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Оглавление| Dispenser of good | |
| Finishes what is started | Long-lived |
| Great intuition | Picky |
| Administrator | Well-loved |
| Counselor | Will go far |
| Evenhanded |
Life Lessons
These people need to learn to snap out of bad moods, to just let some things go by without worrying about them, and to take stands more often for what they believe in.
Positive Tendencies
These are very together people in the sense of being a center of calm in even chaotic situations. They can enter a disruptive or crazy situation and just by the power of their character kind of balance things and ease stress and friction. These people have very strong senses of fair play, equality, and justice. They feel that things should be shared and they work for social justice and a more equal society. On a cosmic scale, such people see harmony and balance as spiritual goals for themselves as well as for humanity. Focusing on details, these people are warmhearted and bighearted and even-keeled. They live a relatively modest life and are not motivated or enticed to extreme excess in areas of pleasure or intoxication. These are people who know their limits and who rarely get involved with disasters or problems that they can see coming. They are classic self-actualizing people, yet they can also do quite well in the material world, especially through sincerity. The perfect counselor or people-manager, even if this is not their profession, people will seek them out for this kind of thing. They are real people-persons who are great at settling disputes and working things out. These individuals have real insight.
Negative Tendencies
These people may be picky and a bit too politically correct. Their detail-focus might be a problem if they ignore the larger picture. These people are well-loved but can get into extreme moods and take things to conclusions that no one else might follow. They might be very cold and reserved, socially and emotionally withdrawn at times. While being insightful, they can be too evenhanded and not take a stand on one side or the other even when it is called for. These individuals may have a hard time getting angry or stating an opinion at times, even when the choice is obvious or an outrage must be addressed. This can lead to being amoral because of the lack of taking a stand, though this is not always a bad thing.
Compatibility
The following natal hexagrams represent people you naturally tend to have a positive reaction to:
| HEXAGRAM 1: | THE CREATIVE |
| HEXAGRAM 44: | COMING TO MEET |
| HEXAGRAM 33: | RETREAT |
| HEXAGRAM 12: | STANDSTILL |
| HEXAGRAM 20: | CONTEMPLATION |
| HEXAGRAM 23: | SPLITTING APART |
| HEXAGRAM 35: | PROGRESS |
| HEXAGRAM 14: | POSSESSION IN GREAT MEASURE |
The following natal hexagrams represent people you naturally tend to have a negative reaction to:
| HEXAGRAM 2: | THE RECEPTIVE |
| HEXAGRAM 24: | RETURN |
| HEXAGRAM 19: | APPROACH |
| HEXAGRAM 11: | PEACE |
| HEXAGRAM 34: | THE POWER OF THE GREAT |
| HEXAGRAM 43: | BREAKTHROUGH |
| HEXAGRAM 5: | WAITING |
| HEXAGRAM 8: | HOLDING TOGETHER |
HEXAGRAM 16
| Traits | |
| Enthusiastic | Political and priestly |
| Effervescent | Earthed movement |
| Trying | Bombastic |
| Stubborn | Harebrained |
| Terrible temper | Understands trends |
| Musically inclined | Scheming |
| Melodic | Pompous |
| Pattern-seeker or -weaver | Bright |
| Projects on others | Manipulative |
| Instigator | Social star |
| Mover and shaker | Exciting |
| Uniquely organized |
Life Lessons
These people need to be more aware of their mood swings, need to keep their cool, and they should strive to be more open to others.
