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Сергей и Дина Волсини. To Forgive or To Revenge. Collection of articles
To Forgive or to Revenge
How Does a Problem Emerge?
Version One
Version Two
How to Deal With the Problem
How This Works
To Be One's Own Master
Version Three
Being Talented in All Things
Great Difference
Performance with Satisfaction
Being Appropriate
Talents and Parents
Subconscious Models
Talent Is Love
Steps
Proper Name: Do You Like Your Name?
Name as Security
Counterpoint of a Name
Name and Woman's Senses
School Nicknames
Should It Be Changed?
Only for Each Other
What Should Be a Child's Name?
In Honor of Whom
My Married Man
Man's Standpoint
How Does a Young Lady Get Into the Role of a Mistress?
Being Concerned with Oneself
Believing in One's Love
Sex Without Feelings
No Time – No Love
Sex Out of Fear
Greater Than Sex
To Love or To Kill
Hey, I Am Not a Prostitute!
What Ultra Decency Leads To
How to Measure the Amount of Shame
About Men
What We Should Know About Ourselves
This Strange Word “Feelings”
A Heavyweight in the Ring of Feelings
I Want to Be Everyone's Favourite
The Eternal Choice: a Mother or a Wife
She Loves or She Does Not
A Daughter Instead of a Wife
Young Wife – a Gift or a Punishment
Fear of Being Wrong
Childlike Sense in Adult Life
Desire to Do Something for Ourselves
The Right to Be Wrong
A Good Man and a Bad Man
Just Do Not Think I Am Bad
Under the Mask of the Good
Horror Outward and Kindness Inward
A Poor Student and a High Achiever
What to Do
To Seem Better At the Expense of Another
In One Bond
Three Mistakes of a Good Man
Three Steps Ahead
Stop Being Bad
More Examples
A Balanced Person
I Am So Worried About You!
What Is It – Being Worried?
Where Would Longstanding Emotional Stress Lead To?
Emotional Stress of Decent People
Admirers of Others Being Worried About Them
I Am as I Am
Looks like Nobody Else
Who Is Here?
A Habit to Be Guided by Someone
The Further – the Better
Belief and Life Success
To Believe or Just to Want
Obsessive Habits
Belief in Falseness
Belief in Yourself
Developing of Belief
A person has to do it himself!
To Be Oneself
Three Levels
How to Change a Feeling
The liberation of the feeling is performed in several stages
Mistakes We Do When Working with a Feeling
Ideas
The Perfect Idea of Oneself
Mistake Number One: Worries about Others
Mistake Number Two: the Lack of Involvement in One's Life
Mistake Number Three: to Stop Halfway
Mistake Number Four: the Lack of One's Idea of Oneself
About Spouses Volsini
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Love is the main thing a man lives for, and everyone is aware of it in his heart. There's no man who would not seek for love, who would not aspire to give it and receive it in return. However, there are situations when we start to think that we are not fated to meet our destiny and to perceive happiness of mutual love. No matter how hard we try, all for nothing, as if we are destined for being alone. Can one person influence the fate of another by depriving of love just through his intention? So let's try to make it clear.
Let's imagine that a man meets his love, his true soul mate, with whom he is convinced he is destined to pass the track of life. But something happens that does not make these plans come true. Someone's intervention does not allow to stay with the beloved, severs a man from the love of his life and puts the end to his love. A huge outcry is born in the human soul at the moment, the reasons of which can be easily explicable: his soul might have been embodied in this world just for the sake of being with the beloved, and it is the main task of his life. But now when his love is taken away he feels as if he is deprived of life.
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What about if there is a fault for sure? If you think that you have really made a mistake, have done wrong and now do repent of your deeds? Then you should do the following: visualize the image of a man whom you feel guilty to, and sincerely ask him for forgiveness, and then forgive yourself. To forgive yourself is no less important than to ask for forgiveness, because that is what allows you to get rid of worries and remove the burden from your heart. All this can be done in a temple, as well as you can do it staying at home, the place does not matter. It is important that your heart is easy. Do it just once. There is no need to go back to this story no longer – neither in thoughts nor in conversations, otherwise the mechanism of punishment wouldn't disappear.
On the subtle plane, a man who bears someone's negative wishes has a foreign connection on the occipital side of the head. Since somebody who craves punishment has a clear image of the responsible person, so he makes a kind of connection to the latter and transmits the “messages” by established channels. Negative thought forms are transmitted by them like through a pipe. Those forms have a direct impact both on the way the person thinks, on what he thinks about, and on what decisions he makes.
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