It’s Just a Date: A Guide to a Sane Dating Life
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Greg Behrendt. It’s Just a Date: A Guide to a Sane Dating Life
It’s Just a Date!
Contents
introduction. A Call To The Winner. Dater Within
WHAT IS A DATE?
BACK TO BASICS
REALITY CHECK!
MY NAME IS AMIIRA AND I’M A BAD DATER
THE GOOD THE BAD & THE SKILLET OR WHY I TRIED DATING by Greg
WHERE WOMEN BLOW IT by Amiira
WARNING!
the principal principles of dating for winners
The 8 Principles of dating success:
HERE’S THE DEAL …
principle #1: like yourself and know you’re worthy
BUT GREG, I HAVE QUESTIONS. But What If I’m Not Worthy?
But What If I Can’t Rebuild My Self-Esteem?
But What If I Do Like Myself?
But What If There’s Nothing To Like?
FROM THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FENCE. But What If It’s Not Me It’s Them?
THE CHICK THAT ROCKED IT
IT WORKED FOR ME!
FIRST PERSON SINGLE by Amiira
THOUGHTS FROM MAN CITY
DATING FORTUNE COOKIE
WORST DATE EVER
IT’s JUST YOUR F*#KING HAPPINESS
The Original World Famous Winner Dater’s Workbook
principle #2: get a life, have a life …
BUT GREG, I HAVE QUESTIONS. But What If His Schedule is Hard To Work Around?
But What If I’m Happy To Give Up My Life?
What If Not Canceling My Plans Doesn’t Work?
What If He Has No Life?
FROM THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FENCE. Where Can I Find A Life?
THE CHICK THAT BLEW IT
IT WORKED FOR ME!
FIRST PERSON SINGLE by Amiira
THOUGHTS FROM MAN CITY
DATING FORTUNE COOKIE
WORST DATE EVER
IT’S JUST A F*#KING ART MUSEUM
The Original World Famous Winner Dater’s Workbook
principle #3: pretty is as pretty does
FEELING PRETTY IS PRETTY
DON’T FORGET YOU’RE A WOMAN
… BUT NOT A PROSTITUTE
IT’S NOT JUST ABOUT YOUR BODY
BUT GREG, I HAVE QUESTIONS. What If The Thing I’m Putting Out There Attracts The Wrong Guys?
But What If I’m Not Pretty?
But What If I’m Stylistically Impaired?
But What If The Image I’m Trying To Project Is Eclipsed By My Wheelchair?
FROM THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FENCE. What If The Girl Of My Dreams Is Beautiful But Her Life Is A Mess?
THE GUY THAT BLEW IT AND THE CHICK THAT ROCKED IT
IT WORKED FOR ME
FIRST PERSON SINGLE by Amiira
THOUGHTS FROM MAN CITY
DATING FORTUNE COOKIE
ONE OF GREG’S WORST DATES EVER
IT’S JUST A F*#KING PULLING IT TOGETHER
The Original World Famous Winner Dater’s Workbook
principle #4: don’t accept less than an actual date
BUT GREG, I HAVE QUESTIONS. But What If Dating’s Too Much Pressure?
But What If He’s Too Shy To Ask Me Out?
But What If I’ve Already Had Sex With Him?
What If In College All You Did Was Hang Out?
FROM THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FENCE. Why Should I If I Don’t Have To?
THE GUY THAT BLEW IT AND THE CHICK THAT ROCKED IT
IT WORKED FOR ME!
FIRST PERSON SINGLE by Amiira
THOUGHTS FROM MAN CITY
DATING FORTUNE COOKIE
WORST DATE EVER
IT’S JUST A F*#KING DATE PT.1
The Original World Famous Winner Dater’s Workbook
principle #5: don’t freak people out with your need
BUT GREG, I HAVE QUESTIONS. But What If I Need To Know Where “It’s” Going Because I Have To RSVP For A Wedding?
Why Does It Freak Him Out That We’re Perfect For Each Other?
What If I Wasn’t Needy Then But I’m Feeling It Now?
Is There A Difference Between Being Needy And Being Honest?
FROM THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FENCE. How Do I Make Someone Back Off A Bit So They Don’t Wreck It?
THE CHICK THAT BLEW IT
MAYBE YOU GUYS ARE RIGHT
FIRST PERSON SINGLE by Amiira
THOUGHTS FROM MAN CITY
DATING FORTUNE COOKIE
WORST DATE EVER
HE’S JUST A F*#KING GUY
The Original World Famous Winner Dater’s Workbook
principle #6: doormats finish last and end up in the dirt
THE BIG DIFFERENCE BETWEEN STANDARDS AND DEAL BREAKERS
BUT GREG, I HAVE QUESTIONS. But What If I Know What I Want Regardless Of What You Call It?