Positive Tendencies
These are real up people who can tap into the ideals and aspirations that underlay the culture. These are individuals who tend to outdistance others and get more work done faster. These are the kind of people who organize their entire house while others are working on one cabinet. They drive others crazy because they are efficient. They are inventive, curious, and unique individuals who not only can come up with new ideas but who are also talented at promoting and pushing those ideas into reality. Movers and shakers, they are the kind of people who are behind plans, who motivate and facilitate. Idea people, they will run with good ideas and have their own way of doing things. Though very organized, they will not be so in the usual way, having their own system that works for them. These people lecture well and really do know what they’re talking about; they have a way of making others see patterns, vast ideas, and spiritual truths. These are very popular individuals, and many different types of people instantly feel comfortable with them. Social butterflies, they want to try everything and have lots of friends, but maybe not a lot of deep ones. They are a lot of fun to be with and like to go out and do stuff a lot. They are very active people who fill their schedules quickly. They probably overextend themselves, but they meet those demands. They may also have a number of unorthodox ideas and beliefs.
Negative Tendencies
These people can be very wearing and trying if they are too up, too hyper, too inventive. Sometimes they may have an awful temper that can flare up and die down quickly. It is rare, but intense. They can be stubborn when pursuing a task and may not give up even when it is clear they should. Being tenacious can be a problem when the project is not working. These people can be great at planning but they can also become too scheming, too Machiavellian with a hidden agenda. They can get a bit inflated and too concerned with their social status and also, deep down, may be extremely conservative in several ways. Such people need a bucket of water thrown on them occasionally.
Compatibility
The following natal hexagrams represent people you naturally tend to have a positive reaction to:
| HEXAGRAM 57: | THE PENETRATING |
| HEXAGRAM 9: | TAMING POWER OF THE SMALL |
| HEXAGRAM 37: | THE FAMILY |
| HEXAGRAM 42: | INCREASE |
| HEXAGRAM 25: | INNOCENCE |
| HEXAGRAM 21: | BITING THROUGH |
| HEXAGRAM 27: | NOURISHMENT |
| HEXAGRAM 18: | WORK THAT HAS BEEN SPOILED |
The following natal hexagrams represent people you naturally tend to have a negative reaction to:
| HEXAGRAM 51: | THE AROUSING |
| HEXAGRAM 16: | ENTHUSIASM |
| HEXAGRAM 40: | DELIVERANCE |
| HEXAGRAM 32: | DURATION |
| HEXAGRAM 46: | PUSHING UPWARD |
| HEXAGRAM 48: | THE WELL |
| HEXAGRAM 28: | PREPONDERANCE OF THE GREAT |
| HEXAGRAM 17: | FOLLOWING |
HEXAGRAM 17
| Traits | |
| Relaxed | Enlightened |
| Retreat | Type B personality |
| Follower | Depressed |
| Well-organized | Judgmental |
| Prosperous | Cynical |
| Follows through | Submissive |
| Pattern-weaver | Flexible |
| Mimic | Narrow focus |
| Bland | Protective |
| Nice and friendly | Very prepared |
| Supportive | Loyal follower |
| Guides others |
Life Lessons
These people need to learn ways to beat the blues; they need to get more energized about things and to learn that stress can be a good and productive thing.
Positive Tendencies
These are people who are very well adjusted and competent; they take it easy and seem to effortlessly keep things going. These are low-key but friendly people. They tend to have decent jobs, good friends, be open-minded, flexible, and are all-around good friends to have. They are responsible, trustworthy people who plan well for trips, meetings, and so on. They are rock-steady, easy to have around, and natural teachers in many ways. These people are incredibly adaptable and able to fit in to many different types of situations. They are capable of clearly examining themselves and then adjusting their behavior. They are the type of people who can quit things or simply start a new hobby with an act of will. They are relaxed and kind people who take directions well, who carry through on tasks assigned to them and do an excellent job. They are very introspective people who are often lost in thought. They may have an extremely realistic and pragmatic view of the world.
Negative Tendencies
These people may sometimes suffer from depression and be down in the dumps when things are not going very well. They can sometimes be too relaxed and low-key, slack and indolent, even lazy sometimes. Such people do better with direction from outside themselves and may tend to copy or mimic others, often without meaning to. This can be irritating. These people can do well dotting the Is and crossing Ts, but they may not do well with whole visionary conceptualizing. Here-and-now people, they may not plan well for the long term. These individuals can sometimes be one-sided or prejudiced. They may hate to be pressured emotionally and may retreat from this.
