How to Survive Change . . . You Didn't Ask for
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M. J. Ryan. How to Survive Change . . . You Didn't Ask for
Contents
I. Welcome to “Permanent White Water”
II. Seven Truths About Change
CHANGE TRUTH #1
CHANGE TRUTH #2
CHANGE TRUTH #3
CHANGE TRUTH #4
CHANGE TRUTH #5
CHANGE TRUTH #6
CHANGE TRUTH #7
III. The Actions of a Change Master. STEP 1
Gather the Facts Like a Newspaper Reporter
What Other Information Do You Need?
The Truth Will Set You Free (Or at Least into Motion)
If You Can See It, It's Yours to Deal With
How Could This Be Good Luck?
“Worry Well”
What Core Issue Does This Trigger?
Relate to Your Fear
B—BODY
B—BREATH
L—LISTEN OUT
L—LISTEN IN
I—ACKNOWLEDGE THE “I” STORIES
S—SENSATIONS
S—SENSE
Send Out an SOS
Recognize If You're Milling
It's Good to Bitch and Moan but Not Forever
Get the 3Cs in Place
Choose Carefully Where You Put Your Attention
Avoid Shame by Remembering That Difficulties Can Happen to Anyone
Don't Waste Precious Time or Energy on Blame
Regret Well
Experience the Comfort of Forgiveness
Do the Three Blessings
Cultivate Your Witness Self
Stay Open to Miracles
Find the Gift in the Change
STEP 2: EXPAND YOUR OPTIONS
What Helps You Expand Your Thinking?
How Does Your Self-Concept Need to Change?
Seek Information Outside Your Box
Hedge Your Bets
Kill Your Little Darlings
Tap Into Your Inner Resources
What Other Resources Are Available?
Be Like the Native Americans
Create the Necessary Reserves
Don't Go into the Wilderness Without Your Compass
What Are Your Inner Talents?
Reexamine Your Priorities
Envision Your Next Chapter
Who Do You Need by Your Side?
Watch the Road, Not the Potholes
STEP 3: TAKE ACTION
Create a Story of Possibility
Make Deposits into Your Hope Account
Hope Is Not a Plan
Get the Balls in the Air
Think Through the Implications
Just Do One Thing
Ready, Fire, Aim
Evaluate Progress
If You're Not Stretching, You're Probably Missing Something
Do What's Needed
Build Your Brand
Get More Connected
Create a Change Masters Circle
Use an Inspiring Mantra to Keep Up Your Spirits
Focus on the Upside of Scaling Back
Allow Your Circumstances to Open Your Heart
STEP 4: STRENGTHEN ADAPTABILITY
Become a Lifelong Learner
Reflect on Your Learnings
IV. Twenty Quick Tips for Surviving Change You Didn't Ask For
V. Resources for More Support. CAREER
CREATIVITY
DEBT AND OTHER MONEY ISSUES
DIVORCE
DOWNSIZING
EMOTIONS
GENERAL ADVICE
GRATITUDE
INSPIRATION
INTENTION
MEDITATION
NEUROSCIENCE
PURPOSE
SELF-CONFIDENCE
STRESS
TALENTS
For Personal Support from Me
About the Author
To Our Readers
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“If you're struggling and think that one more book can't possibly make a difference, think again. M.J. Ryan has the rare gift of breaking things down into clear pieces that can be tackled.”
—Laura Berman Fortgang, author of Now What?: 90 Days to a New Life Direction
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Reexamine Your Priorities
Envision Your Next Chapter
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