Is It Ever Too Late To Have Standards?
Is Religion A Standard Or A Deal Breaker?
What If A Deal Breaker Is Unfair?
FROM THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FENCE. When Should I Settle?
THE CHICK THAT BLEW IT
MAYBE YOU GUYS ARE RIGHT
FIRST PERSON SINGLE by Amiira
THOUGHTS FROM MAN CITY
DATING FORTUNE COOKIE
WORST DATE EVER
IT’S JUST A F*#KING STANDARD
The Original World Famous Winner Dater’s Workbook
principle #7: don’t show the movie before the trailer
BUT GREG, I HAVE QUESTIONS. But What If I Waited and He Still Bailed?
But What If We Won’t See Each Other Again For Two Months?
But What If Sex Is The Only Way To Keep Him?
How Do You Turn Casual Sex Into Actual Dating?
FROM THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FENCE. What Does Waiting To Have Sex Really Mean?
THE CHICK WHO BLEW IT
MAYBE YOU GUYS ARE RIGHT
FIRST PERSON SINGLE by Amiira
THOUGHTS FROM MAN CITY
DATING FORTUNE COOKIE
WORST DATE EVER
IT’S JUST F*#KING SEX
The Original World Famous Winner Dater’s Workbook
What I Want To Know About Him
What I Want Him To Know About Me
principle #8: not every date is going to turn into a relationship
BUT GREG, I HAVE QUESTIONS. But Dating Online Goes Fast?
But What If A Situation Speeds It Up?
But What If I Can’t Help Myself?
But What If I’ve Already Rushed Into A Marriage?
FROM THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FENCE. But How Slow Is Too Slow?
THE CHICK THAT BLEW IT
THE CHICK THAT ROCKED IT
FIRST PERSON SINGLE by Amiira
THOUGHTS FROM MAN CITY
DATING FORTUNE COOKIE
WORST DATE EVER
IT’S JUST A F*#KING DATE PT.2
The Original World Famous Winner Dater’s Workbook
WARNING!
the essence of keeping it cool
The 6 Essences of dating success:
essence #1: there is no one place to meet guys
THE NEW LAW OF ATTRACTION by Greg
LOVE IN THE BREAKROOM
THAT’S JUST YOU LOOKING FOR A LOOPHOLE
Carpe Datem Rock’em Sock’em Superbook
essence #2: the power of suggestion
Let us show you how it’s done
THE PLAYS
ASKING MEN OUT by Greg
THE RIGHT SIGNALS by Amiira
Looks
Make Eye Contact
Flirting
Body Language
Engaging Him
What To Say
How to decline a date
THE NEW LAWS OF ATTRACTION by Greg
THAT’S JUST YOU LOOKING FOR A LOOPHOLE
Carpe Datem Rock’em Sock’em Superbook
bonus section: internet date-tacular!
HOW TO WRITE A GREAT PROFILE
The Photos
Ticking the boxes
The Headline
The Essays
essence #3: it’s just a f*#king first date!
Definitely Dos
Seriously Don’t’s
FIRST DATE FODDER by Amiira
TOO MUCH INFORMATION
LEAVE THE ROOM EARLY
DATING ALERT!
THE NEW LAWS OF ATTRACTION by Greg
THAT’S JUST YOU LOOKING FOR A LOOPHOLE
Carpe Datem Rock’em Sock’em Superbook
essence #4: first date follow up
WHAT DOES IT MEAN & WHAT DO YOU DO?
CONVERTING THE TEXT By Amiira
THE NEW LAWS OF ATTRACTION by Greg
THAT’S JUST YOU LOOKING FOR A LOOPHOLE
Carpe Datem Rock’em Sock’em Superbook
essence #5: 2nd date and beyond
THE NEW LAWS OF ATTRACTION by Greg
THAT’S JUST YOU LOOKING FOR A LOOPHOLE
Carpe Datem Rock’em Sock’em Superbook
essence #6: sexclusivity
CASUAL SEX CLAUSE by Greg
THE NEW LAWS OF ATTRACTION by Greg
THAT’S JUST YOU LOOKING FOR A LOOPHOLE
THE TIME WAITING TO HAVE SEX PAID OFF FOR ME by Amiira
Carpe Datem Rock’em Sock’em Superbook
closing words
YOU BOYZ N’ BOOZE!
EAGER IS FOR BEAVERS
ZIP IT!
Carpe Datem!
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Greg Behrendt and
Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt
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Dear Greg,
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