Compatibility
The following natal hexagrams represent people you naturally tend to have a positive reaction to:
| HEXAGRAM 52: | KEEPING STILL |
| HEXAGRAM 22: | GRACE |
| HEXAGRAM 26: | TAMING POWER OF THE GREAT |
| HEXAGRAM 41: | DECREASE |
| HEXAGRAM 38: | OPPOSITION |
| HEXAGRAM 10: | TREADING |
| HEXAGRAM 61: | INNER TRUTH |
| HEXAGRAM 53: | DEVELOPMENT |
The following natal hexagrams represent people you naturally tend to have a negative reaction to:
| HEXAGRAM 30: | THE CLINGING |
| HEXAGRAM 56: | THE WANDERER |
| HEXAGRAM 50: | THE CAULDRON |
| HEXAGRAM 64: | BEFORE COMPLETION |
| HEXAGRAM 4: | YOUTHFUL FOLLY |
| HEXAGRAM 59: | DISPERSION |
| HEXAGRAM 6: | CONFLICT |
| HEXAGRAM 13: | FELLOWSHIP WITH MEN |
HEXAGRAM 18
| Traits | |
| Electric | Alarmist |
| Depressive | Very stable |
| Feels guilt | Reliable |
| Sympathetic | Couch potato |
| Suppresses emotions | Karmic connections |
| Corrects others | Lets things reach critical mass |
| Social worker | then works on them |
| Helpful | Cyclical |
| Counselor | Suppress or ignore...explode |
| Stagnant | Thorough |
| Self-absorbed | Detail-oriented |
| Inward-looking |
Life Lessons
These people need to not take themselves so seriously, they need to learn to say no, and they have to work hard at getting out of ruts and to pay special attention to mistakes and learn from them.
Positive Tendencies
These are people who have strong moral compasses and who like to fix things and help people with problems. They tend to be good Samaritans, the kind of people you want around in an emergency. Look to these people to help others physically, emotionally, and even financially. They are real ‘fix-it’ people, who can be very handy around the house as well as in counseling others. They are extremely hard workers and are strongly motivated to make things right or make things work. If in the wrong in some way or when tackling problems, the chief motivation these individuals often have is to make amends. Though naturally a bit timid, they can accomplish great tasks when rousing themselves with focus and will. They are wise people who are natural teachers or therapists; they understand intuitively how to guide or direct others in order to really help them. Such people are drawn to those who need help and will probably be very involved in a number of different causes. They flow through situations, are very reliable, and tend to step into situations to complete them or get them back on track. These are people who can catch important errors or potential problems that may not be evident to others. They have great gut feelings and are very sympathetic. These people are very conscientious in relationships and in their jobs.
Negative Tendencies
These people may be very inward-looking, but they can end up being too self-absorbed at times. They can get stuck in a rut and can seem to be spinning their wheels. They may overextend, take on the problems of too many others and too many responsibilities and so get overloaded, possibly becoming ill or having other problems because of it. They often approach things in a cyclical manner, repeating situations and getting stuck on old behaviors and experiences. They may suppress stress and problems, ignore this pressure, then explode in some way, then the cycle starts up again. These people can need to chill out at times, but another problem can sometimes be laziness or sluggishness. Maybe they do something like watch too much TV and ignore the need for exercise.
