Secrets About Men Every Woman Should Know
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Barbara Angelis De. Secrets About Men Every Woman Should Know
CONTENTS
INTRODUCTION
1 Men: The Final Frontier
Starting Your Adventure into the World of Men
Why Men Are the Way They Are
Man: The Solitary Hunter
THE DISPLACED WARRIOR
Why Men Choose Certain Seats in Restaurants
Why Men Have Always Dominated Women
THE PSYCHOLOGICAL EXPLANATION FOR WHY MEN DOMINATE WOMEN
How Men Are Trained to Be Unfit for Love
How TV Teaches Us Sex Roles
The Challenge of Changing Times
2 The Six Biggest Mistakes Women Make with Men
How Healthy Are Your Relationships with Men?
DO YOU BRING OUT THE WORST IN THE MEN YOU LOVE?
MISTAKE 1. Women Act like Mothers and Treat Men like Children
WAYS WOMEN ACT LIKE MOTHERS AND TREAT MEN LIKE CHILDREN
WHY WOMEN MOTHER MEN
HOW MOTHERING THE MAN IN YOUR LIFE CAN DESTROY YOUR RELATIONSHIP
THE SOLUTION: HOW TO STOP MOTHERING MEN
HOW I STOPPED A MAN FROM “DRIVING” ME CRAZY
MISTAKE 2. Women Sacrifice Who They Are and Put Themselves Second in Importance to the Man They love
WHY WOMEN SACRIFICE THEMSELVES IN RELATIONSHIPS
THE RESULTS OF SACRIFICING FOR LOVE
THE SOLUTION: HOW TO STOP SACRIFICING YOURSELF IN RELATIONSHIPS
MISTAKE 3. Women Fall in Love with a Man’s Potential
HOW WE FALL IN LOVE WITH A MAN’S POTENTIAL
WHY WOMEN FALL IN LOVE WITH A MAN’S POTENTIAL
HOW TO TELL IF YOU ARE A “RESCUE-HOLIC”
THE SOLUTION: HOW TO STOP FALLING IN LOVE WITH A MAN’S POTENTIAL
MISTAKE 4. Women Cover Up Their Excellence and Competence
WHY WE COVER UP OUR EXCELLENCE AND COMPETENCE
WHY HIDING YOUR COMPETENCE DOESN’T WORK
THE SOLUTION: HOW TO STOP COVERING UP YOUR COMPETENCE
MISTAKE 5. Women Give Up Their Power to Men
ARE YOU A LOVE MARTYR?
HOW WE DON’T MAINTAIN OUR DIGNITY AS WOMEN
ARE YOU COMFORTABLE WITH BEING MISTREATED BY MEN?
FROM WIMP TO BITCH: HOW WOMEN TIPTOE AROUND MEN AND THEN REBEL AGAINST THEM
THE SOLUTION: HOW TO STOP GIVING YOUR POWER AWAY TO MEN
MISTAKE 6. Women Act like Little Girls to Get What They Want from Men
HOW ACTING LIKE A LITTLE GIRL AFFECTS THE MEN IN YOUR LIFE
THE SOLUTION: HOW TO STOP ACTING LIKE A LITTLE GIRL AROUND MEN
3 Filling in the Emotional Blanks: How to Stop Giving More Than You Get in Love
The Most Lovable Little Girl in the World
HOW TO SEDUCE A SEVENTH-GRADE PRINCE
THE QUEEN OF HEARTS
WORKING HARD FOR LOVE
How Women Fill in the Emotional Blanks
How Filling in the Blanks Can Destroy Your Relationship
Are You the One Rowing the Boat in Your Relationship?
Why Women Fill in the Blanks
How to Stop Giving More Than You Get in Love
WHATEVER HAPPENED TO THE QUEEN OF HEARTS?
4 Solving the Three Biggest Mysteries About Men
MYSTERY 1. Why Do Men Hate to Be Wrong?
WHY MEN FEEL THEY ALWAYS HAVE TO BE RIGHT
HOW I BECAME A PARKING GARAGE PRISONER
HOW GENEEN HELPED HER HUSBAND STOP BEING DEFENSIVE
WHY WOMEN DON’T MIND MAKING MISTAKES
“DON’T YOU TRUST ME?”
SOLUTIONS FOR MYSTERY #1
MYSTERY 2. Why Do Men Hate It When Women Get Upset or Emotional?
