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let's get rid of the norm on the obligation/entitlement to remain in contact with family members, simply because you are "blood." it's okay to cut toxic people off without feeling guilty about it. don't fall for their narcissistic and manipulative ways. for the sake of your peace and healing, do what you need to do. even if it means losing other people that are against you cutting those toxic family members off, so be it. sometime's you'll need to also cut the connected branches off a tree, too. it's not being petty, it's not because you're unhealed, or broken, it's choosing yourself and your peace over their toxicity. it's loving from a distance with no hard feelings. you did the right thing, love.

and for the people who are against you cutting off those toxic family members:

stop invalidating other people's feelings/decisions simply because you use "blood" as an excuse to enable toxic and abusive behavior. it's not you, so please put yourself in their shoes. their reason is their reason and it doesn't matter if you agree or not regardless of age. you have no right to tell one how to feel or how to go about it. when you side the abuser you become the enabler.