Internet Dating & How to Make This Experience More Enjoyable and Successful
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Robin Lapointe. Internet Dating & How to Make This Experience More Enjoyable and Successful
Preface
Introduction
Chapter 1. Creating your Profile
1.1. Marital Status
1.2. Your Zodiac sign
1.3. Your Religion
1.4. Your Body Type
1.5. Your Drinking habits
1.6. Your Smoking habits
1.7. Your Salary
1.8. Do you have any Children
1.9. Would you want Children
1.10. Your Pets
1.11. Your Languages
1.12. Your Living Location
1.13. Your Age
1.14. Interests and Activities
1.15. Your Education
Chapter 2: What to write in your profile
Chapter 3: Your profile photos
Chapter 4: Preparing to meet. 4.1. Deciding to meet someone
4.2. Dating Information Sheet
4.3. Planning your first date together
4.4. Read their profile again before your first date
4.5. What to wear
Chapter 5: Your first date
5.1. Who should/will pay the bill
5.2. Ending the first date
5.3. Kissing and saying good-bye
Chapter 6: After the first date. 6.1. Date #2:
6.2. What you see is what you get
6.3. Red Flags
6.4. When should you get off line
Chapter 7: Online Scammers
Chapter 8: How to avoid problems and how to increase your odds of having a successful online experience
Chapter 9: Body Language, Chemistry and Attraction
9.1. Chemistry
9.2. Physical attraction
9.3. Mental attraction
Chapter 10: Conclusion
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My name is Robin. I was married for 12 years and then one day, I found myself divorced and single again. For the past 10 years I have been Internet dating using several different sites. During these years I have had the pleasure of meeting amazing, smart and interesting women who have helped me become a better person today. I discovered that most individuals using online dating services are serious and good people with the right intentions. Yes, there are also some bad apples out there; however I had made and kept many new and great friendships from this.
I’m writing this guide from my personal experiences along with others' who have also used Internet dating sites. In doing so, I want to share some tips and pieces of advice on how to navigate a dating site and how to identify some of the pitfalls. I hope you will learn from my mistakes and understand what worked well for me. It will save you from spending hours and first dates, trying to figure out this whole Internet dating experience.
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By meeting someone unexpectedly, by "accident" or by "chance", you have the opportunity to immediately see if there is any chemistry between you two. One advantage of this situation over Internet dating is the physical aspect of the experience. You can hear the voice, see the smile, determine if there is a physical attraction. From my experience, I find the two scenarios similar, however, I believe it is even better through Internet dating, and let me explain why.
So, you meet someone in a grocery store, and you start talking. What’s your name? Have any children? None. What do you do for a living? Engineer. Where do you live? In town. I go to the gym three times a week; never married and been out of a relation for the past year. Normally, it ends with a cell phone number or email address to keep everything safe. Then you say good bye and you are both on your way. Now was this encounter more trustworthy, true and safe than meeting a person you met online? I believe not. You just met a stranger in a store and he/she may be married with three kids, on welfare, homeless, have another name, not unlike the person you meet online. This person could also be a pervert, a liar, cheat, alcoholic, drug user etc. The reality is after this first "chance" encounter, you will know if you're physically attracted to them, but truly not very much more.
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