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BIRTH ORDER & YOU
1. Why Birth Order Matters
a. The Family Context
1. Circumstantial differences
2. Emotional differences
3. The external world
b. Family Identity
c. Sibling Distinctiveness
d. Sex
e. How Siblings React To Each Other
f. Ongoing Effects of Birth Order
g. Purpose of This Book
h. Using The Information
2. How Birth Order Affects Relationships
a. Your Spouse
b. Your Friends
c. Your Parents
1. The effect of birth order — theirs and yours
2. Learning to relate to the opposite sex
d. Your Children
e. Your Adult Siblings
f. People At Work
3. Finding The Description of Your Sex And Birth Order Position
a. Circumstances of Birth
1. Order of birth
2. Sex
3. Number of years between siblings
4. Sex of the siblings
5. Birth order of the same-sex parent
b. Being Aware of Birth Order
4. Older And Wiser: Oldest Children In General
a. General Characteristics
b. As A Spouse
c. As A Parent
d. As A Friend
e. At Work
f. To The Parents of An Oldest Child
g. To The Adult Oldest Child
5. Oldest Sisters
a. Oldest Sister of Sisters. 1. General characteristics
2. As a spouse
3. As a parent
4. As a friend
5. At work
6. To the parents of an oldest sister of sisters
7. To the adult oldest sister of sisters
b. Oldest Sister of Brothers. 1. General characteristics
2. As a spouse
3. As a parent
4. As a friend
5. At work
6. To the parents of an oldest sister of brothers
7. To the adult oldest sister of brothers
c. Oldest Sister of Brothers And Sisters
6. Oldest Brothers
a. Oldest Brother of Brothers. 1. General characteristics
2. As a spouse
3. As a parent
4. As a friend
5. At work
6. To the parents of an oldest brother of brothers
7. To the adult oldest brother of brothers
b. Oldest Brother of Sisters. 1. General characteristics
2. As a spouse
3. As a parent
4. As a friend
5. At work
6. To the parents of an oldest brother of sisters
7. To the adult oldest brother of sisters
c. Oldest Brother of Brothers And Sisters
7. Oh, You Beautiful Baby: Youngest Children In General
a. General Characteristics
b. As A Spouse
c. As A Parent
d. As A Friend
e. At Work
f. To The Parents of A Youngest Child
g. To The Adult Youngest Child
8. Youngest Sisters
a. Youngest Sister of Sisters. 1. General characteristics
2. As a spouse
3. As a parent
4. As a friend
5. At work
6. To the parents of a youngest sister of sisters
7. To the adult youngest sister of sisters
b. Youngest Sister of Brothers. 1. General characteristics
2. As a spouse
3. As a parent
4. As a friend
5. At work
6. To the parents of a youngest sister of brothers
7. To the adult youngest sister of brothers
c. Youngest Sister of Sisters And Brothers
9. Youngest Brothers
a. Youngest Brother of Brothers. 1. General characteristics
2. As a spouse
3. As a parent
4. As a friend
5. At work
6. To the parents of a youngest brother of brothers
7. To the adult youngest brother of brothers
b. Youngest Brother of Sisters. 1. General characteristics
2. As a spouse
3. As a parent
4. As a friend
5. At work
6. To the parents of a youngest brother of sisters
7. To the adult youngest brother of sisters
c. Youngest Brother of Brothers And Sisters
10. Betwixt And Between: Middle Children
a. General Characteristics
b. As A Spouse
c. As A Parent
d. As A Friend
e. At Work
f. To The Parents of A Middle Child
g. To The Adult Middle Child
11. One Of A Kind: Only Children In General
a. General Characteristics
b. As A Spouse
c. As A Parent
d. As A Friend
e. At Work
f. To The Parents of An Only Child
12. The Male Only Child
a. General Characteristics
b. As A Spouse
c. As A Parent
d. As A Friend
e. At Work
f. To The Parents of A Male Only Child
g. To The Adult Male Only Child
13. The Female Only Child
a. General Characteristics
b. As A Spouse
c. As A Parent
d. As A Friend
e. At Work
f. To The Parents of A Female Only Child
g. To The Adult Female Only Child
14. Two Peas In A Pod: Twins
a. Physiology of Twinship
b. Reaction of Parents
c. The Twins’ Birth Order Characteristics
d. Personality Development
e. The Closeness of Twins
f. Special Challenges For Twins
g. To The Parents of Twins
15. Exceptions And Variations: Factors That Alter The Usual Traits of Birth Order And Sex
a. Loss of Parents In Childhood
1. Death of a parent
2. Divorce
b. Remarriage
c. Death of A Sibling
d. Death of Other Family Members
e. Adoption
f. Disabilities
g. Anxiety In The Family
h. Large Families
16. Parenting Your Children of Different Birth Orders
a. Dealing With Jealousy
b. Discouraging Competitiveness
c. Accepting The Differences Among Your Children
d. Don’t Assign Roles
e. Providing Equal Opportunities
f. Don’t Treat Them Identically
g. Parenting Out of Your Own Birth Order
h. Divorced Parents
i. Your Children Are Not Your Siblings
17. Siblings As A Psychological Resource
Exploring Your Experience As A Sibling
Appendix: Basis of Research
Bibliography. a. Psychology
b. Autobiographies And Biographies
About The Authors
Notice to Readers
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Contents
Give me a child for the first seven years and you may do what you like with him afterwards.
Jesuit saying
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And, of course, genetic research is increasing our understanding of biological differences between the sexes.
Parents usually get the blame or credit for the way their children turn out. However, brothers and sisters in the family have a profound effect as well. Children — except for only children or oldest children for the first few years of life — develop in great measure by relating to their siblings and struggling to establish a separate identity within the family. By age five or six, this identity and the accompanying personality traits are more or less set. These early experiences in the family far outweigh the later influences of school, church, clubs, and friendships.
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