Note: To read before the wedding

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Yury Gurkov. Note: To read before the wedding

1. Introduction

2. «To read before the wedding» – «time machine» for youth and adults

3. The choice of a spouse – the problem with many unknowns

4. Divorce in Russia. Historical information. Experience of other countries

5. It is hard to talk about it

6. All we need is love

7. The begging of the success – to learn how to analyze

8. Prettiness makes no pottage

9. Do not embellish

10. At 18 – it’s too early, at 30 – it’s late

11. Do not allow couples to go to the registry office if they

12. First-grader love experience

13. To love is to care

14. Without this a marriage is impossible

15. Tools for happy relationships

16. The Iron and the Husband. Criterions of the choice

17. The absence of a big layer in upbringing

18. How to do a puzzle of your own Prince?

19. Examples of people. How they made their choices

1) Irina, 78 y.o, Medvezh’yegorsk, widow, one marriage

2) Sergey, 51 y.o, Kislovodsk, married, first marriage

3) Marina, 34 y.o., Krasnodar, married, second marriage

4) Polina, 48 y.o., Orel, married, first marriage

5) Julia, 22 y.o, Moscow, not married

6) Igor, 36 y.o., Shahti, married, first marriage

7) Stanislava, 44 y.o., Yakutsk, not married

8) Margarita, 33 y.o., Vyborg, not married, twice cohabited

9) Hale, 35 y.o, Germany, Grossenhain, married, second marriage

10) Tatiana, 32 y.o., Ulan-Ude, divorced, one marriage

11) Denis, 45 y.o., Saint-Petersburg, married, second marriage

12) Karina, 80 y.o., Lithuania, Kedainiai, was 4 times married

13) Olesya, 28 y.o., Belorussia, Buda-Koshelevo, married, first marriage

14) Anastasia, 28 y.o., Yekaterinburg, married, first marriage

15) Nadezhda, 33 y.o, Volgograd, married, second marriage

16) Anna, 30 y.o., Kemerovo, married, first marriage

17) Eva, 36 y.o, Krymsk, not married, cohabited

18) Helen, 42 y.o., Voskresensk, married, second marriage

19) Yulian, 55 y.o., Lodeynoye pole, married, first marriage

20) Avgustina, 20 y.o., Saint-Petersburg, not married

20. Sex before the wedding. To have or not to have?

21. Nobody is perfect. Don’t overdo in criteria

20. Before the wedding – he, after – she

21. The vaccine of empathy for advanced

24. Green, yellow or red

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You are reading the book which tries to do an impossible thing – like a time machine it tries to move you forward in your developmental growth. Be attentive – all the changes will be for the better. Especially if you are young and you haven’t already collected engagement rings. Rings which can signify many years of living together with a bad ending in almost 60 marriages out of 100. This “time machine” will help you to look at the issues of choosing a life partner from the position of your future life in case if you choose a partner without changing anything in your life. Of course I understand that a reader now has a million questions and objections: “Do I need this journey into the future? How does it work? Why is it written about this fantasy – travelling through time?

But for somebody this journey isn’t forward, it is backward – the journey into the past. The past where you were in the Registry, saying YES to the lover of your life, changing your surname. And for those who are travelling back it also should be extremely interesting – how is it – to choose correctly? Where did I make an unforgivable mistake?

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– how much your chosen one is willing to do something for you and not for himself.

Who among us can love? Why are you asking such a strange question? Everyone can love! It is nothing to do – to love. It is about our desire to be with this special one every minute and every second, to breathe the same air. Then it turns out that love is just sitting next to him or lying down not far from him? Moreover, all this is different with different people. The question is so intimate and unexplained.

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