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Interpersonal Relationships in the Family

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Hi, I’m Leo, I’m 16, and I live with my mom, dad, and older sister, Emma, who’s 18. I guess you could say that our family is a bit complicated, especially when it comes to relationships.


My mom and I get along pretty well most of the time, but there are moments when we just don’t understand each other. She’s always on my case about school and what I should do with my life. She’s really protective, and sometimes I feel like she doesn’t trust me to make my own decisions. I know she means well, but it can be frustrating when she treats me like I’m still a kid.


My dad is a bit different. We don’t talk much about personal stuff, but I know he supports me. He’s more laid-back and gives me space, but sometimes I wish he would be a bit more involved. He’s often busy with work, and I understand that, but I feel like we don’t have many deep conversations.


Emma, my sister, and I have a love-hate relationship. One minute, we’re laughing together, and the next minute, we’re fighting over something silly like whose turn it is to clean the bathroom. I don’t know why, but we just seem to clash a lot. Maybe it’s because we’re both trying to find our place in the family, and sometimes it feels like there’s not enough attention to go around.


But no matter what happens, we always manage to make up. We might argue, but at the end of the day, we all care about each other. I’ve learned that family relationships can be tough, but they’re also the most important ones. Even when we disagree, we support each other because we’re family, and that’s what matters most.

Useful Phrases and Expressions

To get along well – ладить с кем-то


To be on someone’s case – надоедать кому-то, критиковать


To treat someone like a kid – относиться к кому-то как к ребенку


To trust someone – доверять кому-то


To support someone – поддерживать кого-то


To give someone space – давать кому-то пространство


To be involved – быть вовлеченным


To clash with someone – конфликтовать с кем-то


To fight over something – ссориться из-за чего-то


To make up – помириться


To have deep conversations – проводить глубокие беседы


To feel frustrated – чувствовать себя раздраженно


To treat someone like an adult – относиться к кому-то как к взрослому


To argue with someone – спорить с кем-то


To find one’s place in the family – найти свое место в семье


To have a love-hate relationship – иметь отношения «любовь-ненависть»


To understand someone – понимать кого-то


To care about someone – заботиться о ком-то


To manage to do something – справиться с чем-то


To be protective – быть защитным, опекающим


To give advice – давать советы


To trust someone’s judgment – доверять чьему-то мнению


To keep things to oneself – держать что-то при себе


To feel like there’s not enough attention – чувствовать, что на тебя не хватает внимания


To be there for someone – быть рядом с кем-то, поддерживать

Vocabulary Practice Exercises

Exercise 1: Fill-in-the-blanks


Fill in the blanks with the appropriate phrases from the list.


My mom is always __________ about my grades and future, but I know she just wants the best for me.


Sometimes my sister and I __________ over the smallest things, like who left the dishes in the sink.


I really appreciate that my dad gives me __________ and lets me handle things on my own.


My parents __________ me in everything I do, even if we don’t always agree.


After our argument, Emma and I finally __________ and made up.


My sister and I __________, and it feels like we can never agree on anything.


Sometimes I feel like my mom treats me like a child instead of __________ me like an adult.


I get really __________ when my mom keeps telling me what to do.


Even though we fight, I know that my family will always __________ me.


I like to __________ with my friends instead of talking to my parents about personal stuff.


Exercise 2: Matching


Match the phrases with their correct translations.


To clash with someone


To trust someone’s judgment


To feel frustrated


To have a love-hate relationship


To give advice


To be protective


a) чувствовать себя раздраженно

b) иметь отношения «любовь-ненависть»

c) давать советы

d) быть защитным

e) конфликтовать с кем-то

f) доверять чьему-то мнению


Exercise 3: Personal Questions


Answer the following questions based on your own experiences.


How do you get along with your parents or siblings? Are there any specific things you argue about?


Have you ever felt misunderstood by your parents? How did you handle it?


Do you feel your parents treat you more like a child or an adult? Why?


How do you resolve conflicts with your siblings or parents?


What do you do when you need advice from your family?

Answer Key

Exercise 1: Fill-in-the-blanks


on my case


fight over something


space


support


made up


clash with someone


treating


frustrated


be there for


keep things to myself


Exercise 2: Matching


To clash with someone – e) конфликтовать с кем-то


To trust someone’s judgment – f) доверять чьему-то мнению


To feel frustrated – a) чувствовать себя раздраженно


To have a love-hate relationship – b) иметь отношения «любовь-ненависть»


To give advice – c) давать советы


To be protective – d) быть защитником


Example Answers to Personal Questions:


How do you get along with your parents or siblings? Are there any specific things you argue about?

I get along well with my parents, but I sometimes argue with my sister over small things like who gets the TV remote or who has to do the dishes. We get over it quickly, though.


Have you ever felt misunderstood by your parents? How did you handle it?

Yes, sometimes I feel like my mom doesn’t understand why I want to spend so much time with my friends instead of at home. I explained that it’s important for me to have my own space, and she listened after that.


Do you feel your parents treat you more like a child or an adult? Why?

I think my parents treat me like an adult because they trust me to make decisions for myself. However, my mom still gives me advice about school and my future, which makes me feel like she wants to protect me.


How do you resolve conflicts with your siblings or parents?

I usually talk things out calmly with my siblings after a disagreement. If it’s with my parents, I try to explain my point of view and listen to theirs. If we still don’t agree, we take some time and come back to the conversation later.


What do you do when you need advice from your family?

When I need advice, I usually talk to my dad because he gives good, level-headed advice. My mom tends to be a bit emotional, but I go to her for support when I need comfort.

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