Learn to say Good-Bye

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Tõnn Sarv. Learn to say Good-Bye

Preface

Introduction

Five needs

Three spheres

Two wise things

Beginnings and ends

Is sex a human need?

Relationships of couples

Other possible relationships

Relationships involving three people

Swinging

Free relationships

A half-dead relationship

Blind rage

Why have you not divorced?

Children

Economic considerations

Public opinion, friends and relatives

Habit, indecision and fear of change

Responsibility, empathy and feelings of guilt

Who will start?

Methods of successful break up

Vanishing

Extinguishing

Marriage vacation

Offering bait

Distancing

“We have to talk”

Summary

Complications

Getting over it

Afterword: from a grateful reader

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We talk here about the true end of a relationship. Concerning problems of the official drawing up the document, registering the divorce and the juridical questions in connection with, other sources, such as lawyers and advisers should be consulted.

Marriage and human relations are not derogated here. Every relationship has its sunny side, but unfortunately also a darker one. And as relations come to an end due to this darker side, let us take a glimpse at it. Nothing, neither living together nor getting divorced, is completely good or bad.

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There are no common nor general solutions. People are different, and their relationships are different. But this small book can perhaps be of some help to everyone.

If there is nothing left to try, learn to say ‘good-bye’.

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