What Women Want Men To Know
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Barbara Angelis De. What Women Want Men To Know
WHAT. WOMEN WANT MEN TO KNOW
DEDICATION
CONTENTS
INTRODUCTION. A MESSAGE TO WOMEN
WHY MEN NEED THIS BOOK
HOW TO USE THIS BOOK FOR YOURSELF
HOW TO SHARE THIS BOOK WITH MEN
GETTING THE MOST OUT OF THIS BOOK
A MESSAGE TO MEN
THE MORE YOU KNOW, THE MORE POWERFUL AND SUCCESSFUL YOU ARE
WHY THIS BOOK HAS FOUND ITS WAY TO YOU
WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT ME
HOW TO GET THE MOST OUT OF THIS BOOK
PART 1 WHAT WOMEN WANT MEN TO KNOW ABOUT US
1 WOMEN PUT LOVE FIRST
THE LOVE PIE
TAKING A TRIP INTO THE MIND OF A WOMAN
HOW MEN AND WOMEN LOVE DIFFERENTLY
WHY WOMEN PUT LOVE FIRST
HOW TO APPLY THIS INFORMATION TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND WHY YOU SHOULD WANT TO
HOW MEN MISINTERPRET THIS:
HOW MEN MISINTERPRET THIS:
DON’T EXPECT YOUR WOMAN TO LOVE YOU LIKE A MAN
LEARNING TO CELEBRATE YOUR ABILITY TO LOVE
2 WOMEN ARE CREATORS
HOW WOMEN CREATE, AND WHAT MEN NEED TO KNOW. 1. Manifesting
WHY WOMEN LOVE TO FILL A SPACE AND MAKE PLANS
2. Improving
WHY MEN FEEL CONTROLLED WHEN WOMEN’S CREATIVE ENERGY FLOWS
HOW A WOMAN’S CREATIVE NATURE CAN BACKFIRE
3 WOMEN HAVE A SACRED RELATIONSHIP WITH TIME
1. Women are natural timekeepers
HOW MEN MISUNDERSTAND THIS
2. Women experience time differently from men
3. Women honor the cycles of time by celebrating special occasions
4. Women honor the sanctity of time by celebrating daily cycles
THE THREE SECRET NEEDS EVERY WOMAN HAS
4 WOMEN NEED TO FEEL SAFE
WHY WOMEN WANT MEN’S APPROVAL AND BECOME INSECURE WHEN WE DON’T RECEIVE IT
HOW WOMEN RESPOND WHEN WE DON’T FEEL SAFE AND WHAT MEN CAN DO TO HELP
1. We may become more needy, clingy, or possessive
2. We may become more irritable, cold, or sexually indifferent
WHAT MAKES A WOMAN FEEL SAFE
1. Women feel safe when we spend time with our partners
2. Women feel safe when a man allows us entry into his inner world
3. Women feel safe when a man reassures us of his love
5 WOMEN NEED TO FEEL CONNECTED
DO YOU KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN BONDING AND INTIMACY?
