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Get those first words out.

Don’t wait until you feel totally comfort-

able to approach someone. Just say some-

thing simple like, “Hi. How are you?” It may

be easier than you think to go from there.

Remember, most people are happy when

someone shows an interest in them and

what they have to say.

Practice at home in

front of a mirror.

Act like you’re talking to someone

you’ve never met. It might sound silly,

but it works! Once you’ve said the words

out loud over and over, saying them to

someone else won’t be as difficult.

Ask your mom or dad

to help you practice,

practice, practice.

The more you practice starting conversa-

tions, the more natural it will feel. Try out

conversation starters at the dinner table with

your family. Ordering at restaurants and ask-

ing questions of salespeople can help, too.

After a while, it won’t seem so hard.