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Foreword by Patrick Carnes, PhD
Acknowledgements
Part I: Introduction to a Holistic Approach to Clergy Sexual Misconduct
Chapter 1 - Church Systems, Ecology, and Clergy Sexual Misconduct. John Thoburn and Rob Baker
The Scope of the Problem
A Systems Approach
Intrapersonal Context
Interpersonal Context
Environmental Context
Health and Wholeness
References
Chapter 2 - Clergy Sexual Misconduct Overview: A Model for Prevention, Education, Treatment, and Oversight. Rob Baker and John Thoburn
A Model for Intervention, Restoration, and Oversight Regarding Clergy Sexual Misconduct
Administrative Oversight and Infrastructure
Assessment, Treatment, and Oversight of Clergy Sexual Misconduct. Assessment
Intervention and Treatment
Oversight
Prevention and Education of Clergy Sexual Misconduct
References
Part II: Prevention and Education for Clergy Sexual Misconduct
Chapter 3 - Prevention of Pastoral Sexual Misconduct. Mark R. Laaser
Assessment and Prevention
Sex Addiction and Vulnerability
Family
Role and Identity of Factors
Isolation
Trust
Self-Care and Asking for Help
Key Assessment Factors
Narcissism
Charisma
Shame
Dependency
Workaholism
History of Family-of-Origin Issues
History of Trauma
Presence of Anger
Emotional and Spiritual Immaturity
Attachment or Relational Issues
Isolation
Inability to Own Their Behaviors and Ask for Help
Assessing Candidates for Ministry
Conclusion
References
Part III: Treatment Considerations and Approaches to Interventions
Chapter 4 - Outpatient and Inpatient Intensive Treatment Models. Ken Wells, Ralph H. Earle, and Marcus R. Earle
Residential Treatment Programs
Intensive Outpatient Treatment Programs
Different Therapy Options for Both Inpatient and Outpatient Treatment
Eye Movement Desensitization Retraining (EMDR)
Somatic Experience Therapy
Psychodrama
Family Dynamic and Therapy
Offense Cycles and Intervention
Spiritual Crisis and Restoration
Reinstatement to Ministry
Impact and Healing Interventions for the Church
Organizational Factors
Rehabilitation and Restoration
References
Chapter 5 - The Etiology, Assessment, and Treatment Protocol of Clergy Sexual Offenders. Bill Lennon
The Etiology
The Arousal Template
Assessment
Treatment
Defining Effective Treatment
Recovery Is Possible
References
Part IV: Legal Implications of Clergy Sexual Misconduct
Chapter 6 - Clergy Liability for Sexual Misconduct. Miles M. Dewhirst and Crystal C. Littrell
Civil Liability
Criminal Liability
State of Colorado, Criminal Sentencing Penalties
State of Washington, Sentencing Penalties
Conclusion
Endnotes
References. Cases
Statutes
Other Authorities
Part V: Restoring Clergy Marriages, Spouses, and Families Impacted by Sexual Misconduct
Chapter 7 - Restoring the Clergy Marriage: A Pathway from Grief to Grace. Rob Baker
Healthy Developmental Dynamics
Development Gone Awry and Maladaptive Coping Detours
From Impaired Bonding to Sexual Acting-Out Patterns
Effective Approaches to Personal and Marital Restoration
A Model for Marital Healing and Reconciliation: Overview of the Two-Phase Approach
Phase One: Five Steps for Making Amends and Healing the Relationship
Phase Two: Reconciliation and Creating a Healthy Bonding Plan
References
Chapter 8 - Through Grief to Forgiveness: Disclosure, Grief, and Reconciliation. Sue Neufeld-Ellis
Phase One: Healing
Step One: Full Disclosure
Trauma and Grief
Anger
Acceptance
Step Two: Letter of Clarification of Responsibility
Step Three: Grief Response Letter
Step Four: Empathy Letter
Step Five: Forgiveness
Phase Two: Reconciliation
References
Chapter 9 - Working with Clergy Couples. Mark R. Laaser and Debbie Laaser
Three Equal Pieces of Recovery
Recovery of the Addict
Counseling and Support for the Spouse
Immediate Couples Therapy and Couples Group Therapy
Ask These Three Spiritual Questions
Question One: Are you willing to get well?
Question Two: What are you thirsty for?
Question Three: Are you willing to die to yourself and, if so, what are you willing to die for?
Disclosure
The Problem Is Never the Problem
Finding Meaning in Suffering and Pain
Forgiveness and New Commitment
Sacred Sex
Developing Vision
References
Chapter 10 - Support for Married Partners. Sonja Rudie, MA, LMHC, CSAT
Understanding and Educating the Married Partner
The Use of Pornography Married Partners View as Infidelity
Defining Critical Incidents, Trauma, and Grief
Disclosure and Secrets
Seeking Effective Treatment
Sarah's Story
Secondary Trauma
What Does Being Triggered Mean?
Cultivating a Culture of Recovery and Support
Falling into the Ethical Hole
Treatment, Recovery, and Forgiveness
Self-Care Is Not Selfish
Resolution of the Trauma: The New and the Old
Partners Often Want to Know If They Should Stay Married or Not
References
Chapter 11 - Family Therapy after Clergy Sexual Misconduct: A Treatment Model of Relational Integrity. Timothy T. Weber and Maria Dal Maso
Clergy and Spouse
Betrayal and Loss of Trust
Loss of Status and Friends
Economic Impact
Clergy Children
Betrayal and Loss of Trust
Loss of Status and Friends
Economic Impact
A Systemic Treatment Model
The Diamond Model of Relational Integrity
Learning
Trust
Vitality
Integrating Core Competencies of the Diamond Model into Therapy
Learning
Differentiation
Attunement
Honesty
Creativity
Clinical Application and Discussion
Structuring the Clergy Family Therapy Sessions
Stage 1: Initial Session
Stage 2: Initial Spousal and Individual Sessions
Stage 3: Inside/Outside Sessions
Stage 4: Introducing Children to the Therapy Process
Stage 5: Addressing Vulnerabilities and Developmental Challenges
Discussion
References
Part VI: Restoring Faith in the Church after Clergy Sexual Misconduct
Chapter 12 - The Battle the Church Faces. Ted Roberts
The Scope of Needed Healing
Foundational Principle 1
Foundational Principle 2
Foundational Principle 3
Foundational Principle 4
Foundational Principle 5
References
Chapter 13 - Sexual Integrity Education in the Church. Carrie Abbott
Prevention and Education
Sexuality Is More Than a Physical Act
There Must Be a Better Way
Key Features of the Relationships with Integrity Curriculum
References
Conclusion
About the Editors
About the Contributors
John Thoburn, MDiv, PhD ABPP
Rob Baker, MA, LMFT, LMHC, CSAT-S
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