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Few of the results of recent research are more surprising than the revelation of the existence among low races of elaborate systems of unwritten law covering, often in a very orderly and comprehensive way, most of the divisions which one ordinarily associates with "civilized" jurisprudence.[724] This is especially true of the law of divorce. The investigations of various scholars, notably those of Kohler, Letourneau, Westermarck, and Post, have disclosed among the barbarous or even savage races of mankind a careful attention to detail, a stability, and often a respect for equity, in the customary rules relating to the dissolution of marriage, which western prejudice is scarcely prepared to find; while other peoples commonly looked upon as civilized, but relatively non-progressive, such as the Chinese, are sometimes quite capable of teaching us valuable lessons in this regard.

According to the generalization of Post, who has given the most careful groupings,[725] "the laws of divorce found among the different peoples of the earth vary within the widest limits conceivable." So confusing, indeed, is the mass of custom relating to the subject that in the very outset a word of warning must be given. For in the present state of inquiry, often dependent upon superficial observation and conflicting reports, any analysis or classification, however careful, must perforce be accepted as really tentative and only in broad outline approaching the truth. Nevertheless, with regard to the liberty of divorce, following the suggestion of Post, five classes of peoples may be differentiated:

1. Very often among rude races, particularly where the "genealogical organization is little developed or in process of decay," the marriage bond is lax, and it is readily dissolved at the pleasure of either party.[726] Such is the case with many African, Asiatic, American, and Oceanic peoples. Among the African Damaras, for instance, the wife may change her husband every week if she likes.[727] Similarly among the Shekiani, another negro tribe, the woman may abandon her spouse for mistreatment or for any other cause, returning to her native village, where her friends make it a point of honor not to give her back; and in this way wars sometimes arise.[728] Like freedom exists on the Gold Coast and among the Felups of Fogni; and very commonly in Africa the wife may leave the husband if the purchase price is returned.[729] Among the Makassars and Buginese, without assigning any cause whatever, either party may divorce the other, dividing the children between them.[730] The same is true of the endogamic Alfurese of Minahasa, with whom the cognatic system of relationship prevails.[731] Even in Burma divorce appears to be a one-sided matter, though the person dissolving the marriage suffers severe disadvantages with respect to property rights.[732] In ancient Arabia marriages were formed without ceremony, and they were ended by either spouse with equal ease.[733] But the law of the Amaxosa, constituting with the Amazulu the division of the Bantu stock commonly called "Kafirs," affords a particularly interesting example of early custom with regard to divorce and its legal consequences. Both parties enjoy the greatest freedom in dissolving the marriage; and this is all the more striking because of the prevalence of wife-purchase, which usually restricts the privileges of the woman in this regard. If the marriage is childless, however long it may have endured, the husband who proves the alleged ground of divorce is entitled to receive back the purchase price; and this is true also, in case of such a marriage, when the separation takes place on the part of the wife, unless she establishes very grave cause for her action. The divorced woman is permitted to marry again, provided the purchase price is restored to the first husband; and this in such case he is entitled to receive even when she has borne him children: for here "in all cases the children belong to the father."[734]

Divorce is a simple matter among the Point Barrow Eskimo. "As well as we could judge," writes Murdoch, "the marriage bond was regarded simply as a contract ...; and, without any formal ceremony of divorce, easily dissolved in the same way on account of incompatibility of temper or even on account of temporary disagreements."[735] Among the Santee Dakotas, where mother-right is said to prevail, "a wife's mother can take her from the husband and give her to another man." With "the Cegiha, if the husband is kind, the mother-in-law never interferes." But when he is "unkind the wife takes herself back, saying to him, 'I have had you for my husband long enough; depart.'" When the man has beaten the woman several times or been otherwise cruel, sometimes her father or elder brother says to him: "You have made her suffer; you shall not have her for a wife any longer." When a woman who has been warned against a man by her relatives repents and wishes to dissolve the marriage, her male kindred as a punishment say to her: "Not so; still have him for your husband; remain with him always."[736]

2. Passing to the opposite extreme, there are peoples with whom marriage is a relation absolutely indissoluble. Sometimes this is the case on sacramental grounds, implying usually considerable progress in religious ideas;[737] but it is also true of peoples standing on a very low plane of culture, such as certain of the Papuas of New Guinea, the Veddahs[738] of Ceylon, or the Niassers of Batu, where death alone is sufficient to dissolve the marriage bond.[739]

3. Between these extremes of one-sided freedom and entire prohibition of divorce various intermediate phases appear. Sometimes the only method is mutual agreement of the parties. So, for instance, according to Post, among the Karo-Karo, a Batak tribe on the east coast of Sumatra, neither harsh mistreatment, wicked desertion, nor even adultery gives either the wife or the husband singly the right to demand a separation. Only in case of life-assault is one-sided divorce permitted; and this rule is perhaps a mitigation of the older and severer law.[740] In West-Victoria "a man can divorce his wife for serious misconduct, and even put her to death; but in every case the charge against her must first be laid before the chiefs of his own and his wife's tribes, and their consent to her punishment obtained. If the wife has children, however, she cannot be divorced. Should a betrothed woman be found after marriage to have been unfaithful, her husband must divorce her. Her relations then remove her and her child to her own tribe, and compel the father of the child to marry her, unless he be a relative. In that case she must remain unmarried. If a husband is unfaithful, his wife cannot divorce him. She may make a complaint to the chief, who can punish the man by sending him away for two or three moons; and the guilty woman is very severely punished by her relatives." But there are other ways of dissolving a marriage; and under some conditions the woman has a chance. Exchange of wives, when both are childless, is "permitted only after the death of their parents, and, of course, with the consent of the chiefs." A couple without children may separate by mutual consent; and "when a woman is treated with cruelty by her husband, she may put herself under the protection of another man, with the intention of becoming his wife. If he take upon himself the duty of protecting her, he must challenge her husband and defeat him in single combat in presence of the chiefs and friends of both parties." When a "husband knows that his wife is in love with another man, and if he has no objection to part with her, he takes her basket to the man's wuurn and leaves it. But as no marriage or exchange of wives can take place without the consent of the chief, the wife remains with her husband till the final great meeting, when the bargain is confirmed. This amicable separation does not create any ill feeling between the parties, as the woman is always kind to her first husband without causing any jealousy on the part of the second. Such transactions, although lawful, may not be approved of by the woman's relatives, and she is liable to be speared by her brother."[741]

Among the Marea, when husband and wife can no longer tolerate each other, they are given a year's probation by the "family council;" and only after the expiration of this period does the formal divorce take place. A discontented Marea dame of noble (patriarchal) rank may not of her own will leave her husband; for this would offend social usage. But a Tigrait, or woman of the servile class, may under such circumstances abandon her spouse, provided thenceforth she live abroad.[742]

4. Again it is very common among uncivilized as well as more advanced races for a man to have absolute right of divorce, putting away his wife when he likes, without the assignment of any reason, or on the most frivolous grounds.[743] Sometimes, even among the same peoples, the woman has a reciprocal right, as will presently appear; but very often divorce is the sole prerogative of the man, or else the woman is grudgingly allowed the privilege only for the most serious cause. The unfavorable position in which she is thus placed is no doubt largely due to wife-capture, and especially to wife-purchase, through which she too often sinks to the level of a mere chattel or beast of burden. Still even wife-purchase, as hereafter shown, may have its compensations; for the husband cannot act too harshly without danger of the blood-feud; and he may suffer a decided disadvantage with respect to property by summarily dismissing his wife. Unlimited right of divorce belongs to the man in some parts of China,[744] and with many African[745] and American[746] tribes. "The Aleuts used to exchange their wives for food and clothes. In Tonga a husband divorces his wife by simply telling her to go." In "Yucatan a man might divorce his wife for the merest trifle, even though he had children by her."[747] Among the California Yurok "divorce is very easily accomplished at the will of the husband, the only indispensable formality being that he must receive back from his father-in-law the money which he paid for his spouse."[748] If dissatisfied with his wife, the young Gallinomero of the same region may "strike a bargain with another man" and sell her "for a few strings of shell-money."[749] In the so-called "straw dance" the Dakota husband may "throw away" the wife whom he no longer desires. He may even take several wives in order to dispose of them in this way; thus adding to his importance and giving evidence of his "strong heart."[750] Among the Abipones divorces are as frequent "as changing of the dress in Europe." If "their wives displease them, it is sufficient; they are ordered to decamp." The husband's right is unrestrained by the law; but, "appointing a drinking-party, wherein the memory of injuries is refreshed in the minds of the intoxicated guests, the relations fiercely avenge the dishonor done to the repudiated wife."[751] The Tasmanian husband, when dissatisfied or when a liberal offer is made, may "transfer" his spouse like a slave; but in Luzon a divorce is more difficult, for the wedding gifts must be redistributed among the donors.[752] With "the ancient Hebrews, Greeks, Romans, and Germans, dislike was regarded as a sufficient reason for divorce."[753] Such is also the case on the island of Nias;[754] while among the Galela and Tobelorese the man may put away his wife on account of laziness; and elsewhere he may do the same because she is tiresome or because she lacks skill for household service.[755]