WHAT MAKES A WOMAN FEEL CONNECTED AND INTIMATE
1. Women feel connected and intimate when a man communicates with us
2. Women feel connected and intimate when a man includes us in the process of his life
3. Women feel connected and intimate when men do any of the things that make us feel safe
6 WOMEN NEED TO FEEL VALUED
WHAT HAPPENS TO WOMEN WHO DON’T FEEL VALUED
FOUR SECRETS FOR MAKING A WOMAN FEEL VALUED
1. Show her that her happiness is a priority for you
2. Show interest in her life
3. Show her you need her and value her input
4. Show her that you don’t take her for granted
WHAT MEN CAN DO:
A FINAL WORD ON THE THREE SECRET NEEDS EVERY WOMAN HAS
7 SEVEN MYTHS MEN BELIEVE ABOUT WOMEN AND WHY THEY ARE ABSOLUTELY WRONG
MYTH. 1. WOMEN ARE NEVER SATISFIED
MYTH. 2. WOMEN ARE HIGH MAINTENANCE
MYTH. 3. WOMEN WANT TO CONTROL MEN
MYTH. 4. WOMEN ARE JEALOUS AND POSSESSIVE
MYTH. 5. WOMEN ARE TOO EMOTIONAL
MYTH. 6. WOMEN WHO APPEAR TO BE STRONG AND COMPETENT DON’T NEED TO BE TAKEN CARE OF
MYTH. 7. WOMEN WANT TO ROB MEN OF THEIR FREEDOM
SEVEN MANTRAS TO COMBAT SEVEN MYTHS
8 HOW TO AVOID TURNING A PERFECTLY SANE WOMAN INTO A RAVING MANIAC
1. DON’T TALK TO US
What Men Do That Drives Women Crazy
How Not Talking to Us Brings out the Worst in a Woman
2. DON’T LISTEN TO US AND IGNORE OUR NEEDS
What Men Do That Drives Women Crazy
How Not Listening to Us and Ignoring Our Needs Brings out the Worst in a Woman
3. BE REBELLIOUS
What Men Do That Drives Women Crazy
How Being Rebellious with Us Brings out the Worst in a Woman
4. DON’T REASSURE OR COMFORT US
What Men Do That Drives Women Crazy
How Not Reassuring or Comforting Us Brings out the Worst in a Woman
5. FLIRT WITH OTHER WOMEN
Understanding Your Sexual Bank Account
How to Tell If You’re Making a Withdrawal from Your Sexual Bank Account
6. BE DISTANT AND ALOOF
7. CRITICIZE US
8. BE VAGUE AND AMBIGUOUS
9. BE FORGETFUL AND PROCRASTINATE
10. DON’T PAY ATTENTION TO US
11. DON’T TELL US WHAT’S GOING ON WITH YOU
9 HOW TO BE THE PERFECT LOVER OUTSIDE OF THE BEDROOM
WHAT HAPPENS TO US WHEN WE’RE LOVE-STARVED
WHY WOMEN SETTLE FOR BEING LOVE-STARVED
What Men Need to Know About How Women Sacrifice:
What Men Can Do:
HOW WE STARVE LOVE AND RELATIONSHIPS
1. Neglecting Your Partner and the Relationship Until There’s a Big Problem
2. Putting the Kids First
THE LOVE DIET: HOW TO FEED YOUR PARTNER’S HEART
1. Attention
2. Affection
3. Appreciation
THINGS THAT STARVE LOVE AND THINGS THAT FEED LOVE
SEVEN SMALL INVESTMENTS THAT WILL GIVE MEN A BIG PAYOFF
1. Give us greeting cards
2. Leave us notes
3. Call us during the day
4. Brag about us in front of other people
5. Make plans for us to do something together
6. Offer to go shopping with us
7. Surprise us
WHAT WOMEN WANT MEN TO KNOW ABOUT COMMUNICATION
10 FIVE SECRETS ABOUT HOW WOMEN COMMUNICATE
COMMUNICATION SECRET. 1. WOMEN LOVE TO TALK BECAUSE IT CREATES CONNECTION
WHY MEN DON’T ENJOY TALKING LIKE WOMEN DO
1. Conversations without an apparent goal often make men very uncomfortable because they seem inefficient
2. Men don’t like doing what they feel they aren’t good at
3. Men internalize their thinking process and only communicate the end result
