Becoming a Counselor
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Samuel T. Gladding. Becoming a Counselor
Table of Contents
Guide
Pages
BECOMING A Counselor. The Light, the Bright, and the Serious
Dedication
Preface
New to the Third Edition
Acknowledgments
About the Authors
The World Into Which I Was Born
Section 1. Becoming During Childhood (Birth to Age 11)
Chapter 1. The Trike, the Porch, the Dare, the Air: Gravity Wins Again!
Chapter 2 Choices: Holding On or Letting Go
Chapter 3 “Cool,” “School,” and First Grade
Chapter 4 Milledgeville
Chapter 5 The Rock Beneath the Ivy
Chapter 6 If I Had Been Texas, Dr. Toomey Would Have Struck Oil
Chapter 7 Will Lee, Jim Crow, and Racial Poverty
Chapter 8 Perpetuating the Lost Cause: Essays on Confederates
Chapter 9 An Encounter With the Klan
Chapter 10 Just as I Am
Chapter 11 My Brother Was a Home Run; I Was Strike Three
Chapter 12 Water Works! A Rush Downstream to the Reservoir
Chapter 13 Judge Hardy
Chapter 14 Sex at Church: The ABCs of Physiology
Chapter 15 The Loans
Points to Ponder
Section 2. Becoming During Adolescence (Ages 12 to 18)
Chapter 16 Making the Grades . . . Almost!
Chapter 17 Hard Work
Chapter 18 I Married the Football Team
Chapter 19 Looking for Athletic Support
Chapter 20 Saying “No” to the Skimpy Blue Speedo
Chapter 21 “And This Shall Be a Sign Unto You”
Chapter 22 Radiating Fruit Flies
Chapter 23 Carrot Walks and Talks
Chapter 24 Examinations and the Inauguration
Chapter 25 Junior ROTC and Me: The M1 Thumb and Chemistry
Chapter 26 Cool Breeze: A Lesson in the Tragedy of Racism
Chapter 27 Mount Up-Some-More and Beyond: The Appalachian Trail
Chapter 28 How the Past Came Into the Present
Chapter 29 Typing: A Morning Exercise
Points to Ponder
Section 3. Becoming as a Young Adult
Chapter 30 Greeks, Geeks, Freaks, and Misfits: I Wish There Had Been Romans!
Chapter 31 A June Night in December
Chapter 32 The Lakes of Wake
Chapter 33 The Beers of My Senior Year
Chapter 34 Student Government: A Moving Experience
Chapter 35 Swinging and Undue Public Affection
Chapter 36 Holding On to Your Beliefs
Chapter 37 A Summer Camp Surprise: Fort Bragg
Chapter 38 The Foxhole
Chapter 39 The Good Neighbor House: Patterson Avenue
Chapter 40 Be Modest
Points to Ponder
Section 4. Becoming Oriented to the Counseling Profession
Chapter 41 The Calling
Chapter 42 Bandits
Chapter 43 “Uh-Huh” Is Never Enough
Chapter 44 The Locked Ward
Chapter 45 Tex Ritter Smith
Chapter 46 From the Inside Out
Chapter 47 My Pal Sal
Chapter 48 Talk Is Cheap
Chapter 49 Playing Hunches
Chapter 50 Consultant or Catalyst
Chapter 51 Sometimes It Is How You Ask the Question
Chapter 52 Three Acres of Garlic
Chapter 53 The Music of Life
Points to Ponder
Section 5. Becoming Through Mistakes and Serendipity
Chapter 54 Sleepy Time Client
Chapter 55 Bo: A Disaster in Assessment
Chapter 56 Rabbits
Chapter 57 Testing a Theory: The Sound of Silence
Chapter 58 Chipmunk Cheeks
Chapter 59 The Right to Struggle
Chapter 60 A Door, a Phone, a Window
Chapter 61 The Price of Being Ill-Prepared
Chapter 62 The Wrong Side of Presentations
Chapter 63 Don’t Take It Literally
Points to Ponder
Section 6. Becoming Skilled in Processes
Chapter 64 The Basics
Chapter 65 The Difficulty of Change
Chapter 66 Boundaries: An Awakening
Chapter 67 Boundaries Too: Counseling on the Front Porch Steps
Chapter 68 Modeling: A Case of Starlings
Chapter 69 Empathy
Chapter 70 Afraid of Blood
Chapter 71 Omelets
Chapter 72 The Concrete Counselor
Points to Ponder
Section 7. Becoming Through the Power of Words
Chapter 73 When a Danish Is Not a Scandinavian
Chapter 74 Specialized Language
Chapter 75 The Words Are There but I Don’t Know Where
Chapter 76 Knowledge Is Power Up to a Point
Chapter 77 Writing for Life
Chapter 78 Fog-a-re-a
Chapter 79 Erotic or Erratic: What a Difference a Word Makes
Chapter 80 Adjectives and Adverbs
Points to Ponder
Section 8. Becoming Through Creativity
Chapter 81 Socks
Chapter 82 Pantomime Can Be Powerful
Chapter 83 Nothing Could Be Finer . . . Almost!
