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2.2-Marriage
ОглавлениеThe group return to the starting point in the square after a brief rest. With all gathered, the chat is resumed.
—What family sub-theme does you suggest to start a new discussion? (Asks Rafael)
— How about we talk about marriage? (The seer suggested)
—I think it's good. Do you guys agree? (Rafael)
—Yes. (The others)
—With the word, the seer. (Rafael)
— What are the requirements to achieve happiness in your marriage Isael? (The Seer)
—First, choose the right person. Afterwards, cultivate the relationship with love, respect and understanding. I think this is enough. (Isael)
— What do you think of current relationships where separation has become commonplace? (Philliphe)
— Advances of modernity. Every day, the demands on each other have become greater and tolerance has diminished what is a great pity. (Isael)
— Is it possible to be happy even without being married? (Asks Renato)
— Of course, young man. Happiness lies within ourselves and not in the other. Being alone is just a detail. (Isael)
— How to know if I'm going to be a good father? (The Seer)
— Easy. If you are a good son, you will be a good father. (Isael)
— I agree. It's a matter of values. (Philliphe)
— Let each of us give the example that in the future we will reap the fruits of our efforts with a prosperous family blessed by Yahweh. (Rafael)
— Unity is strength! Search for your fellow man, says Yahweh. (Uriel)
— In my case, despite the terrible example I received from my father, I know that if I ever marry I will not disappoint my children. I will treat all with justice, love and respect, things I have learned from the guardian, my foster mother. (Renato)
—Congratulations to you, young man. This is a rarity. (Isael)
— And how it is! My father also beat me for some reason because I had learned this from his parents. However, I will not follow this example because it educates with dialogue and not with violence. (The Seer)
—It depends. Have you ever been a father? Have your children push the limits and challenge you? (Inquiry Philliphe)
— No, I never was. But does anything solve with aggression? (The Seer)
—Not aggression. But sometimes spanking is a holy remedy. In my own experience. (Philliphe)
— Not a good solution. You will only cause fear in your children. (Intervened Raphael)
— In addition, small children do not understand much of values. It takes patience. (Uriel)
— That's what I say. You should never hit a child for any reason. Why not hit someone your own size? Mistreating children is easy and frustrating. (The Seer)
— Got it. You really are right. I made a mistake with my children thinking I was doing good. (Philliphe confessed)
— It's all right. It's over. The important thing now is to move on, rebuild life and I see that you are willing to do so. (Isael)
—I hope so. (Philliphe)
— You have children, your Isael? (The Seer)
—No, I have not. (Isael)
— If you had, what minimum requirements did your son-in-law or daughter-in-law have to have? (The Seer)
—First, my son's love. Also, be a hard worker, honest, friendly and out of the dark. (Isael)
—Damn it! How much demand! Kkk. (Laughter) (The Seer)
—But that's how it is. In order to achieve a healthy relationship, this is the minimum. Ever thought your daughter-in-law or son-in-law would be angry with you and harm you with spiritual work? Of bad people I want distance, that is, each in its place. (Isael)
— You're quite right. You shall not seek evil, and you shall have the shadow of God within your reach, thus says Yahweh. (Rafael)
—And more: "Evil is a wound that bleeds and has no cure". (Complementary Uriel)
— Even so, we must remember the power of free will. We can advise, but never interfere with the decision of our older children. (Isael)
— And what a Maktub! I learned from the seer. (Philliphe recalled)
— We must also be authors of our own history, helping both types of destiny. Never mere spectators! (Renato recalled)
— God says also: Take your yoke and your staff and follow me. This is what really matters to be happy being married or not. (The seer concluded)
— Stop of five minutes for reflection. Holy God and strong God continue to inspire us to write his “ Code”. Let's go guys? (Isael)
—Yes. (The others)
In this time span, Rafael, Uriel and Isael meet and share secrets. What would be of more interest in the next subitems? Keep following, readers.