE OBSTACLES IN THE STREAM THAT MAKE IT SING

Courage Needs a Partner

19. REALIZE THAT COURAGE OFTEN MEANS LETTING GO

Holding On and Letting Go

Positive Attitudes Are Underrated

20. DEVELOP A FUNNY BONE

Stressed Is Desserts Spelled Backward

21. WALK THROUGH FIELDS OF FEAR

The Killing Fields

Learn to Walk Through Fear

22. BE BRAVE ON YOUR OWN BEHALF

The Mom from Petaluma

A Mom on a Mission

Rock the Boat

23. EARN YOUR OWN RED BADGE OF COURAGE

The Steely Look of Resolve

Courage in Everyday Life

24. LET YOURSELF CRY WHEN TINKER BELL DIES

The Courage to Stay

25. WEAR A COURAGE BRACELET

Sweaty Palms

Don't Sit in the Audience of Life

26. KNOW THAT COURAGE ISN'T ONLY FOR HEROES

Courage Roars When You Find Your Voice

Calling Foul

WIT KIT TOOLS FOR MAKING COURAGE AN EVERYDAY COMPANION

CHAPTER 4. UNDERSTANDING MONEY

27. WHEN YOU ARE SHORT ON DOLLARS, BE RICH IN SPIRIT

Self-Made Women

Women Hold the Purse Strings

28. LEARN THE LESSONS FROM THE DREAM HOUSE ON CHATEAU DRIVE

In Just That Moment

29. DON'T WAIT UNTIL YOUR FINANCIAL DNA IS ON LIFE SUPPORT

Simply Because We Are Women

Income Potential versus Income Reality

30. REALIZE THAT OZZIE AND HARRIET ARE LONG GONE

Harriet Left the House Without Her Cash

31. FOLLOW YOUR CASH SO IT. DOESN'T END UP IN SOMEONE ELSE'S POCKET

Women Have the Money Gene

Deal with the Big When It Is Small

WIT KIT TOOLS FOR. UNDERSTANDING MONEY

CHAPTER FIVE. WHEN LIFE IS NOT WHAT YOU ORDERED, BEGIN AGAIN

32. NEVER SAY NEVER

Change Is Messy

The Power of Words

Persist; Don't Retreat

33. JUST SIT WITH IT

34. INVENT A SECRET LANGUAGE FOR CHANGE

Dreaded Questions

Our Secret Language

35. SAY THE UNSAYABLE

Speak Your Truth

WIT KIT TOOLS FOR WHEN LIFE. IS NOT WHAT YOU ORDERED

CHAPTER SIX. REINVENTING YOURSELF

36. RECOGNIZE THAT CHOCOLATE. HAS TO MELT IN ORDER TO TAKE A NEW FORM

Melting Down

Getting Back “In Play”

37. WHEN DREAMS TURN TO DUST, VACUUM

Reclaiming Hope

38. DON'T TAKE THE CRUMBS; YOU'RE HERE FOR THE WHOLE CAKE

Settling or Choosing?