Compatibility
The following natal hexagrams represent people you naturally tend to have a positive reaction to:
| HEXAGRAM 30: | THE CLINGING |
| HEXAGRAM 56: | THE WANDERER |
| HEXAGRAM 50: | THE CAULDRON |
| HEXAGRAM 64: | BEFORE COMPLETION |
| HEXAGRAM 4: | YOUTHFUL FOLLY |
| HEXAGRAM 59: | DISPERSION |
| HEXAGRAM 6: | CONFLICT |
| HEXAGRAM 13: | FELLOWSHIP WITH MEN |
The following natal hexagrams represent people you naturally tend to have a negative reaction to:
| HEXAGRAM 52: | KEEPING STILL |
| HEXAGRAM 22: | GRACE |
| HEXAGRAM 26: | TAMING POWER OF THE GREAT |
| HEXAGRAM 41: | DECREASE |
| HEXAGRAM 38: | OPPOSITION |
| HEXAGRAM 10: | TREADING |
| HEXAGRAM 61: | INNER TRUTH |
| HEXAGRAM 53: | DEVELOPMENT |
HEXAGRAM 19
| Traits | |
| High energy | High or low activity |
| Altruistic | Procrastinates |
| Positive viewpoint | Very energetic |
| Naive | Great stamina |
| Teacher-educator | Confused |
| Guide | Opportunistic |
| Salesman | Assertive |
| Open-minded politics | Stormy |
| Amoral | Great inner growth |
| Sanctimonious | Dynamic prosperity |
| Ups and downs | Self-realized |
Life Lessons
These people need to work on being more level-headed, need to let their conscience be their guide, and they really need to watch their health and lead a healthy lifestyle.
Positive Tendencies
These people are natural instructors with really high energy; they’ll go all out to support their friends and those they respect and admire. Dynamic, open, and outgoing people who finish an amazing number of projects, they will move up the ranks quickly through skill. They are natural entrepreneurs, talented at starting from scratch and creating a business, organization, or extended project. Self-confident, they tend to find a very deep spiritual path to work with or they create their own unique internal system of beliefs and ideas that mold their own view of the world. These people have great stamina and are competitive and a bit aggressive in a positive sense. They really take advantage of opportunities and have a knack for going with the flow. Very self-motivated, they can take a small idea and do amazing things with it, turning it into a full plan of action. They are natural salespeople who can do anything that requires charisma or charm. In relationships, they are often the instigator and like to stir things up in a fun and exciting way. They are often very prosperous, move up in a company quickly, and are real go-getters. Optimistic, positive people, they tackle things head-on and work things through. Such people may be attracted to alternative healing and different kinds of spirituality.
Negative Tendencies
These people may not have strong sets of real morals, may waffle and take the path of least resistance. They may bend the rules a bit and can have real highs and lows, being very energetic and later very run-down and burned out. They can easily get confused and disoriented and can get so hyped-up and excited that they may lose track of what’s what. This high energy can sometimes be chaotic, misdirected, or even out of control. These people may need to be careful during their middle years, watch their health, and try to even out. The very peak of summer may cause them problems in life. Things in their lives escalate quickly, and they need to watch this. Small problems should not be ignored or they’ll grow.
Compatibility
The following natal hexagrams represent people you naturally tend to have a positive reaction to:
| HEXAGRAM 1: | THE CREATIVE |
| HEXAGRAM 44: | COMING TO MEET |
| HEXAGRAM 33: | RETREAT |
| HEXAGRAM 12: | STANDSTILL |
| HEXAGRAM 20: | CONTEMPLATION |
| HEXAGRAM 23: | SPLITTING APART |
| HEXAGRAM 35: | PROGRESS |
| HEXAGRAM 14: | POSSESSION IN GREAT MEASURE |
The following natal hexagrams represent people you naturally tend to have a negative reaction to:
| HEXAGRAM 2: | THE RECEPTIVE |
| HEXAGRAM 24: | RETURN |
| HEXAGRAM 19: | APPROACH |
| HEXAGRAM 11: | PEACE |
| HEXAGRAM 34: | THE POWER OF THE GREAT |
| HEXAGRAM 43: | BREAKTHROUGH |
| HEXAGRAM 5: | WAITING |
| HEXAGRAM 8: | HOLDING TOGETHER |
HEXAGRAM 20
| Traits | |
| Yoga | Relaxed |
| Higher spiritual disciplines | Careful |
| Pontifical | Slow and boring |
| Teaching | Trusting |
| Open and empathic | Con artist |
| Wimp | Open to new ideas |
| Too “white light” | Gullible |
| Powerful existence | Hermitlike |
| Shows by doing | Withdrawn |
| Objective | Out of touch |
| Instinctive | Buddha-like |
| Contemplative |
Life Lessons
These people need to learn to accept the bad with the good and to understand that external reality mirrors internal reality, nor should they believe everything they hear.
