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Before we start on the topic of how to maintain your relationship, let’s start on the topic of what you should know about being in a relationship.

As most people know, relationships are difficult. Even in stories, or movies, there are tears, breakups, and pain.

Yet, unlike reality, most romance stories and movies end with a happy ending. Unfortunately, reality is like a tragedy.

You won’t always get to be with the person that you want to be with no matter how hard you try to maintain the connection between you two.

Sometimes, breakups are a good aspect of a relationship because it allows you to grow as an individual. It’ll allow you to think about what went wrong in the past relationship so you can better improve in the next one.

If a relationship isn’t meant to be then you shouldn't force to be. Meaning that if there is nothing else left for you and your partner to do in a relationship, there is no point in continuing it.

If you’re trying to hold on to someone who is preparing himself to leave then I can only say that you are making a useless and thoughtless decision.

It’s useless because your partner can no longer see you as someone he can spend the rest of his life with no matter how hard to try to persuade him.

It’s thoughtless because all you're doing is dragging him down and stopping him from finding someone else who he could feel comfortable with.

Of course, it’s not an easy thing to do, but, at the same time, you are also dragging yourself down by trying to cling onto him when you can also find someone else who would match you better than he would. Even if you deny it and say, “He’s the one”, in the end, there are other ones who are better.