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«You are happy until you see someone happier than you.» (Author’s words)

Have you ever thought that most of us keep a chest of gold in our heads all our lives, but never use it? In fact, all wealth is not in the hands, it is in the brain! A person does not get rich with his hands, he gets rich with his brain. In general, famous people (stars) and rotten rich people are very worried about the loss of their reputation, personal safety and worldly property. Most famous and rich people are happy on the outside, not on the inside. Many people think that it is useful and even necessary to kill their time, waste it, become addicted to bad habits, limit their consciousness, receive harmful information, the reason is Slave Consciousness. In the flow of information, a person quickly and easily remembers useless information, and often ignores useful information. Willpower (self-deception) alone is not enough to solve the everyday problems we face in life, so the solution to all problems begins with «stopping the perception of false/harmful information.»

Marketers conduct audio-visual brainstorming to capture your attention as much as possible when using the Internet and social media. Who are you willing to give your attention to? And how much money is your attention worth? There are people who worship man. Many people have dedicated geeks and nerds (fans), almost everyone in fact. They are often wealthy businessmen, sports or artistic stars, and these fans openly admit that they are their fans, that is, their slaves. Like beggars hiding in a field or sitting in an empty house without light or water, we sometimes do not know the value of the gold that is in our brain, and we do not realize that there is a chest of gold inside us. Unhappy people, whom we call «sinners» or simply «bad people», do not look at the situation within themselves and at life around them from the point of view of Truth, so they desperately believe and say: «I’m right, shut up, this life is wrong.» These people have lost contact with real life (the laws of the Creator) and live in Slave Consciousness. Who drove them into the shadows? Who left them in the dark? The truth is that they force themselves to live in darkness, in the dark darkness of ignorance. I hear the advice of many wise people: «Don’t say you’re poor,» «Don’t say you don’t have a job,» «Don’t say the government is bad,» «Use only what God has given you.» If you ask me what gold is, I will answer this. «Health», «Time», «Opportunity», «Ability», «Will to choose and make decisions», «Mind and heart», etc. I can continue… You will make the right choice, and for this the Unconscious must be open to the wisdom of its source, the Universal Mind (Creator). Deep above the level of thinking is a wonderful part of our consciousness called the «unconscious». Much has been said about it, but no one has yet managed to fully understand its true meaning and limitless possibilities. You have to be able to see the light in the dark, it doesn’t burn outside you, it burns inside you, and people still want to see the light outside. That is why all the sages say that «true happiness is within a person.» Our Unconscious can be used usefully in everyday life. He will not tire of working for you, working hard, doing things, doing business, if you can guide him on the right path. Until you learn to properly control your Unconscious part of consciousness, your thinking will be slavish, and you will never feel what true independence is. Always remember that your Unconscious must be open to the source of universal wisdom – the Universal Mind. Trust this wisdom and you will make fewer mistakes and become healthier and happier. You will live a fruitful life. Positive thoughts are good, but since most of them are based on lies, it does not lead a person to complete perfection and true happiness. Positive thinking is changeable, unstable, temporary, and Rational thinking is serious, realistic, proven, specific. Positive thinking is a beautiful inspiring fairy tale, and Rational thinking is achieving real results and writing your own destiny, and not repeating someone else’s. Even a person who appears to be positive, positive and good in all aspects may have failures, difficulties and problems in life – this is the consequence of the wrong use of positivism. And the reason is that at a certain time he did not understand and did not correctly apply the laws of the Creator.

Therefore, positive thinking should only be with the Truth and in accordance with the Truth.