Positive Tendencies
These are very spiritual people who really try to bring spirituality into their daily lives. Every day is a kind of meditation to them. These people have the ability to remove themselves from a given situation and objectively examine everything about that thing or situation, and thus clearly see what will happen and/or what should be done. Many will wonder “how did he see that coming?” but it will be natural to them. These are people who give great advice. They will be open-minded and are drawn to many kinds of experiences and spiritual paths, maybe trying such things as yoga or meditation or Tai Chi. Whether following a traditional discipline or not, these people will often have some sort of spiritual practice going. These are honest and trusting people who trust their instincts about events and people, often having hunches that turn out to be correct. They are watchers, people who like observing others and keeping track of the things going on around them. Patterns of behavior fascinate these people. They are real dreamers who can easily drift into a private space inside their heads. These people will be role models; people are drawn to watching and imitating them so this is the best way for them to teach others: teaching by doing. Home is very important to these people. They are very relaxed, easygoing, and humorous.
Negative Tendencies
These people can be a bit pompous or bombastic, a bit holier than thou. These are not obviously strong people, they can appear too wimpy, too whiny, and maybe too politically correct. These people may also be finicky. They may be having trouble with the dark side of life, accepting their dark side or the negative things in others. They may only want to hear positive things and may tend to be a little too “white light.” These people sometimes likes to withdraw, maybe too much, into a fantasy life. They like alone-time, which is OK, but they need to be careful or they’ll become hermits. Sometimes they may be out of touch with what’s going on. These people might like to play tricks sometimes, and this can be taken to extremes and end up being mean.
Compatibility
The following natal hexagrams represent people you naturally tend to have a positive reaction to:
| HEXAGRAM 51: | THE AROUSING |
| HEXAGRAM 16: | ENTHUSIASM |
| HEXAGRAM 40: | DELIVERANCE |
| HEXAGRAM 32: | DURATION |
| HEXAGRAM 46: | PUSHING UPWARD |
| HEXAGRAM 48: | THE WELL |
| HEXAGRAM 28: | PREPONDERANCE OF THE GREAT |
| HEXAGRAM 17: | FOLLOWING |
The following natal hexagrams represent people you naturally tend to have a negative reaction to:
| HEXAGRAM 57: | THE PENETRATING |
| HEXAGRAM 9: | TAMING POWER OF THE SMALL |
| HEXAGRAM 37: | THE FAMILY |
| HEXAGRAM 42: | INCREASE |
| HEXAGRAM 25: | INNOCENCE |
| HEXAGRAM 21: | BITING THROUGH |
| HEXAGRAM 27: | NOURISHMENT |
| HEXAGRAM 18: | WORK THAT HAS BEEN SPOILED |
HEXAGRAM 21
| Traits | |
| Loving order | Holier than thou |
| Strict | Decisive |
| Fair or unfair | Interpreter |
| Judgmental | Successful |
| Clinical-minded | Accurate |
| Attentive | Scientific |
| Conscious | Exact |
| Sharp | Neat |
| Analytical | Exasperating |
| Profit-oriented | Biting and sarcastic |
| Good decision maker | Overbearing |
| Dictator | Blunt and truthful |
Life Lessons
These people need to learn not to be so uptight; they should be more sympathetic and supportive of others and less concerned with appearances.
Positive Tendencies
