With the End in Mind
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In this unprecedented book, palliative medicine pioneer Dr Kathryn Mannix explores the biggest taboo in our society and the only certainty we all share: death‘Impossible to read with dry eyes or an unaltered mindset’ Sunday TimesA SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER & BOOK OF THE YEARSHORTLISTED FOR THE WELLCOME BOOK PRIZETold through a series of beautifully crafted stories taken from nearly four decades of clinical practice, her book answers the most intimate questions about the process of dying with touching honesty and humanity. She makes a compelling case for the therapeutic power of approaching death not with trepidation but with openness, clarity and understanding.With the End in Mind is a book for us all: the grieving and bereaved, ill and healthy. Open these pages and you will find stories about people who are like you, and like people you know and love. You will meet Holly, who danced her last day away; Eric, the retired head teacher who, even with Motor Neurone Disease, gets things done; loving, tender-hearted Nelly and Joe, each living a lonely lie to save their beloved from distress; and Sylvie, 19, dying of leukaemia, sewing a cushion for her mum to hug by the fire after she has died.These are just four of the book’s thirty-odd stories of normal humans, dying normal human deaths. They show how the dying embrace living not because they are unusual or brave, but because that’s what humans do. By turns touching, tragic, at times funny and always wise, they offer us illumination, models for action, and hope. Read this book and you’ll be better prepared for life as well as death.
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Kathryn Mannix. With the End in Mind
Copyright
Dedication
Contents
Introduction
Reading the Label
Patterns
Unpromising Beginnings
French Resistance
Tiny Dancer
Wrecking Ball
Last Waltz
Pause for Thought: Patterns
My Way
That is the Question …
Never Let Me Go
Hat
Take My Breath Away
Pause for Thought: My Way
Naming Death
Second-Hand News
Slipping Through My Fingers
Talking About the Unmentionable
The Sound of Silence
Every Breath You Take (I’ll be Watching You)
Beauty and the Beast
Pause for Thought: Naming Death
Looking Beyond the Now
In the Kitchen at Parties
Please Release Me – A Side
Please Release Me – B Side
Travel Plans
With Love from Me to You
Pause for Thought: Looking Beyond the Now
Legacy
Something Unpredictable
The Year of the Cat
Post-Mortem
Needles and Pins
Lullaby
Pause for Thought: Legacy
Transcendence
Musical Differences
Deep Dreams
De Profundis
Perfect Day
‘Only the Good Die Young’
Pause for Thought: Transcendence
Last Words
Glossary
Resources and Helpful Information
Letter Template
Acknowledgements
About the Publisher
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In a life of stories, this book is dedicated with love to the tellers of tales:
to my parents, who gave me the words;
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‘I’m here, Mam,’ says Amy, ‘and Tanya’s on her way.’
‘Come and snuggle down with me,’ smiles Holly. Amy looks up at us. The leader moves back to leave space and nods at her. Amy lies down alongside her mum, and hugs her.
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