Under the existing law of Islâm the woman has gained a limited right of divorce. By the form called chol she may buy her release; and in this case "a restoration of the marriage bond is impossible." Again, for certain specified faults of the husband, she is granted a separation through fasch, or judicial decree.[756] On the other hand, by li'an, or solemn oath before the cadi, a husband is able to put away the spouse whom he believes to be unfaithful;[757] but in general the right of the man to reject the woman without assigning any cause whatever is absolutely unrestrained. The great majority of divorces among Moslem peoples take the form of talâq, or repudiation. It is only necessary for the husband who is tired of his wife to say to her "mutállaka," "Thou art dismissed."[758] In harmony with the old Arabian custom the procedure by talâq may consist of a "triple declaration" or three successive divorces. After the first pronouncement of the formula the repudiated woman remains three months in her harem at the man's cost, and he is at liberty to take her back if he will. Indeed, a single tender glance or word of concession is sufficient to restore the marriage. Should he not reclaim her until the specified term is passed, he may then do so only in case she has not already taken a new husband, and by paying her a "second time the full amount of the morning-gift as stipulated at their marriage." A second or even a third separation from the same wife may be had by repetition of this process; but the third declaration, unlike the other two, is irrevocable, definitively dissolving the marriage bond.[759]

Among a great many peoples, even those comparatively little advanced in general culture, the husband is permitted to divorce his wife only for definite reasons.[760] The causes of legal divorce most constantly recurring are adultery and sterility. In a great many cases divorce is absolutely forbidden after a child, usually a son, is born. It should be carefully noted that many of the alleged examples of divorce on the ground of sterility are, strictly speaking, not divorces at all; but rather illustrations of the so-called "proof-marriages" so often met with in all parts of the world. Not until the term of probation is "blessed" by the arrival of offspring is the "marriage" in such cases regarded as complete, though this may not always be the implied condition. With the proof-marriages are sometimes described as identical in character the "time-marriages" found among many peoples; but this form of union is, properly speaking, usually a real marriage not dependent for its consummation upon the birth of a child, being stipulated in advance for a certain term.[761] Besides the two leading grounds of divorce already mentioned, many others, some of them trivial, are prescribed by the laws of various peoples. Such are mistreatment, deformity, laziness, desertion, and incompatibility of temper. Sometimes the consent of the chief or other public authority is requisite. So, among the Hottentots, a man may divorce his wife only "upon shewing such cause as shall be satisfactory to the men of the kraal where they live;"[762] and among the aborigines of Victoria, as already seen, a childless wife may be dismissed for serious misconduct only when the sanction of the tribal chief is obtained.[763] By Chinese law divorce must be granted in case of any of the numerous impediments[764] to marriage; or when the wife is guilty of adultery. For that offense the aggrieved husband may kill the offending wife and her paramour, if he catch them in flagrante delicto. But should the woman not be slain, she is punished, and the husband may drive her away or even sell her as a concubine, provided he has not pandered to the crime or does not sell her to the guilty man.[765] Furthermore, a marriage may be dissolved by mutual agreement;[766] and the husband is entitled to a divorce when the wife strikes him, is addicted to drunkenness or opium smoking, has been defiled before marriage, or when she leaves his house against his will.[767] Besides all these grounds, established by statute or recent usage, Confucius allows the husband a divorce for any of seven faults of the wife: barrenness, wantonness, inattention to parents-in-law, talkativeness, theft, jealousy, and inveterate disease such as leprosy.[768] But these grounds will not always warrant a separation. "They may be outweighed by particular merits of the woman or by special circumstances. If the wife has mourned three years for the husband's parents; if the family has grown rich during the marriage; or if the wife has no longer relatives to receive her, then the seven assigned grounds fail, the divorce is not only forbidden but void, and the husband must retain his wife."[769] This is not the only wise and righteous provision of the Chinese law, however despotic as a rule may be the husband's power. Normally the wife cannot sue for divorce; still practically she enjoys the right of separation in several important contingencies. Under judicial approval, for instance, she may release herself from the marriage bond in case of three[770] years' desertion without word from her husband. So likewise, when she suffers grave insult from the husband's parents, she may return to her own family, reclaim her dotal gift, and demand a contribution for her support.[771]

