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1 1. Barbara Rosenwein provides an insightful commentary on some of love’s constitutive fantasies in her book Love: A History in Five Fantasies (Cambridge: Polity, 2021).

2 2. What Love Is And What it Could Be (New York: Basic Books, 2017).

3 3. You can find a selection of them at www.carriejenkins.net/magazines and www.carriejenkins.net/radioandpodcasts.

4 4. I got hate from feminists – or at least from people who thought of themselves as feminists – for challenging the prevailing norm that all relationships should be monogamous. I had the impression that this critique came from people who had heard only that I was personally non-monogamous, and who weren’t familiar with my critique of how the institution of compulsory monogamy sustains the patriarchal status quo.

5 5. These intersections of sexualized and gendered racism were less surprising to my partners.

6 6. Thi Nguyen offers an excellent description of this phenomenon in “Gamification and value capture,” chapter 9 of his new book Games: Agency as Art (Oxford: Oxford University Press, 2020).

7 7. Recent work on this phenomenon includes Jin Kyun Lee’s “The effects of social comparison orientation on psychological well-being in social networking sites: serial mediation of perceived social support and self-esteem,” Current Psychology (2020), pp. 1–13, and Schmuck et al.’s “Looking up and feeling down: the influence of mobile social networking site use on upward social comparison, self-esteem, and well-being of adult smartphone users,” Telematics and Informatics 42 (2019), pp. 1–12.

8 8. See e.g. Charles Darwin: Voyaging, by E. Janet Brown (Princeton, NJ: Princeton University Press, 1996).

9 9. See “Newton, The Man,” by John Maynard Keynes, https://mathshistory.st-andrews.ac.uk/Extras/Keynes_Newton/.