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ОглавлениеDuring the latter half of the 20th Century Western and especially Anglo-Saxon societies saw puritanical attitudes give way, overtly at least, to permissiveness in much social behavior, including sex.
In the 1950s, as one of the characters in the collections of my stories to which this essay serve as an introduction states:
“Because of the pervasive social attitudes to sex, I always felt that I was being ‘dirty’ for wanting to make love to a woman - even if she was my wife and we were living together within as sanctified Christian marriage.”
Such attitudes must seem antediluvian to young married couples today – as well as to unmarried couples whether they are seriously in love or just enjoying an inconsequential, happy-go-lucky fling.
Changes in the degree of frankness with which the more intimate physical relationships between men and women have been either discussed orally or articulated in writing have usually been a measure of the accompanying real changes in acceptable behavior.
Of John Updike, Martin Amis wrote that he “was congenitally unembarrassable and we are the beneficiaries of that. He took the novel onto another plane of intimacy: he took us beyond the bedroom and into the bathroom. It's as if nothing human seemed closed to his eye. I think he was probably of the pattern of his generation.”
According to that pattern, a fuck is now unashamedly identified as just that: a fuck. No longer does a stunned or embarrassed silence greet me when I say or write the “f” word. That a woman wants her man or even just a man to satisfy her sexually is now understood and accepted. If she wants a fuck, she is free to go get it, even explicitly ask for it, with the blessing of most, provided, for some, she’s not too brazen about it.
She is no longer regarded as a whore because she has sexual desires, even lusts, she is eager to indulge. We are no longer disbelieving of what Gilbert Frankau quoted in Everywoman in 1933:
“Men, some to business, some to pleasure take;
But every woman is at heart a rake.”
Now we are more conditioned to stories that tell us:
“The feeling of his fingers on the back of her thigh was electric and she felt herself spreading her legs…”
Such teasing introductory words leave us in no doubt what the couple are going to do and we will expect a frank, detailed account of how they actually do it. Its explicitness should both inform and please us. What they do may even constitute an agreeable model for us to copy - if the fancy takes us.
In providing the clutch of literary and pragmatic services we expect from them, writers have had to embrace more highly descriptive and idiomatic words than before.-.some of them from the coarser male lexicon or “the gutter.”
Once introduced into “respectable” life and literature, those words have tended to be used ever more extravagantly within and among ever wider social groups. To some extent, they have become a measure of an individual’s or a society’s “liberalism” or “liberation.”
Published in 1749, Henry Fielding’s Tom Jones told of illicit liaisons, prostitution and sexual promiscuity; but although he is said to be “much more passionate” than other 18th Century writers, he offered no graphic descriptions of sexual organs or behaviour.
The text of Tom Jones resembled dictionaries of the period in that it used no four-letter words to describe either our most intimate sexual activities or our organs of sin and rapture.
Published just six years later, Dr Johnson’s Dictionary included four-letter words on “excretory” functions but omitted such highly evocative words as ass, fuck, cunt and other derivatives. So did later dictionaries until about the second half of the 20th Century, although there were some curiosities.
As just one example, the Third Edition of Webster’s Dictionary launched in 1961 omitted the “f” word and derivatives but included what many regard as the even more offensive “c” word.
Kate Allen says that “The extra level of offensiveness that many people perceive the word [cunt] to carry implies a squeamishness about women’s bits - this attitude is in itself sexist or even misogynist! We’re beginning to get over that squeamishness, reverting the word back to its original meaning and reclaiming it as a descriptive term. This is a positive action, removing its negative connotations.”
The differences between Dr Johnson’s and the mid-twentieth-century Webster’s Dictionaries reflected some easing both of moral standards and literary freedoms.
Fiction writers were still hesitant to use a vocabulary of four-letter and other “obscene” words to give colour to their stories and, in societies in which sex education was negligible, to contribute to the sexual enlightenment of their readers. So, although constraints on graphic descriptions of our sexual organs and activities had been, by the middle of the twentieth century, somewhat reduced, the emphasis is very much on “somewhat”.
Most books of classic status, if they had rude words or obscene images, were cleaned up: they were expurgated. This applied to such classics as Chaucer’s Canterbury Tales and Shakespeare’s Plays and Sonnets.
Pauline Kiernan wrote that “underlying obscenity punctuates the surface decorum” of Love’s Labour’s Lost. Obviously this had to be cleaned up to enable the play to be read by underage Shakespearean students – and others with delicate sensibilities.
Those writers who published their work uncensored, such as Anais Nin and D.H. Lawrence, had their writings wrapped in brown paper and sold from under the counters of the more sleazy bookstores. Their sale resembled the mode of selling contraceptives from pharmacies before the 1960s, a mode described realistically in one of my short stories, The Edge of a Precipice.
Despite the constraints, Anais Nin wrote frankly about her own and others’ sexuality:
“I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don’t mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding."