Trans Teen Survival Guide
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Fox Fisher. Trans Teen Survival Guide
WHAT IS GENDER, REALLY?
GENDER ROLES ARE NOT DEAD – BUT THEY SHOULD BE
HOW DO I DO IT?
Support
Unsupportive family and friends
Living stealth
EXAMPLES OF COMING-OUT LETTERS
COMING-OUT STORIES
NEW NAME, NEW BEGINNING
PERSONAL STORIES
PLEASE ASK ME MY PRONOUNS
STARTING TO USE YOUR RIGHT NAME AND PRONOUN
CHANGING YOUR NAME LEGALLY
CHANGING YOUR GENDER LEGALLY
USEFUL LINKS
GENDER EXPRESSION AND PRESENTATION
PASSING AND PERCEPTION
SEXUAL ORIENTATION, BODIES AND DATING
FEMININITY, MASCULINITY AND ANDROGYNY
BINDING
PACKING
PADDING
HAIRSTYLES
DRESSES AND SKIRTS
SHIRTS AND BLOUSES
HOODIES AND JUMPERS
SHOES, SHOES, SHOES
HATS, BEANIES AND CAPS
JEANS
JACKETS
SUITS
HOW DYSPHORIA MANIFESTS
HOW TO ALLEVIATE DYSPHORIA AND EXPERIENCE GENDER EUPHORIA
PERSONAL STORIES
UH OH, IT’S PUBERTY
PUBERTY FOR AFAB PEOPLE
PUBERTY FOR AMAB PEOPLE
PUBERTY BLOCKERS: PUTTING PUBERTY ON PAUSE
BUT HOW DO I COPE?
THE CHOICE IS YOURS
CROSS-HORMONES: THE O AND THE T
T-GEL AND T-SHOTS
THE EFFECTS OF T
HAIR GROWTH AND ENCOURAGING MORE OF IT
BUM FLUFF AND OTHER FACIAL FUR
EFFECTS OF T ON YOUR JUNK
OESTROGEN PILLS, PATCHES AND INJECTIONS
THE EFFECTS OF O
BREAST SIZE AND HOW TO MEASURE YOUR BRA SIZE
HAIR GROWTH AND HOW TO COMBAT IT
EFFECTS OF TESTOSTERONE BLOCKERS AND OESTROGEN ON YOUR JUNK
GETTING HORMONES ONLINE – DESPERATE TIMES LEAD TO DESPERATE MEASURES
HORMONES: PERSONAL STORIES
WHAT DO OTHERS USE?
VAGINOPLASTY
METOIDIOPLASTY
PHALLOPLASTY
TOP SURGERY
BREAST AUGMENTATION
FACIAL FEMINISATION SURGERY (FFS)
VOCAL TRAINING AND VOCAL SURGERY
PREPPING FOR SURGERY AND POST-CARE
DATING IN THE MODERN WORLD: DATING APPS
SO WHEN DO I TELL PEOPLE?
WHAT IS FETISHISATION?
TRANS REPRESENTATION IN THE MEDIA
SPEAKING OUT IN THE MEDIA AND THE RESPONSIBILITY THAT THIS ENTAILS
BEING APPROACHED AND WHAT TO KEEP IN MIND
GETTING PAID
SELF-CARE
PREPARING FOR AN INTERVIEW
BEING APPROACHED BY PRODUCTION COMPANIES
RESOURCES
WHY DOCUMENT YOUR JOURNEY?
DIFY – DO IT FOR YOURSELF
BUT HOW?
A YOUTUBER’S EXPERIENCE
GETTING INVOLVED WITH ORGANISATIONS OR GROUPS
MAKE YOUR OWN GROUP
WRITING A BLOG
ACTIVISM AND CAMPAIGNING
READ A GOOD BOOK
MEDITATE
PLAY VIDEO GAMES
MAKE ART
MUSIC: SING, PLAY AN INSTRUMENT OR SIMPLY ENJOY IT
HANG OUT WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY
COOK AND EAT GOOD FOOD
PHYSICAL ACTIVITIES
TEND TO YOUR HOBBIES IN GENERAL
SURROUND YOURSELF WITH SUPPORTIVE PEOPLE
WHAT ARE YOUR HOPES FOR THE FUTURE?
ORGANISATIONS AND PROJECTS
All About Trans: positively changing how the media understands and portrays transgender people
Diversity Role Models
Gendered Intelligence: understanding gender diversity in creative ways
Gender Identity Research & Education Society (GIRES)
International LGBTI Association (ILGA)
International LGBTQI Youth and Student Organisation (IGLYO): head and heart for change
Mermaids: embrace, empower, educate
Museum of Transology: my transness cannot be defined by a single image
My Genderation: films about trans people, made by trans people
QTIPOC Brighton
Scottish Trans Alliance: creating change together
Stonewall: acceptance without exception
Transgender Equality Network Ireland (TENI)
Transgender Europe (TGEU)
Trans Pride: putting the T first
HELPLINES AND SUPPORT IN THE UK
LGBT Switchboard: a place for calm words when you need them most
Samaritans
Tumblr support site: The Transgender Teen Survival Guide
BOOKS, BOOKS, BOOKS!
Are You a Boy or Are You a Girl? by Sarah Savage and Fox Fisher
A Queer and a Pleasant Danger by Kate Bornstein
Queer: A Graphic History by Meg-John Barker
Redefining Realness by Janet Mock
The Gender Games by Juno Dawson
To My Trans Sisters by Charlie Craggs
Trans Britain: Our Journey from the Shadows by Christine Burns
Trans Mission: My Quest to a Beard by Alex Bertie
SOME PEOPLE TO LOOK OUT FOR
WHEN AND HOW DO THEY KNOW?
WHAT DO I DO?
ALL TRANS PEOPLE WERE KIDS ONCE
Отрывок из книги
Jessica Kingsley Publishers
London and Philadelphia
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As it turns out, there is something that can be done about it. I haven’t always known it was possible to transition, which I suppose makes me pretty naïve, but even so, up until now I’ve been too terrified to make it a reality anyway. It took time, lots of time, for me to build up the courage to admit to myself that it would be a mistake to continue living as a male, and to understand that any apprehensions that I had about doing anything to solve my problems were very much outweighed by the problems themselves, and the implications that they would have on my wellbeing for the rest of my life.
So I am doing something about it. I am transitioning from male to female. It’s the only cure for my condition, and despite being scared to death I am strong enough to take it on. Here’s what this means. It means that at some time in the future, I will no longer be living as or identifying as a male. It means that I will be undergoing hormone replacement therapy to cancel out my body’s male hormones with female ones. It means that I will be physically developing as a female. In short, it means that I will be a female.
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