COMMUNICATION SECRET. 2. WOMEN EXPRESS OUR THINKING AND FEELING PROCESS OUT LOUD
WHAT MEN DO WRONG: 1. You assume we’re confused
2. You cut us off because you think there’s no end to it
3. You take what we say literally
4. You get frustrated because you don’t hear a definitive conclusion or result
COMMUNICATION SECRET. 3. WOMEN COMMUNICATE WITH DETAILS
WHAT MEN DO WRONG:
COMMUNICATION SECRET. 4. WOMEN USE TALKING AS A WAY TO RELEASE TENSION
WHAT MEN DO WRONG:
COMMUNICATION SECRET 5. WOMEN MINIMIZE HOW UPSET WE ARE
WHAT MEN DO WRONG:
11 THE TOP TEN MALE COMMUNICATION HABITS THAT DRIVE WOMEN CRAZY
1. MEN ARE VAGUE
WHY MEN BECOME MYSTERY MAN
1. Being vague is a safety mechanism
2. Being vague is a form of independence
How Mystery Man Turns Us into Interrogation Woman
2. MEN AVOID DISCUSSING THINGS
1. He refuses to deal with issues when they come up
2. He doesn’t keep a woman updated on his process
How Slippery Man Turns Us into Nagging Woman
3. MEN WITHDRAW INTO SILENCE
How Invisible Man Turns Us into Panicky Woman
4. MEN DON’T TELL US WHAT THEY WANT AND NEED
How Secret Man Turns Us into Detective Woman
5. MEN BOTTLE UP FEELINGS AND THEN EXPLODE
How Volcano Man Turns Us into Tiptoe Woman
6. MEN WALK OUT IN THE MIDDLE OF A DISCUSSION
How Vanishing Man Turns Us into Orphan Woman
7. MEN ORDER US AROUND
How Commando Man Turns Us into Passive Woman
8. MEN MAKE FUN OF HOW WE FEEL
How Sarcastic Man Turns Us into Serious Woman
9. MEN LIE TO AVOID DEALING WITH SOMETHING UNPLEASANT
How Chicken Man Turns Us into Crazy Woman
10. MEN ANTICIPATE THE WORST AND GET REACTIVE
How Reacto Man Turns Us into Reacto Woman
12 WHAT WOMEN HATE TO HEAR MEN SAY AND WHAT WOMEN LOVE TO HEAR MEN SAY
WHAT WOMEN HATE TO HEAR MEN SAY
Verbal Bombs: Say These at Your Own Risk
WHAT WOMEN LOVE TO HEAR MEN SAY
What to Say to Make Us Feel Loved
What to Say to Make Us Feel Appreciated
What to Say to Make Us Feel Valued
What to Say to Open Our Heart
What to Say for Big Deposits in the Love and Sex Bank
What to Say to Blow Our Minds
PART 3 WHAT WOMEN WANT MEN TO KNOW ABOUT SEX
13 SEXUAL SECRETS ABOUT WOMEN
SEXUAL SECRET. 1. WOMEN NEED TO BE TURNED ON IN OUR HEADS AND HEARTS FIRST
TWO KEYS TO TURNING A WOMAN ON: EMOTIONAL FOREPLAY AND PHYSICAL FOREPLAY
SEXUAL SECRET. 2. WOMEN NEED TO BE RELAXED AND FREE FROM DISTRACTIONS IN ORDER TO DESIRE SEX
REDEFINING FOREPLAY
SEXUAL SECRET. 3. WOMEN LOVE TO BE SEDUCED
THE ENEMY OF SEDUCTION: THE “ALL OR NOTHING” PATTERN
SEXUAL SECRET. 4. WOMEN HATE TO BE RUSHED
SEXUAL SECRET. 5. WHAT A WOMAN’S CLITORIS WOULD TELL YOU IF IT COULD TALK
14 WOMEN’S TOP TWENTY SEXUAL TURN-OFFS
TURN-OFF. 1. MEN WHO ARE UNFAMILIAR WITH A WOMAN’S BODY
TURN-OFF. 2. MEN WHO MISHANDLE A WOMAN’S BREASTS
TURN-OFF. 3. MEN WHO HAVE NO NIPPLE ETIQUETTE
TURN-OFF. 4. MEN WHO HAVE SLOPPY SEX
TURN-OFF. 5. MEN WHO ARE BAD KISSERS
TURN-OFF. 6. MEN WHO ARE TOO ROUGH
TURN-OFF. 7. MEN WITH POOR HYGIENE
WHAT WOMEN HATE:
TURN-OFF. 8. MEN WHO ARE OBSESSED WITH HOW A WOMAN LOOKS
TURN-OFF. 9. MEN WHO JUDGE A WOMAN BY HER ORGASMS
TURN-OFF. 10. MEN WHO ARE PUSHY ABOUT WANTING ORAL SEX
TURN-OFF. 11. MEN WHO ARE OBSESSED WITH THEIR OWN SEXUAL PERFORMANCE
