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Barbara Angelis De. Are You the One for Me?
Contents
HOW COULD I HAVE BEEN SO BLIND?
WHY SOME RELATIONSHIPS DON’T WORK
WHY WE FALL IN LOVE
TEST YOUR LOVE IQ
YOUR LOVE IQ QUIZ
UNCOVERING YOUR LOVE MYTHS
THE FIVE DEADLY MYTHS ABOUT LOVE
Love Myth 1
Love Myth 2
Love Myth 3
Love Myth 4
Love Myth 5
THE TRUTH ABOUT LOVE
CREATING THE LOVE YOU DESERVE
CHARTING YOUR LOVE CHOICES
EXAMPLE #1. ANN’S LOVE CHOICES CHART
EXAMPLE #2. MITCHELL’S LOVE CHOICES CHART
CREATING YOUR EMOTIONAL WANT AD
UNDERSTANDING YOUR EMOTIONAL PROGRAMMING
DISCOVERING YOUR DECISIONS ABOUT LOVE
EXERCISE: MAKING YOUR EMOTIONAL PROGRAMMING MAP
ANN’S EMOTIONAL PROGRAMMING TABLE
WHY YOU CHOOSE THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE
THE ‘GOING HOME’ SYNDROME
HOW ANN WAS ‘GOING HOME’ IN HER RELATIONSHIPS
WHY MITCHELL CHOSE WOMEN WHO WERE EMOTIONAL BASKET CASES
COMPLETING UNFINISHED EMOTIONAL BUSINESS FROM CHILDHOOD
DO YOU FEEL TOO GUILTY TO BE LOVABLE?
USING YOUR PAST TO CREATE A LOVING FUTURE
Wrong Reason 1
Wrong Reason 2
Wrong Reason 3
Wrong Reason 4
Wrong Reason 5
Wrong Reason 6
Wrong Reason 7
ARE YOU EMOTIONALLY AND SPIRITUALLY EMPTY?
FALLING IN LOVE FOR THE RIGHT REASONS
Mistake 1
Mistake 2
WHAT SOME WARNING SIGNS MEAN
Mistake 3
Mistake 4
Mistake 5
Mistake 6
Relationship Type 1
HOW TO TELL IF YOU’RE NOT BEING LOVED ENOUGH
Relationship Type 2
Relationship Type 3
Relationship Type 4
Relationship Type 5
Relationship Type 6
Relationship Type 7
Relationship Type 8
Relationship Type 9
Relationship Type 10
Fatal Flaw 1
Fatal Flaw 2
Fatal Flaw 3
Fatal Flaw 4
Fatal Flaw 5
Fatal Flaw 6
Fatal Flaw 7
Fatal Flaw 8
Fatal Flaw 9
PHYSICAL OR VERBAL ABUSE
PARENTAL ABANDONMENT: DIVORCE, DEATH, ADOPTION, SUICIDE, EMOTIONAL DISTANCE
EATING DISORDERS
PARENTS WERE ADDICTED TO ALCOHOL, DRUGS (PRESCRIPTION OR NONPRESCRIPTION), PILLS, ETC
RELIGIOUS FANATICISM
WHAT’S NORMAL AND WHAT’S NOT?
Compatibility Time Bomb 1
IF YOU’RE THE OLDER PERSON IN THE RELATIONSHIP
IF YOU’RE THE YOUNGER PERSON IN THE RELATIONSHIP
Compatibility Time Bomb 2
Compatibility Time Bomb 3
Compatibility Time Bomb 4
DO YOU HAVE TOXIC IN-LAWS?
Compatibility Time Bomb 5
Compatibility Time Bomb 6
Compatibility Time Bomb 7
AVOIDING WHO’S WRONG
Quality 1
Quality 2
Quality 3
Quality 4
Quality 5
Quality 6
WHAT IS SEXUAL CHEMISTRY?
WHY YOU’RE TURNED ON BY SOME PEOPLE AND NOT BY OTHERS
INSTANT ATTRACTION VS. GRADUAL ATTRACTION
WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE YOU’RE NOT ATTRACTED TO
HOW WE COVER UP OUR LACK OF SEXUAL FULFILLMENT
HOW IGNORING YOUR LACK OF SEXUAL ATTRACTION FOR A PARTNER CAN DESTROY YOUR RELATIONSHIP
YOU CAN’T CREATE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY
HOW TO TELL IF YOU HAVE ENOUGH SEXUAL CHEMISTRY WITH YOUR PARTNER
YOUR SEXUAL CHEMISTRY QUOTIENT
WHEN YOU AND YOUR PARTNER AREN’T SEXUALLY COMPATIBLE
WHEN THE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY DISAPPEARS
STEP ONE: HOW TO TELL IF YOU’RE READY TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP
STEP TWO: HOW TO MAKE A COMPATIBILITY LIST
STEP THREE: HOW TO TELL IF YOU’RE COMPATIBLE WITH YOUR PARTNER
STAGE ONE: O TO THREE MONTHS—THE NEW RELATIONSHIP
STAGE TWO: THREE TO SIX MONTHS—THE DEVELOPING RELATIONSHIP
STAGE THREE: SIX MONTHS OR LONGER—A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP
THE COMPATIBILITY FORMULA
A SAMPLE COMPATIBILITY EVALUATION ROXANNE AND JOHN
A PICTURE OF A COMPATIBLE RELATIONSHIP
Commitment Fear 1
Commitment Fear 2
Commitment Fear 3
Commitment Fear 4
Commitment Level 1
Commitment Level 2
Commitment Level 3
THE PROS AND CONS OF LIVING TOGETHER OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE
Commitment Level 4
ANSWERS TO YOUR QUESTIONS ABOUT COMMITMENT
HOW TO KNOW WHEN TO BREAK YOUR COMMITMENT AND END A RELATIONSHIP
PRACTICING RECOMMITMENT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
LIVING YOUR COMMITMENT
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