There are no lies in this life, everything is true. In this life there is only Truth and Imaginary. Unpleasant, negative, negative reality is harmful, pleasant, positive, positive reality is not harmful. But in fact, only the real Truth benefits a person. What is Truth? The Word of the Creator, the Laws of Life created by him, that is, the laws of life (Nature), which are proven by science. You may not know all the laws and rules of metaphysical science. But it is up to you to decide whether to obey him or not. The laws of the Creator are the same for everyone. The outcome of our choices and decisions depends on how we understand and apply God’s laws. In the game called life, ignorance of the «Laws of Life of the Creator» is stupidity and ignorance. The truth gives real freedom, so we must obey all natural (worldly) and invisible (afterlife) laws created by the Creator. Each person can harmoniously, harmoniously and joyfully act out the play and scenario called life, but for this it is necessary to know the Rules and Laws of life and master the playing technique. Whatever the situation you are in, be with the Creator, don’t hide, don’t run away, it won’t help you. It is impossible to find the Creator without knowing what Truth is. Truth is the word of God, that is, His Laws of Life. Laws of Life proven by science (nature). Without knowing the Laws of Life and without understanding yourself, you will not be able to create your life according to the will of the Creator. From the moment of comprehending the Truth, a person is freed from the captivity of this life, saved from slavery and returns his life to the will of God and begins to live a life worthy of happiness. Misfortune will be forgotten in the end, we will overcome it, because man was created to be happy forever. But there is one problem – this is a test (testing a person’s qualities), but this is the only path to happiness, because by this method of the Creator we are strengthened spiritually. In fact, being in this life is the beginning of happiness. But we do not know the real cost and significance of what is really happening to us. Happiness, wealth and good health. It all starts with not shirking responsibility for your past, present and future.

Man is the only creature that talks to itself. During the day, we constantly talk to ourselves, collect information about the environment – life. A person acts exactly like a programmer entering information into a computer, with one difference: the human brain is both a programmer and a computer at the same time. For you, your every thought is a word, and every word is a law for you. Thoughts are inner words that only you hear. Faith depends on the words we say to ourselves and others every day! Thinking is divided into two: «correct» (based on the Truth of the Creator) and «wrong» (based on one’s own beliefs). Repeatedly reciting words in your mind or frequently reminding another person (orally, in writing) of certain beliefs and concepts, whether beneficial or harmful, is the destiny that shapes your future and leaves a mark on the souls of others. You cannot change outer reality without changing inner reality. First of all, I realized that I cannot make others happy without making myself happy. I feel and understand that in this state (ill) no one needs me, I can’t do anything useful for others, so the most important thing is to take care of yourself, and not others. Everyone always wants to improve their life, and having achieved this, they want to improve it even more. You can create miracles in life not only according to your desire, but also by combining three desires («Own desire», «Desire of the environment», «Desire of God, the Creator») through harmony and balance between them. A successful and happy life depends on the correct relationship between the surrounding reality and your mind. From the moment of birth, a person has 3 types of connections: Connection with himself, connection with other people, connection with the Creator (the laws created by him). Since childhood, we wanted to learn as much as possible through our 5 senses, and therefore, from that moment on, we automatically became slaves to information from the environment. Your five senses are your main programming tool, and if you do not have the right point of view (true worldview), you will lose touch with reality and, as a result, begin to see life only the way you want to see it (not the way the Truth wants). In this case, the connection with the Creator (the Laws of Life) is weakened and there is a risk of becoming dependent on harmful beliefs and the formation of a Slave Thinking. As children, it didn’t matter to us whether beliefs and understandings were true or false, we accepted them with naivety because the environment demanded it. It is the environment that shapes faith and understanding, that is, destiny. The fate of a person depends not only on his race, but also on the time and place of existence. The environment and close people cannot make us happy, because true happiness is an eternal experience directed from the inside out. And the erroneous belief of many people is false happiness, a temporary experience that must be created from the outside.

Our life has meaning, like a book. The meaning of a book depends on how much we understand its contents. It’s what’s inside the book that matters, not what’s outside, because inside the book is full of meaningful words. A person is like a book, the internal is more important than the external, the meaning of a person’s life is in a meaningful life. Every person comes into this life for a reason, he is given a mission from above, but, unfortunately, many people cannot fulfill this mission and die prematurely. Destiny is written in your brain. This is your book of life, which is always in your hands. There are three basic principles of life: to be able to distribute time equally to everything, to work hard on yourself and to work without losing enthusiasm. Your dream goal is in vain if the intention is not good, fair, honest. Therefore, rather than wanting something negative and then regretting it, it is better not to do both, you will spend too much effort and time. Try not to use the law of life – cause and effect – against yourself.

Do you know that you can act without action. First you create the life you want in your mind and then it becomes reality. But many people do the opposite, act without prior preparation, and in the end they get the opposite result, which they later regret. Who is right? I believe that the most important thing is not to be a victim of the Law of Life – expectations and reality. Mistakes I and most people make (still do):

– incorrect perception (of oneself, others, others, God)

– incorrect thinking (irrational thinking, total control of negative, negative, harmful emotions),

– wrong action (consequence of wrong choice and decision),

– not being able to manage oneself correctly (not being able to control one’s desires).