39. BE GRATEFUL THE DOG. DIDN'T PEE ON THE CARPET

The Power of Gratitude

Gratitude as a Healing Force

A Pearl of Gratefulness

40. DON'T COMPLAIN; CREATE

Rising from the Ashes

WIT KIT TOOLS FOR. REINVENTING YOURSELF

CHAPTER 7. CARRYING WHAT CANNOT BE FIXED

THE CLUB NO ONE WISHED TO JOIN

41. LAUGH IN THE DARK

42. FORM A MERRY WIDOWS CLUB

Walking on the Skin of Ruins

43. BUILD YOUR OWN “KITCHEN CABINET.”

Help Is a Gift—You're Worth It

44. ASK FOR HELP

Don't Power On and Manage Through

45. CHANGE YOUR ENVIRONMENT, CHANGE YOUR LIFE

Psychological Decluttering

46. JUST CLEAN SOMETHING

WIT KIT TOOLS FOR CARRYING. WHAT CANNOT BE FIXED

CHAPTER EIGHT. FACING NAYSAYERS

47. PERSIST

Being a Different Drummer

Energy Vampires

48. LISTEN TO YOUR BELIEFS, NOT YOUR DOUBTS

The World Belongs to Dreamers

49. TAKE BACK YOUR POWER

Advocate for You

50. REFUSE TO BE IMPRISONED. BY YOUR PAST

Resilience Is Something You Do

Esteem-able Acts

WIT KIT TOOLS FOR. FACING NAYSAYERS

CHAPTER NINE. REBOUNDING FROM MISTAKES, MISERY, AND MAYHEM

51. UNDERSTAND THAT SUCCESS. OFTEN COMES DISGUISED AS A DUMB IDEA

Greatness Stems from Dumb and Weird

52. SEEK OUT A DREAM CATCHER

Dream Big

The Power of Dreaming

53. SCHEDULE A PAINT DATE

Garage Artists

Wisdom for Breakfast

54. FIND THREE WISE WOMEN

Finding Wisdom

WIT KIT TOOLS FOR. REBOUNDING FROM MISTAKES, MISERY, AND MAYHEM

CHAPTER 10. DESIGNING YOUR LIFE

55. DISRUPT YOURSELF

Never Waste a Good Crisis

56. THINK LIKE AN ENGINEER

The Ten-Year Itch

57. BE CURIOUS

WIT KIT TOOLS FOR DESIGNING. YOUR LIFE

CHAPTER ELEVEN. LIGHT A CANDLE IN THE DARK

58. SHINE A LIGHT, DON'T CURSE. THE DARK

Fire and Spark

Frequent Flyer

No Emotion Is Ever Final

59. LEARN TO FORGIVE

Betrayal Stings

Forgiveness Heals

From Victim to Leader

60. APPLY THESE LESSONS LEARNED

Wiser and Richer

WIT KIT TOOLS FOR LIGHTING A. CANDLE IN THE DARK

EPILOGUE

DON'T REINVENT THE WHEEL

MAKE A COMEBACK

WORK AT IT

FIND THE UNEXPECTED JOY

REFERENCES. 5. LEARN THE SECRETS OF THE. BLUE-HAIRED LADY

8. BE WILLING TO MAKE GREAT MISTAKES

12. DON'T WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE DEPRESSED. OR DESPERATE (OR BOTH) TO NETWORK

14. MOVE ON, MOVE UP, OR MOVE OUT

17. REALIZE THAT RISKS ARE PART OF THE PACKAGE

21. WALK THROUGH FIELDS OF FEAR

25. WEAR A COURAGE BRACELET

26. KNOW THAT COURAGE ISN'T ONLY OWNED BY HEROES

27. WHEN YOU ARE SHORT ON DOLLARS, BE RICH IN SPIRIT

29. DON'T WAIT UNTIL YOUR FINANCIAL DNA IS ON LIFE SUPPORT

37. WHEN DREAMS TURN TO DUST, VACUUM

38. DON'T TAKE THE CRUMBS; YOU'RE HERE FOR THE WHOLE CAKE

39. BE GRATEFUL THE DOG DIDN'T PEE ON THE CARPET

CHAPTER 7: CARRYING WHAT CANNOT BE FIXED

47. PERSIST

50. REFUSE TO BE IMPRISONED BY YOUR PAST

52. SEEK OUT A DREAM CATCHER

54. FIND THREE WISE WOMEN

55. DISRUPT YOURSELF

57. BE CURIOUS

58. SHINE A LIGHT, DON'T CURSE THE DARK

59. LEARN TO FORGIVE

ABOUT THE AUTHORS

TO OUR READERS

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“This book is an object lesson in the power of friendship—and the power of perseverance. The four fearless women who wrote it share their remarkable stories—featuring incredible highs and heartbreaking lows—and in the process show us how to overcome the fears that limit us. It's funny, inspiring, and practical—often all at the same time. Put the most entertaining episode of TheView in a blender with Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood, and you'd get This Is Not the Life I Ordered. It's a book you'll want to order a stack of, so you can share it with your girlfriends and your daughters.”

—Arianna Huffington, author of On Becoming Fearless

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The Club No One Wished to Join

41. Laugh in the dark.

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