Whose Life is it Anyway?
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Deborah Thomson. Whose Life is it Anyway?
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Dedicated to my youngest daughter for encouraging
me to leave before it was too late.
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Refusal to admit responsibility - Others are always to blame. The abuser never believes they are at fault. This is another form of mental abuse where the abuser convinces you that you are solely to blame for the abuse and that it is your responsibility alone to change. You are made responsible for their feelings: you must make them feel better, you make them angry. Comments such as: ‘I wouldn’t act this way if you didn’t …’ and similar ones are recurrent.
Emotional control - Guilt-trips are commonly used to control you. Abusers dictate the way you feel and withdraw their affection if you don’t act the way they want you to.
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