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You’re a feeling person and yet I’d guess you have little idea about the true scope of your emotions. The chances are that you’re the life and soul of the party one minute, down in the dumps the next. Welcome to your erratic emotional wave! You are in this life to fly high and sample the cloud nines and then dive deep and find your nose in the mud. Emotionally, it is your nature to experience the full spectrum of feelings, which, from time to time, may feel like chaos to you and everyone around you. Emotions never sit still for long. They are like the restless ocean, rolling like waves, rising and falling, peaking and dipping. When you feel happy, you want to capture that moment. When you feel sad, you wonder when the blues will end. But there is never a state of permanence to emotion; recognizing these emotional waves and allowing them to pass through you instead of owning you is all part of your evolution.

One lesson to heed is to not get attached to any particular feeling or the expectation of how something might turn out. Emotional decisions made in the heat of the moment are your enemy. So it’s all about allowing emotions to pass through you, disengaging from them and awaiting the calm – like a storm – tossed ship emerging from tumultuous seas spotting the steady beam of a lighthouse which guides the way home.

But here’s the main revelation about having this centre defined: you are responsible for not only your own moods but also for influencing the moods of those people around you. Your Human Design affects people within your aura and triggers their emotions. As daft as it sounds, your emotions are contagious! The moods you experience will be mirrored by the people around you. If you’re feeling bummed out, watch others gradually join the despondency. If you’re exultant, watch others’ exuberance rise. Your lifetime is all about learning to handle, appreciate and embrace your feelings and how they affect others.