THE FIRST REASON MEN HATE TO SEE WOMEN UPSET OR EMOTIONAL
THE SECOND REASON MEN HATE TO SEE WOMEN UPSET OR EMOTIONAL
THE THIRD REASON MEN HATE TO SEE WOMEN UPSET OR EMOTIONAL
THE SOLUTIONS FOR MYSTERY #2
MYSTERY 3. Why Do Men Seem to Care Less About Love and Relationships Than Women Do?
HOW MEN’S AND WOMEN’S BRAINS DIFFER
WHY MEN GET STUCK IN THEIR HEADS
THE SOLUTIONS FOR MYSTERY #3
5 Secrets About Men and Sex
SECRET 1. Men Often Express Themselves Sexually When They Can’t Express Themselves Emotionally
How Gary Used Sex to Express His Frustrations with His Job
THE SOLUTION
SECRET 2. Men Feel Emotionally Rejected When You Reject Their Sexual Advances
THE SOLUTION
SECRET 3. The Erection Illusion
THE SOLUTION
SECRET 4. Your Man Will Make Love to You More Often If You Have Sex with Him More Often
Solving the Mystery of the Lazy Lover
How Karen and Timothy Put the Passion Back into Their Marriage
THE SOLUTION
SECRET 5. Men Love Receiving Oral Sex From a Woman
How I Taught My Best Friend to Love Giving Oral Sex
WHAT MEN HATE ABOUT HOW WOMEN PERFORM ORAL SEX
THE SOLUTION
SECRET 6. Why Men Don’t like to Talk and Have Sex at the Same Time
WHY MEN GET IRRITATED WHEN WOMEN TALK DURING SEX
THE SOLUTION
SECRET 7. Why Men Often Seem to Withdraw After Sex
THE SOLUTION
SECRET 8. Men Are Turned On By Visual Stimulation
THE SOLUTION
6 Men’s Top Twenty Sexual Turn-offs
TURN-OFF 1. Women Who Act As if They Don’t Like Sex
WHY THIS TURNS MEN OFF
WHY WOMEN DO THIS
THE SOLUTION
TURN-OFF 2. Women Who Never Initiate Sex
WHY THIS TURNS MEN OFF
WHY WOMEN DO IT
THE SOLUTION
TURN-OFF 3. Women Who Act Unfamiliar with a Man’s Body
WHY THIS TURNS MEN OFF
WHY WOMEN DO THIS
THE SOLUTION
TURN-OFF 4. A Woman Who Makes a Man Responsible for Her Orgasms
WHY THIS TURNS MEN OFF
WHY WOMEN DO IT
THE SOLUTION
TURN-OFF 5. Women Who Are Sexual Traffic Cops in Bed
WHY THIS TURNS MEN OFF
WHY WOMEN DO THIS
THE SOLUTION
TURN-OFF 6. The Sexual Corpse – Women Who Are Unresponsive in Bed
WHY THIS TURNS MEN OFF
WHY WOMEN DO THIS
THE SOLUTION
TURN-OFF 7. The Sexual Blabbermouth: Women Who Talk Too Much in Bed
WHY THIS TURNS MEN OFF
WHY WOMEN DO THIS
THE SOLUTION
TURN-OFF 8. Women Who Don’t Take Care of Themselves
WHY THIS TURNS MEN OFF
WHY WOMEN DO THIS
THE SOLUTION
TURN-OFF 9. Women Who Don’t like Their Own Bodies and Put Themselves Down
WHY THIS TURNS MEN OFF
WHY WOMEN DO THIS
THE SOLUTION
TURN-OFF 10. Women Who Are Too Concerned with Their Appearance
WHY THIS TURNS MEN OFF
WHY WOMEN DO THIS
THE SOLUTION
TURN-OFF 11. Women Who Don’t Like Receiving Oral Sex
WHY THIS TURNS MEN OFF
WHY WOMEN DO THIS
THE SOLUTION
TURN-OFF 12. Women Who Are Sloppy Kissers
WHY THIS TURNS MEN OFF
WHY WOMEN DO THIS
THE SOLUTION
TURN-OFF 13. Women Who Are Too Serious
WHY THIS TURNS MEN OFF
WHY WOMEN DO THIS
THE SOLUTION
TURN-OFF 14. Women Who Are Excessively Needy and Clingy
WHY THIS TURNS MEN OFF
WHY WOMEN DO THIS
THE SOLUTION
TURN-OFF 15. Stupid, Superficial Women
WHY THIS TURNS MEN OFF
WHY WOMEN DO THIS
THE SOLUTION
TURN-OFF 16. Women Who Care Only About a Man’s Financial Status