In modern Japan divorce is regulated according to the principles of western law; but formerly the husband's power was governed, as in China, by the rules of Confucius.[772] Furthermore, in spirit the Aztec law of divorce bears a striking resemblance to that of China. Only in special cases, not now understood, had the woman a right of separation; and the husband could put away his wife only for definite reasons, such as sterility and certain defects of character, as when she proved herself careless, impatient, lazy, or quarrelsome. Divorce, however, was discouraged; and even when a legal reason was alleged, it could not be effected without a judicial decree. The decree did not declare the separation; it merely allowed the plaintiff in the matter "to do what he should find good." Thus permission was given for divorce; but the judge avoided pronouncing the separation in direct words.[773]

5. Finally, in further illustration of the endless variety of popular customs, it must be noted that among many peoples the wife also has the right of divorce. Often, as already seen, she may leave her husband at pleasure or on the slightest pretext. It needs but a glance at the usages of the American Indians in this regard to perceive that the lot of the married woman among barbarous or even savage tribes is not always so dark as it is frequently painted;[774] and many similar proofs elsewhere exist.[775] Among the inland Columbians, according to Bancroft, "either party may dissolve the marriage at will."[776] A similar rule prevails with the Moxos of South America, the tribes of California, as well as among the Iroquois and their neighbors.[777] "If a Bonak wife gets up and leaves the man, he has no claim ever after on her;"[778] and, according to Schoolcraft, when the Navajo woman marries, "she becomes free, and may leave her husband for sufficient cause."[779] The Guanan[780] and Guatemalan[781] wife is equally privileged; and the Sioux and other Dakota women are often notoriously independent, even beating their husbands for unfaithfulness, and for this or other just cause returning to their own kindred.[782] Sometimes the wife has the right of divorce only on definite grounds, which may differ from or be the same as those permitted to the husband.[783] Often the reasons which satisfy the moral sense of the community are very slight; at other times they are grave and few in number. Among the Shans, "should the husband take to drinking or otherwise misconducting himself, the woman has the right to turn him adrift, and to retain all the goods and money of the partnership."[784] In "Eastern Central Africa divorce may be effected if the husband neglects to sew his wife's clothes, or if the partners do not please each other."[785] Theoretically among the Athenians the woman could demand a divorce for mistreatment, "in which case she had merely to announce her wish to the archons;"[786] while the Kafir wife "who is beaten or not provided with sufficient food and clothes is entitled to return to her parents."[787] In fact, the right of the woman to repudiate her husband for mistreatment is alleged to be the general rule according to negro custom.[788] Even by modern Mohammedan legislation "divorce may, in certain cases, take place at the instance of the wife, and, if cruelly treated or neglected by her husband, she has the right of demanding divorce by authority of justice."[789]