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Hank Ph.D. Estrada. UnHoly Communion-Lessons Learned from Life among Pedophiles, Predators, and Priests
Acknowledgements
Preface
Introduction
CHAPTER 1 “Go To Hell”
Adults Seduced By Clergy
CHAPTER 2. Religious Vocation
Catholic Priesthood
CHAPTER 3. Meeting Father John
July 4th Seduction
CHAPTER 4. Abandonment Aftermath
“Dear John” Letter
CHAPTER 5. Church Response
CHAPTER 6. Me Culpa
Adam
Tate
Holy Week Hustler
CHAPTER 7. Incest History
Who Will Protect Me?
Intimacy Learned
Child Acting Out
CHAPTER 8. Adolescence
CHAPTER 9. Assault Memory
CHAPTER 10. Flashback
CHAPTER 11. Back To A Secular Life
Single & Gay
Coming Out Letter
CHAPTER 12. Romanceless Dating
Jess & Sergio
CHAPTER 13. My Life Partner
Indecent Exposure
CHAPTER 14. Survivor Identity
First Male Survivor Organization
Adult Relationships
Sexual Identity Issues
CHAPTER 15. Non-Sexual Abuse
Holy Confirmation
CHAPTER 16. Perpetrators
Confronting Perpetrators
Unexpected Confrontation
Uncle’s Brother’s Revelation
CHAPTER 17. NAMBLA
Meltdown
CHAPTER 18. Father John Resurfaces
Shameful Church
“But he’s a real good man!”
CHAPTER 19. Church Watchdogs
Dysfunctional Family
CHAPTER 20. Finding Help
Survivor Beware!
S.N.A.P
CHAPTER 21. Advice For Parents
Advice For Non-Survivors
Survivors & Humor
CHAPTER 22. Good Clergy Disclaimer
Roots Of Celibacy
Church Future
CHAPTER 23. Conference Of Catholic Bishops
Settlements & Costs
The Southern Baptists claim 14.1% of their clergy have sexually assaulted members
Conclusion
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