Points to Ponder
Section 9. Becoming Through Multiculturalism and Spirituality
Chapter 84 Shirley
Chapter 85 WASPs
Chapter 86 The Argentine
Chapter 87 Spirits, Spirituality, and Counseling
Chapter 88 Putting on the Gloves With Mother Teresa
Chapter 89 Becoming a Student of Culture
Chapter 90 Getting There
Chapter 91 Ten Pesos for the Gringo
Chapter 92 Hiccups Overseas
Chapter 93 Geography and Identity
Chapter 94 Women Are People!
Points to Ponder
Section 10. Becoming Through Connections
Chapter 95 The Office
Chapter 96 Happenstance: Note Whom You Quote
Chapter 97 Sources Within
Chapter 98 Cool Under Fire
Chapter 99 20/20: A Vision for the Future of Counseling
Chapter 100 Courtland, the Turkeys, and Me in Tennessee
Points to Ponder
Section 11. Becoming Skilled in Working With Groups, Couples, and Families
Chapter 101 The Wake-Up Dream
Chapter 102 The Other Side of Labels
Chapter 103 Nancy Drew
Chapter 104 Airtime
Chapter 105 Three’s a Crowd but Four Is a Family Counseling Session
Chapter 106 Sex Therapy: The Challenge
Chapter 107 Laura Ashley
Chapter 108 Humor
Chapter 109 Home Alone With Humor
Chapter 110 Putting Words Into Action
Points to Ponder
Section 12. Becoming a Lifelong Learner
Chapter 111 Supervision
Chapter 112 Court: The Rules of the Game
Chapter 113 Research and Theory: A Reminder From Carl Rogers
Chapter 114 A Quiet Riot: Life as an Oxymoron
Chapter 115 Reality Sits in a Green Cushioned Chair
Chapter 116 Who Wants to Work?
Points to Ponder
Section 13. Becoming an Academic
Chapter 117 Oh No, a Typo: Living a Spanish Inquisition
Chapter 118 Mr. TBA
Chapter 119 Love on an Academic Level
Chapter 120 Not by Work Alone
Chapter 121 Rejection
Chapter 122 Just Because You’re the One and Only Doesn’t Mean You Won’t Be Left Out Cold and Lonely
Chapter 123 Counselors Anonymous
Points to Ponder
Section 14. Becoming a Family Man
Chapter 124 Research and Reframing Within the Family
Chapter 125 Trees With Lights
Chapter 126 A New York Adventure
Chapter 127 The Pace of Change
Chapter 128 Attitudes
Chapter 129 The Wearing of Black and Development
Chapter 130 Scars
Chapter 131 Changing Names
Chapter 132 Resiliency and Unpredictability: Beyond Baseball
Chapter 133 Finding a Vision That Works
Points to Ponder
Section 15. Becoming a Leader
Chapter 134 The Human Side of Leadership: Becoming President of the American Counseling Association
Chapter 135 Dealing With the Press Can Be a Mess—But You Should Do It
Chapter 136 The Leader as a Catalyst and Servant
Chapter 137 Leadership in Counseling After a Crisis
Chapter 138 Smoke and Mirrors
Points to Ponder
Section 16. Becoming More Aware of Issues in Counseling
Chapter 139 Counseling as a Quiet Revolution
Chapter 140 Counseling in an Age of Chaos: Learning From a Historical Perspective
Chapter 141 Counseling in Context: Keeping a Balance
Chapter 142 Diagnosis, Labels, and Dialogue
Chapter 143 Forgiveness Is Transformational
Chapter 144 The isms in Counseling
Chapter 145 Territory Folks Should Stick Together
Chapter 146 Counseling or Counselling: Internationally Speaking
Chapter 147 Why Counseling?
Points to Ponder
Section 17. Becoming Amid Transitions and Endings
Chapter 148 Aging but Not Developing
Chapter 149 Termination: Knowing When to Be Going
Chapter 150 The Quilt
Chapter 151 Hair
Chapter 152 Avoiding Permanent Termination: Self-Care and SIFLs
Chapter 153 On Grief and Gratitude
Chapter 154 Meaning and Mattering
Chapter 155 Be a Good Ancestor
Chapter 156 Always Becoming
Points to Ponder
Epilogue
Appendix A: A Concise History of My Life
Appendix B: Notes
References
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THIRD EDITION
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In reading this text, remember that although the incidents recorded here occurred, a few of the stories have been embellished a bit. In all circumstances, characters who were a part of these episodes, unless specifically identified, have been disguised through multiple means, such as combining them with similar people in a composite, changing their names, switching their genders, or modifying their presenting problem.
This third edition of Becoming a Counselor has grown from 121 stories to 156! It has also expanded in scope. The previous editions of this book contained some stories of my coming of age. This edition contains two dozen more from early childhood through college. Some of the incidents in these early memories influence my life today (e.g., “Hard Work”). A number of them I look back on with nostalgia (e.g., “Sex at Church”). Then there is another group I find unbelievable, as in “What was I thinking?” (e.g., “Water Works! A Rush Downstream to the Reservoir”). Regardless, these stories show who I was developmentally at a point in time, and they are timeless as memories.
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