How to Be a People Magnet: Proven Ways to Polish Your People Skills
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Leil Lowndes. How to Be a People Magnet: Proven Ways to Polish Your People Skills
How to Be a People Magnet. Proven ways to polish your people skills
Leil Lowndes
Table of Contents
Introduction
CHAPTER ONE How to Show You’re a Somebody in Ten Seconds
The Flooding Smile
TECHNIQUE 1: The Flooding Smile
Sticky Eyes
TECHNIQUE 2 (FOR WOMEN): Sticky Eyes
TECHNIQUE 3 (FOR MEN): Sticky Eyes
Hang by Your Teeth
TECHNIQUE 4: Hang by Your Teeth
The Big-Baby Pivot
TECHNIQUE 5: The Big-Baby Pivot
Hello Old Friend
TECHNIQUE 6: Hello Old Friend
Limit the Fidget
TECHNIQUE 7: Limit the Fidget
Tune to the Silent Channel
TECHNIQUE 8: Tune to the Silent Channel
Watch the Scene Before You Make the Scene
TECHNIQUE 9: Watch the Scene Before You Make the Scene
CHAPTER TWO How to Make People Like You Instantly!
In Your Shoes
TECHNIQUE 10: In Your Shoes
Extra Beat of Your Blinkers
TECHNIQUE 11: Extra Beat of Your Blinkers
The Expanded Thank You
TECHNIQUE 12: The Expanded Thank You
Fine-Tuning Your Tongue
TECHNIQUE 13 (FOR MEN): Dis-Guys Your Dialogue
TECHNIQUE 14 (FOR WOMEN): De-Gurrl Your Dialogue
The Five-Star Handshake
TECHNIQUE 15: The Five-Star Handshake
CHAPTER THREE How to Make Small Talk Not So Small
The Mood Match
TECHNIQUE 17: Make a Mood Match
Prosaic with Passion
TECHNIQUE 18: Prosaic with Passion
Always Wear a Whatzit
TECHNIQUE 19: Always Wear a Whatzit
Whoozat?
TECHNIQUE 20: Whoozat?
Be a Word Detective
TECHNIQUE 21: Be a Word Detective
The Swivelling Spotlight
TECHNIQUE 22: The Swivelling Spotlight
Parroting
TECHNIQUE 23: Parroting
The Latest News … Don’t Leave Home Without It
TECHNIQUE 24: The Latest News … Don’t Leave Home Without It
CHAPTER FOUR How to Talk Like the Big Boys ‘n’ Girls
What Do You Do – NOT!
TECHNIQUE 25: What Do You Do – NOT!
The Right Way to Find Out?
Your Personal Thesaurus
TECHNIQUE 26: Your Personal Thesaurus
Kill the Quick ‘Me Too!’
TECHNIQUE 27: Kill the Quick ‘Me, Too!’
Don’t Touch a Cliché With a Ten-Foot Pole
TECHNIQUE 28: Don’t Touch a Cliché with a Ten-Foot Pole
Use Jawsmith’s Jive
TECHNIQUE 29: Use Jawsmith’s Jive
CHAPTER FIVE How to Be an Insider in Any Crowd
Scramble Therapy
TECHNIQUE 30: Scramble Therapy
Learn a Little Gobbledygook
TECHNIQUE 31: Learn a Little Gobbledygook
Baring Their Hotbutton
TECHNIQUE 32: Baring Their Hotbutton
Read Their Rags
TECHNIQUE 33: Read Their Rags
Clear ‘Customs’
TECHNIQUE 34: Clear ‘Customs’
CHAPTER SIX How to Build Rapport with Everyone You Meet
Be a Copycat
TECHNIQUE 35: Be a Copycat
Echoing
TECHNIQUE 36: Echoing
Employ Empathizers
TECHNIQUE 37: Employ Empathizers
The Premature We
TECHNIQUE 38: The Premature We
Instant History
TECHNIQUE 39: Instant History
CHAPTER SEVEN How to Make True and Lasting Friendships
Growing Your Gifts
TECHNIQUE 40: Growing Your Gifts
Ways to Say ‘I Love You’ to a Friend
TECHNIQUE 41: Plan a Sweet Surprise
TECHNIQUE 42: Little Gifts for Chums
Stand Up for Your Friends
TECHNIQUE 43: Stand Up for Your Friends
Talk to the ‘10s’
TECHNIQUE 44: Talk to the ‘10s’
Dare to be Different
TECHNIQUE 45: Dare to Be Different
Multicoloured Chums
TECHNIQUE 46: Multicoloured Chums
CHAPTER EIGHT How to Lure Lovers – and Keep Them!
Dress for the Kill – Everywhere
TECHNIQUE 47: Dress for the Kill - Everywhere
Look for a Lookalike
TECHNIQUE 48: Look for a Lookalike
Get Off Your Bottom!
TECHNIQUE 49: Weekly Off-Your-Bottom Promise
If You Want a Date, You Must Initiate
TECHNIQUE 50 (FOR WOMEN): If You Want to Date, You Must Initiate
Make the First Move – Fast
TECHNIQUE 51 (FOR MEN): Move Fast
I’m Hard to Get (But, for You, Baby)
TECHNIQUE 52 (FOR WOMEN): I’m Hard to Get (But, for You, Baby)
Creative Courting
TECHNIQUE 53: Creative Courting
Give First-Date Butterflies
TECHNIQUE 54: Give First-Date Butterflies
Hyperbole as Aphrodisiac
TECHNIQUE 55: Hyperbole as Aphrodisiac
Keep the Love Coals Warm
TECHNIQUE 55: Keep the Love Coals Warm
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Introduction
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Give everyone you meet the Big-Baby Pivot. The instant the two of you are introduced, reward your new acquaintance. Give the warm smile, the total-body turn and the undivided attention you would give a tiny tyke who crawled up to your feet, turned a precious face up to yours and beamed a big toothless grin. Pivoting 100 per cent toward New Person shouts ‘I think you are very, very special.’
Deep inside everyone is a big baby rattling the crib, wailing out for recognition of how very special he or she is.
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