The Wife Led Marriage is written for the married man who desires a female led relationship in their marriage. This a departure from the writings of a dominatrix type of author and dives into the world of supporting the husband wanting this relationship. The author provides the mental framework and some practical «how to» considerations to begin the transition into a female led relationship. Chances are your wife will not become a dominatrix, however, she may enjoy being empowered in the relationship and you may enjoying serving her willingly. This book leaves all the BDSM and fantasies to the side and dives into creating a loving wife led marriage. If you are a married man, this book will support you on your journey and specifically how to break the ice and start the conversation with your wife on her taking more leadership in the marriage.
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London Storm. The Wife Led Marriage
The Wife Led Marriage
Introduction
Chapter 1 The Wife Led Marriage
Chapter 2 Desire To Serve
Chapter 3 Setting the Pace
Chapter 4 Tools For Success
Chapter 5 Keeping Your Masculinity
Chapter 6 It Is a Process
Chapter 7 Breaking the Ice
Chapter 8 Stabilization
Chapter 9 Courage
Chapter 10 She’s the Boss
Chapter 11 Putting It All Together
Chapter 12 Separating Fantasy from Reality
Chapter 13 Asserting and Supporting Her Authority
Chapter 14 Final Thoughts
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As men we have this interesting mix of desires in juxtaposition with cultural influences of what a man should be and how a marriage should operate. My own view has been altered quite a bit on what a marriage can be versus what society says it should be, namely, having my wife lead the marriage. These alterations are more in line with my thoughts, feelings and desires in what I want from a marriage and support my strong desire to serve my wife. I find that these alterations when implemented in a loving manner create happiness for both partners and offer opportunities for us to expand our relationship to greater heights. This expansion covers all phases of the marriage, including intimacy, communication, self-care, home care, parenting, etc.
The reason I wrote this the guide is that I cannot speak for women. They are different than men. I can only speak for me and my experience in creating a wife led marriage in my own life. I also realize that I am not alone, a lot of men like me have submissive tendencies and the desire to serve their wives. My goal is that this guide will aide you in your journey towards what you want to create in your own relationship.
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Part of the challenge with creating a wife led marriage as a man, is all the cultural and psychological boundaries you may need to cross to get there. A wife led marriage is not a topic most people know about. You are going out on a ledge. And that is where your growth lies. A wife led marriage is fun, creative, exciting, scary and many more things. It is up to you and your better half to create it together.
This is part of the fun too, you have to get off your butt and do your part to create this. It will take desire, courage, vulnerability, trust, communications, patience and action to put this process in motion.