The list can be continued endlessly… You can resist and say what a right person you are and try to avoid mistakes, but remember one thing – Life is not on asphalt, but on ice.

Difficulties in life are caused by sins and mistakes. Man desires them voluntarily out of ignorance and lack of knowledge. However, no one commits sins and mistakes intentionally, all because of the disease of despair and internal conflict. This may be difficult to understand and accept, but for me it is just that. Prayer, a deep desire, is a much more powerful force than most of us realize. Therefore, all troubles and blessings begin with intention and desire. The desire of the heart moves in mysterious ways that no one can fully understand, and manifests itself in real life. Therefore, we must be careful and understand what we are aiming for. Let’s be careful what we wish for, because we are given free will to choose in order to fully realize them. To achieve success and live a fruitful, happy life, it is not enough to rely only on willpower (self-deception), because it does not concern the mind and heart of a person. Only after we truly evaluate our situation and truly understand our environment can we change ourselves to achieve success. There is no recipe for happiness because it is an abstract concept. When you find a little meaning in life, it encourages you to search for deeper meaning. This search will never be fruitless: it will lead you to more detailed answers to the questions that concern you, to a deeper and more meaningful life. Useful, effective, verified (digital) information; a book written on the basis of knowledge and experience; will definitely lead you on the right path! Today, the most popular writers are not those who write about the EXTERNAL WORLD of a person, but those who write about the inner world, because they understand that the problem is not OUTSIDE. We can only do «works of eternal reward» (good works) in one life – this life called the «mortal life.» To prove to yourself that this life and eternal life are one and in harmony, it is enough to love both and understand that one is the cause and the other is the effect. I think every book has a soul. Because they were written by people with mind and heart. A book is not only an external design, but also a world of letters, words, advice and thought-provoking ideas. A useful book is food for the brain. Of course, from the point of view of the laws of nature, physical passions (food, sleep) are primarily important, but spiritual passions (seeing, knowing, hearing, recognizing) are no less important. The most important thing for a person is that the soul and body do not go beyond the limits of true faith and that both are in harmony and agreement. It is important for a person to satisfy the needs of the soul, but there must be a Balance between the Soul and the Body. Then the soul will find its True Lord. You probably know that the human soul and life are eternal, you should know because this is very important, then the human soul will not be afraid of death, it will never be suppressed. That is why all the Holy Scriptures always advise remembering about life after life, that is, about eternal life after the Day of Resurrection – this is the great Day when the Creator will resurrect all the dead for reckoning and retribution. The body is always afraid of death according to the laws of nature. Saying you’re not afraid is a sign of hypocrisy. A person learns the meaning of death and ceases to be afraid of it, believing in the existence of the Resurrection. If the meaning of eternal life is correctly understood, true faith will reveal the mystery of death and a person will begin to understand that he was created for eternal happiness. Time, like life, is endless and does not end with death. May the end be a good beginning for all of us! From the moment of comprehending the TRUTH, a person is freed from the captivity of this life, saved from slavery and returns his life to the will of God and begins to live a life worthy of happiness. And what is this TRUTH? The Creator and the laws of knowledge created by him, which are proven by science.

Misfortune is quickly forgotten, we will overcome all difficulties, because man was created to be happy forever. But there is one problem – this is the test of life (testing the quality of a person), it can be war, hunger, disease… but in fact this is not a problem, but a path to happiness, because we guarantee ourselves paradise by this method of the Creator. According to the evidence of modern physics, it is impossible to destroy already created energy. What does it mean? This means that the human soul was created to live forever. We will die and come back, this is truly a great separation and reunion (of soul and body) for a person. Faith is perhaps the most powerful force in the world. But faith allows people to commit suicide because they feel there is no point in continuing to live. So faith is a power that needs to be carefully managed. Losing control over faith means losing the meaning of life. And the loss of the meaning of life comes from its meaninglessness and inner emptiness. Suicide is the most severe form of death. Undoubtedly, their main problem is fatigue from others, from life and from themselves, and this is closely related to hope, faith and intention. It’s easy for all of us to say where patience, strength, perseverance are, or whether this is a temporary test (problems of life), this is a grave sin. Can we say that someone who is able to put together various collected information and turn this information into thoughts, form words with the help of these thoughts and bring the thoughts OUT is intelligent? In general, our thoughts are scattered, but it is easy to think correctly if you know how to sort them correctly. In order to be able to make the right choices and make the right decisions in life, a person must first understand his thoughts. There are many different methods, you need to study them and move forward without fear. Remember: thoughts are inner words that only you hear and inner images that only you see. There are 3 types of thoughts:

