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Women are able to face difficulties while preserving warmth, care, and love, even in the most challenging moments. They carry the power to inspire those around them, creating an atmosphere of support and belief in what is possible. They feel the world more deeply, able to understand the pain and joy of others, helping people grow and heal.

Women adapt easily to change, solving countless tasks on the go and finding balance amid chaos. They see beauty in the small things and can turn the ordinary into the extraordinary, discovering solutions where no one else sees them. They are the guardians of life—giving life not only physically, but symbolically, through the creation of comfort, harmony, and inspiration for transformation.

A tremendous force is hidden within a woman when she embraces her nature and finds confidence in her uniqueness. A woman’s strength lies in her depth, in her ability to unite power and gentleness, reason and feeling, logic and intuition, creating harmony and love around her.

Where there is love, there is a woman.

But what if love begins not with “us,” but with “me”? Not with expectations, not with trying to earn it, not with hoping that someone will one day truly see you—but with the moment you finally turn toward yourself.

“WHOLE: From Losing Yourself to Loving Yourself” is a book for women who feel that something inside them longs for more and better. This book is a path—a path of returning to yourself. There will be no rules on how to be “convenient” or “good enough,” but you will understand much. By holding this book in your hands, you are already taking the first steps toward a new life, and it will be better than the one before. Truly believe this, and everything will unfold.

Yes… Perhaps you have lost yourself in love, forgotten your desires for the sake of a relationship, feared loneliness, feared making mistakes, doubted yourself, and lost faith in who you are. For many people, the fear of making a mistake—of failing, of looking foolish—is one of the greatest barriers to growth. But it is through mistakes that experience is born, through challenges that strength emerges, and through failures that the path to genuine success is built. Perfection, fortunately, does not exist. Sincerity, courage, and the willingness to learn—these are what make a person truly remarkable.

So give yourself permission to try, even if it’s frightening and even if things don’t work out the first time. You know, habits and discipline turn a dream into a goal, and a goal into a result. Want change? Start small. Simple actions carry tremendous power—they build confidence and a sense of control. Remember: every step you take is a brick in the foundation of your future. You have only today, and it is up to you whether this day becomes just another link in the chain of routine—or a step toward a brighter, fuller life.

What kind of actions? Keep reading…

If you’ve lost faith in yourself, it’s only temporary. Everyone experiences moments of struggle. Think of your victories, of how you’ve already overcome challenges before. And if you compare yourself to others—stop. Everyone has their own path. Social media shows only success, but behind it lie obstacles. That is why it is important to focus on your own growth. Do something simple but meaningful for yourself: exercise, start learning a foreign language, complete a task you’ve been putting off. Small victories accumulate and build confidence.

Speak to yourself with kindness—replace self-criticism with support. Instead of “I can’t,” say “I’ll try,” “I’m learning,” “I will find a way.” Remember: mistakes are part of our growth. Every successful person has failed. Those moments teach us and make us stronger. What matters is not the failure itself, but how you respond to it. Surround yourself with support—talk to those who believe in you: friends, family, mentors. Their faith may help you see yourself differently. Many experienced psychologists believe this is one of the most powerful forms of healing. And allow yourself rest—a break, a pause, a vacation. Sometimes the loss of confidence is simply a sign of exhaustion. Rest, reconnect with joy, and act despite fear. Don’t wait for confidence—it comes through action. Move forward, even if the steps are small. You are stronger than you think.

If you are still reading these lines, it means something inside you has responded. You are not simply curious—you feel, you understand, you recognize the truth in these words. And at the same time, like any woman, you need guidance. Someone or something to remind you, affirm you, inspire you. Sometimes all we need is one word, one phrase to ignite a spark within. Sometimes a story that touches the heart. Sometimes a quiet but steady voice saying, “You are on the right path.”

This book will be that voice for you. Here, you will gather strength, discover new insights, and gain experience—all so that you can take one step closer to the woman you truly are.

“WHOLE: From Losing Yourself to Loving Yourself” is a book about returning to yourself and learning to love who you are. This is the only path to what is real, and it is where everything begins. You can start your journey right now.

First, remember this: in perfect conditions there is no room for growth. Where everything is predictable and safe, there is no impulse to seek new horizons. Life’s changes—no matter how unexpected or difficult they may seem—are actually an invitation to rise to a new level. And right here, at this very point, you have a choice. We will talk about choice later.

For now, read about why we grow tired of love—and a little about me.

Wishing you a meaningful and enriching reading experience.