Predators Live Among us
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Diane Roblin Lee. Predators Live Among us
From Ward Cleaver to Homer Simpson
The 21st Century plague - sexual child abuse
Oprah’s next job
Who says what is right or wrong?
Child sex abuse defined
Prevalence
Some known consequences of child sexual abuse
Maintaining perspective
Abuse add-ons
Economic factors
Denial
Known incidents—the tip of the iceberg
Incest—the family secret
A prevalent myth
What are they THINKING?
Why all the fuss?
Notes:
Why do they do it???
Dr. Jeckyll – Mr. Hyde
Child molester or pedophile?
The newest twist to the oldest perversion
Victims as child molesters
Recognize the Warning Signs
The manipulative molester
The “moment”
Who is the Predator?
Notes:
Teaching the importance of being trustworthy
We’re living in a different world
Kicking it up a notch
Whom Can We Trust?
The “grooming” process
Managing the Internet
Managing the Internet means..
If you suspect..
Let the law deal with it
Community Protection
In Remembrance of Victoria
Plan to Protect
Notes:
Double whammy
The iHeart?
The porn factor
The New Crack Cocaine
Why do pedophiles go to church?
The God factor
Flawed doctrine—or flawed people?
The mind of the predator in church
Priests, Ministers or Rabbis—who’s real?
SNAP
Sexual abuse in the church is nothing new
The godly majority
Redeeming the Church as a place for healing
The Healing Circle By Melodie Bissell, President, Winning Kids Inc
Parameters of Spirituality
Child Abuse Defined
The Spiritual Impact of Childhood Abuse
The Importance of Therapy
The Response of the Church
The Healing Circle Model. What it is:
What The Healing Circle Will Do:
The Recommended Process for Implementation:
The Healing Circle is Committed to:
Notes:
In-your-face smut
The “pornographication52” of society
A Public Health Hazard
Who the heck looks at child pornography?
From statistics to real people
Erotica or pornography?
A harmless pacifier?
Virtual crack cocaine
Are you raising a child molester?
Why do they do it???
Women and pornography
The depths of hell
My task
The link between child sexual abuse and pornography
Pornography as child sexual abuse
The Internet - Trojan horse of the 20th Century
Heroes of the day
Internet deterrents
Accepting responsibility
Getting Help
A few links to freedom:
Notes:
Victim or victor?
Damaging and healing the brain
Forgetting—in the sense of “setting aside”
Who Switched Off My Brain?
The heart as a mini-brain
Positive affirmations
Activation of the will
Pushing past bitterness
Anne’s story of forgiveness
The battlefield of the brain
Healthy brain – healthy body
Forgiving God
Renewing the mind
Memree
Notes:
Providing an atmosphere conducive to healing
Healthy and unhealthy coping skills
The myths of isolation
Willingness to be open
Helping loved ones who have been abused
How does one “fix” a broken child?
From Angela to angel
Purpose in pain
Getting there
Parental response
Past—or present and future?
Forgiveness
The confusion of misplaced guilt
Listen and love unconditionally
Forget the hammer
Therapy?
Amazing developments
Exploiting child sexual abuse
Intervention
Prayer
The story of Sandra84
David’s Sword85
Notes:
The high cost of recidivism
Preventing recidivism (repeat offending)
When first line prevention hasn’t worked
Can treatment guarantee change?
An integrated perspective - incarcerative punishment, psychiatric treatment and Restorative Justice
Why do we need more than prison and treatment?
What is “Restorative Justice?”
And then there’s the family..
Recycling humanity
Supporting or shunning?
Plan to Protect™
Natural inclinations or wisdom?
RFID (radio frequency identification) bracelet or implanted chip tracking
A public sex-offender registry
Jail-house religion—or restorative faith?
The responsibility of the church
The XXX church
The Bursey model for re-integration into a church
A Pastor’s Perspective
Conclusion
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How could a wife be married for 38 years and not know her husband had begun to molest children 25 years prior to being charged? It sounds impossible, but that was my experience. Because it is obviously very difficult to recognize the predators who live among us, I have researched and written this book in an attempt to bring something positive out of the devastation exacted upon our family. By sharing my hard-won insight, I hope to help parents and grandparents be more effective in protecting their little ones and escape the shattering fallout of child sexual abuse.
The purpose behind Predators Live Among Us – Protect Your Family From Child Sexual Abuse is sevenfold:
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“Imagine a childhood disease that affects one in five girls and one in seven boys before they reach 18 (Finkelhor & Dziuba-Leatherman, 1994): a disease that can cause dramatic mood swings, erratic behavior, and even severe conduct disorders among those exposed; a disease that breeds distrust of adults and undermines the possibility of experiencing normal sexual relationships; a disease that can have profound implications for an individual’s future health by increasing the risk of problems such as substance abuse, sexually transmitted diseases, and suicidal behavior (Crowell & Burgess, 1996); a disease that replicates itself by causing some of its victims to expose future generations to its debilitating effects.
“Imagine what we, as a society, would do if such a disease existed. We would spare no expense. We would invest heavily in basic and applied research. We would devise systems to identify those affected and provide services to treat them. We would develop and broadly implement prevention campaigns to protect our children. Wouldn’t we?
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