– finished, complete thought

– a thought seeking an answer

– emotional thought

Thanks to their combination, a system of thinking is formed from childhood to the present day. As soon as the System of Thinking changes, the meaning of life changes! So weigh all useful and unhelpful thoughts. The «main problem» of a lost person is that he cannot properly perform or control three processes:

– perception (receiving information)

– thinking

– action

As a result, such a person will constantly make excuses for his position and external environment, and will resist changing his inner world, because HE KNOWS EVERYTHING and DOES EVERYTHING RIGHT.

If you want to float freely along the river of life, you need to know that there is an alternative to a monotonous, monotonous, same-type, template life. So be willing to open your heart to new ideas, values, and beliefs. By reframing your thought process, you can create a sustainable ideal self. You deserve to be happy, no matter who you are, what you do, or what situation you are in. Learning to be happy is easier than you think! Just be honest with yourself and others, don’t live with a false mask.

Once you study and master the principles and laws of life, your life will be filled with happiness, love, freedom, confidence and money. There is nothing more uplifting and inspiring than expressing your limitless potential and developing your rich creativity, unleashing what is inside of you, because this is how life should be. We don’t feel like the digital world likes to deceive us. It has become a way of life to accept inappropriate and harmful information and become a slave to it. Feelings of helplessness, failure and dissatisfaction lead us to blame others, society, authority, fate (God) and look for various culprits. Most of humanity wants their problems to be solved by some external factors, and not by themselves, unable to be completely self-sufficient, unable to provide for themselves, as a result of which people fall into Slave Consciousness, dependent people are crowded together. Life is controlled only by OUTSIDE people (the government and their laws). Beliefs such as that my life depends only on the environment and EXTERNAL circumstances (family, work) are firmly established in the minds of a person dependent on EXTERNAL ones. They refuse to accept logical beliefs that prove otherwise. William James, the eminent philosopher and psychologist, said: «The greatest achievement of our time is that by changing the internal aspects of our thinking, we can change the EXTERNAL aspects of life.» There is a lot of truth in this short statement. And what will I say: «We are not what we think about ourselves, but what we think about all day – we are!»

You are not what you have, you are not what you have done in the past, and you are not what you consider to be luck or bad luck. You are not what you think about yourself, but what you think every time is you. We are not absolutely ideal and spiritually mature people and we should admit this.

We all want to go on an exciting journey that will help make our future brighter. We want to learn to eliminate the uncertainty that prevents us from moving forward. How to gain confidence in the future? If you feel stuck, consider yourself inferior to others, or cannot face life with confidence and enthusiasm, then you are dissatisfied with life, that is, not content (regret, resentment, revenge, guilt, etc. are negative emotions). And we know that feelings control a person. Emotion controls action. There is no better journey than being grateful for what may have been in your past life, spiritually enjoying the present, and being happy with the results that await you in the future. Boundless confidence is established only when you completely get rid of unpleasant, negative feelings (emotions). We are not victims of life (the world), we are the Merciful creation of God. And he (the Creator) is the main author of life, and we are co-authors. Therefore, fate (future) is written together.

Dependence on external property, on the environment, on deceitful popular people, etc. is a disease caused by the «Slave Consciousness» – it is also called personality disorders (loss of self). As a result of Addiction treatment, people become heroes who are not afraid to look inside themselves. Addiction is closely related to thinking. Some people are used to negative thinking and may not know how to deal with it. In order to distract from bad thoughts, people come up with different methods. But since all these attempts at self-deception are associated with EXTERNAL factors, their help is temporary, not permanent, only consolation. We don’t know how to use affirmations CORRECTLY because we haven’t learned how to use them effectively. That’s why they don’t help us. A person who fails to see the good in this says, «I will not return to the INNER world,» «All this is a lie,» and again becomes dependent on the EXTERNAL world. Understanding Affirmations (verbal thoughts) and Visualizations (imaginative thoughts) are needed primarily to teach a person to manage his thoughts. Thoughts are internal words that only you hear and internal images that only you see. Control of thoughts – control of life.