TURN-OFF. 12. MEN WHO HAVE SEX WITH THE TV ON
TURN-OFF. 13. MEN WHO WANT TO HAVE SEX WHEN THEY’RE DRUNK OR HIGH
TURN-OFF. 14. MEN WHO DON’T TAKE TIME TO GET A WOMAN PROPERLY AROUSED
TURN-OFF. 15. MEN WHO CHECK OUT EMOTIONALLY RIGHT AFTER HAVING SEX
TURN-OFF. 16. MEN WITH GROSS PERSONAL HABITS
Male Habits That Gross Women Out
TURN-OFF. 17. MEN WHO ARE OBSESSED WITH THEIR OWN BODIES
TURN-OFF. 18. MEN WHO DON’T LIKE GIVING A WOMAN ORAL SEX
TURN-OFF. 19. MEN WHO TREAT OTHER PEOPLE POORLY
TURN-OFF. 20. MEN WHO DON’T LOVE US
15 WOMEN’S TOP TWENTY SEXUAL TURN-ONS
TURN-ON. 1. MEN WHO MAKE LOVE SLOWLY
TURN-ON. 2. MEN WHO TALK TO A WOMAN IN BED
TURN-ON. 3. MEN WHO ARE GOOD KISSERS – ALL OVER
TURN-ON. 4. MEN WHO SHOW A WOMAN THEY LOVE HER WITH THEIR EYES
TURN-ON. 5. MEN WHO TAKE THE TIME TO UNDRESS A WOMAN SLOWLY
TURN-ON. 6. MEN WHO KNOW HOW TO TEASE WITH THEIR TOUCH
TURN-ON. 7. MEN WHO TOUCH A WOMAN’S HAIR
TURN-ON. 8. MEN WHO LOVE GIVING A WOMAN ORAL SEX
TURN-ON. 9. MEN WHO LET A WOMAN KNOW THEY WANT HER IN AND OUT OF BED
TURN-ON. 10. MEN WHO UNDERSTAND HOW TO PLEASE THE FEMALE BODY
TURN-ON. 11. MEN WHO KNOW HOW TO DRAW OUT A WOMAN SEXUALLY
TURN-ON. 12. MEN WHO PREPARE THEMSELVES PHYSICALLY FOR LOVEMAKING
TURN-ON. 13. MEN WHO MAKE A WOMAN FEEL SHE IS BEAUTIFUL
TURN-ON. 14. MEN WHO LOVE TO GIVE A WOMAN A MASSAGE
TURN-ON. 15. MEN WHO CARESS AND HOLD A WOMAN’S HANDS DURING LOVEMAKING
TURN-ON. 16. MEN WHO LOVE TO CUDDLE
TURN-ON. 17. MEN WHO TREAT THEIR PARTNER AS THEY DID WHEN THEY FIRST MET
TURN-ON. 18. MEN WHO MAKE A WOMAN FEEL SHE’S THE ONLY ONE FOR THEM
TURN-ON. 19. MEN WHO BELIEVE BEING LOVED BY THEIR PARTNER MAKES EVERYTHING ELSE WORTHWHILE
TURN-ON. 20. MEN WHO LOVE US
CONCLUSION
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
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I need to take a moment and say what this book is not about. It’s not about deeply wounded women with severe emotional problems who have shut down their feelings, suppressed their needs, and cut themselves off from their hearts. If you are presently or have been with a woman like this, you may find that nothing I say about how women behave applies to her. That’s because in order to defend herself from further pain, she’s built walls of protection around herself, and detached from her ability to feel. Men who make a habit of choosing emotionally unavailable women will be unable to relate to much of this book, and if you suspect you might be in that category, consider reading Are You the One for Me?, which will help you understand more about the patterns that prompt you to end up in unhealthy relationships.
I have a confession to make: I wrote this book secretly hoping my own partner would memorize every page, drink in each word, and digest every bit of information about me as a woman. I hoped he would enthusiastically try out every suggestion and explore each technique, intent on doing all he could to become the man of my dreams. If your wife or girlfriend gave you What Women Want Men to Know, guess what – she’s secretly hoping the same thing that I am!
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