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I’m not going to quote some dictionary about something you already know.

Marriage is two people, a man and a woman forging an alliance out of love, or (love in the pipeline kind) and becoming what we call a family. Then there’s the ultimate marriage example which I have yet to see:

The perfect social idea of marriage:

Boy is born, boy grows up and goes to school, college, enjoys life a bit, works, enjoys life a bit more, gets married, has children, maybe becomes a grandfather, dies. The end.

That’s the rough sketch, in that vague set of events lies the essence of marriage, or not.

The ideal marriage consists of a wealthy families boy, marrying into another wealthy or wealthier family, a family that has good genes, a family that can benefit, a family that is connected.

Girl is born, grows up and goes to school, QUICKLY GET MARRIED!! you might miss your marriage train!? True story. Everyday in the Arab world. What about living? Understanding? Readiness? And all the other stuff we choose to close our eyes to.

Of course there is the small female section of society that does go through life like a man, same sequence too.