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You are looking at this World with your eyes widely open.

You are waiting for a beautiful fairy-tale in this life, and your future destiny depends only upon you.

Your soul is as pure as that of Angel.

Right now, your fate hangs in the balance.

Some more time… and you will make

Your most critical mistake determining a lot in your life.

You are still a virgin.

You are pure and innocent.

What do you dream about?

Probably, about the handsome price.

About great and romantic love.

Though, unfortunately, life is not so beautiful as fairy tales and dreams.

And your first affection will hardly grow into a serious and mutual feeling. It is only in the fairy-tales that a noble and decent prince leads a girl down the aisle.

The probability of meeting such a prince is one to a million. It is the same as hitting the jackpot.

Do not play gambles with your own destiny – for the payment for this gamble is a failed life – suffers and the broken destiny.

Don’t hurry up…

The Universe will certainly give you a man you deserve.

To be yes-girl means to agree to sex, no matter, at which date – the first or tenth.

It looks like the works has turned upside down. What used to be considered vulgar and shameful is now accepted to be a norm of conduct.

Ant thigs which used to be a norm have suddenly become almost a miracle. An exception to the general rules.

A decent pure girl, the one, who decided to save herself for the future husband, feels like an odd bird, and she has to explain to everybody the reasons of her “strange obsolete behavior”.

Nevertheless, such girls, as a rule, settle their lives quite well.

Long ago, I had a friend from the city of Vladimir.

What I had always wondered at is the number of her followers.

There were about 5 or 7 of them, I do not remember exactly.

Handsome, well-bred young men wheeled around her like the bees around the honey.

They walked together, romanced her, and invited her to the cinema.

And she had a good time with them without giving preference to anyone. As far as I know, she did not hurry in gaining the intimate experience.

All her followers were in such a deep love that they did not notice anyone around.

A no-girl is nonsense nowadays.

Something extraordinary and mysterious.

So, she has smitten them a little.

After that she chose one of them and married him.

Without the unnecessary tears and suffers, as it normally happens. She settled her life in a joyful and beautiful manner.

Though, it normally happens as follows:

You have relations with the first one you feel affection to.

Without proper thinking.

Who is he?

What kind of a person is he?

If you want to be the one and only, your soul mate must be your only man. To be so, he needs first to become your husband, and only after that- your man.

You must not do otherwise.

Or for him you will always be one of the many.

Any sex outside marriage is a depravity.

It is severely punished by the supreme forces: it results in suffers, diseases, and disasters.

For men are made like this.

They are difficult to oppose temptations and behave in the framework of the social moral.

The destination of a woman is to raise men to the higher level of their development. It is necessary for giving birth to the future generation of healthy and adequate children.

Limitations make men disciplined and stronger by increasing their sexual force.

Abstinence in the young age will not do them any harm.

It is their inabstinence and promiscuity will give them irreparable harm, which often causes troubles in the life and prevents from choosing the really right partner.

It is for this reason that in the countries – mostly eastern ones, where people adhere fasting and limitations life and sexual activity of mint last longer. Having got used to the easiness of such intercourse the guys will hardly be good husbands in future and keep faith.

80% of men, after such free rackety life lead a dissolute life even after marriage.

And the excessive trust and sensibility will rather make the pragmatic men laugh than touch their heart.

Girls are more emotional.

Having fallen in love, they excessively idealize their chosen ones.

Having agreed to make sex, you only lose your boyfriend’s respect, as well as his friends’.

And quickly turn into a call girl from proud and inaccessible person.

Girls… stand in own light by agreeing to easy and free-of-commitment sex.

Be cold-blooded and do not follow your passions.

Let men dream about you, dream about family.

Easily attainable things will hardly be appreciated.

You may be smart and very beautiful but you will get lost for nothing, wallow in vice due to the foolish illusions and the lack of understanding of the events.

Do not disclose your sole, nor your body to the first comer, as well as the second and third.

Your only man is your future husband.

Never follow evanescent whims and temptations, both yours and somebody else’s.

But if you are grimly determined to quickly step into the adult life and turn into a woman from a girl, escaping the middle stage – being a maiden for at least a short time, you must know what you are going to face in this – not so beautiful at all – future.

By the way, nobody will be surprised.

What will cause surprise is a modest, presentably dressed and decent girl.

Nobody and never will be able to make up for your loss.

After this stupid step you will always be pitiful and unworthy of the greatest and happy life.

As it normally happens.

You dream about meeting your only and special love.

Finally, you see him, the prince of your dream.

You are head-over-heels.

You spend your free time together. My love, you tell him. You may kiss me anywhere, I am already adult.

All is like in the mist, like in a sweet dream.

And sometimes these are the words of a gynecologist which awake you from this sweet narcosis: Lady, are you the next to abortion?

And if you still manage to be happy, it will occur after long tears and suffers.

Girl, think, are your illusions worthy of it?