WHY THIS TURNS MEN OFF
WHY WOMEN DO THIS
THE SOLUTION
TURN-OFF 17. Women Who Use Their Sexuality to Manipulate Men
WHY THIS TURNS MEN OFF
WHY WOMEN DO THIS
THE SOLUTION
TURN-OFF 18. Women Who Talk About Former Lovers
WHY THIS TURNS MEN OFF
WHY WOMEN DO THIS
THE SOLUTION
TURN-OFF 19. Women Who Aren’t Sexually Spontaneous
WHY THIS TURNS MEN OFF
WHY WOMEN DO THIS
THE SOLUTION
TURN-OFF 20. Women Who Wear Ugly Underwear
WHY THIS TURNS MEN OFF
WHY WOMEN DO THIS
THE SOLUTION
7 Secrets for Communicating with Men
Three Secrets About Communicating with Men
COMMUNICATION SECRET 1. Men Communicate Best When They Have a Focus for the Conversation
WHAT WOMEN DO WRONG
HOW MEN REACT
THE SOLUTION
COMMUNICATION SECRET 2. Men Internalize Their Thinking Process and Only Communicate the End Result
WHAT WOMEN DO WRONG
HOW MEN REACT
“GET TO THE POINT“
WHAT WOMEN DO WRONG
HOW MEN REACT
THE SOLUTION
COMMUNICATION SECRET 3. Men Don’t Have Access to Their Emotions As Easily As Women Do
WHAT WOMEN DO WRONG
HOW MEN REACT
How Kelly and Michael Learned to Argue Less and Love More
THE SOLUTION
LISTENING TIP 1. Don’t Interrupt a Man When He Is Trying to Express Himself
THE SOLUTION
LISTENING TIP 2. Be Patient While He Explores His Emotions
THE EMOTIONAL MAP
Taking an Elevator from Your Head to Your Heart
How I Broke My Bad Listening Habits
THE SOLUTION
LISTENING TIP 3. Let Your Partner Know You Understand His Point of View
LISTENING TIP 4. Touch Your Partner
The Male-to-Female Dictionary
8 Helping the Man You Love Open Up
Does Your Partner Want to Open Up?
HOW TO TELL IF A MAN WANTS TO OPEN UP EMOTIONALLY
HOW TO TELL WHEN A MAN ISN’T GOING TO OPEN UP
YOU CAN’T HELP A MAN WHEN:
SOME OTHER WAYS TO HELP THE MAN YOU LOVE
HOW TO TELL IF YOU’RE HELPING TOO MUCH
9 Becoming the Powerful Woman You Were Meant to Be
Steps You Can Take to Become a More Powerful Woman. POWER TIP 1. Do All the Exercises in This Book
POWER TIP 2. Make a Relationship Mistake List and a Relationship Rule Book
STEP 1 : MAKE A RELATIONSHIP MISTAKE LIST
STEP 2: MAKE A RELATIONSHIP RULE BOOK
STEP 3: MAKE SEVERAL COPIES OF YOUR RULE BOOK AND READ THEM FREQUENTLY
STEP 4: SHARE YOUR RULE BOOK WITH YOUR PARTNER AND/OR SOME FRIENDS TO ENLIST THEIR SUPPORT FOR YOUR NEW COMMITMENTS
STEP 5: ASK YOUR PARTNER TO MAKE HIS OWN MISTAKE LIST AND RULE BOOK
POWER TIP 3. Create a Support System of Women in Your life
POWER TIP 4. Maintain Your Dignity
ARE WE REALLY THAT DIFFERENT AFTER ALL?
THE BIRTH OF A BOOK
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
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MEN WHO ARE INSECURE WITHIN THEMSELVES WILL TRY TO CUT YOU OFF FROM YOUR SUPPORT SYSTEMS
There are men who need to feel they have total control over their partner, who are frightened of being controlled themselves. One of their tactics for exerting that power over you might be to cut you off from those people and groups who love and support you – your family, your friends, your church or spiritual group. This can have two results.
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