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what to say

compliments

Admiring something about a person is a great way to start a conversation.

It opens the door to even more talking and sharing. And who doesn’t love

a compliment? Check out these dos and don’ts when giving and receiving

compliments.

GIVING compliments

Do speak from the heart with honest and positive comments.

Instead of this: “I liked your speech.”

Say this:

Your speech really kept my attention.

You’re a great speaker.

Do give specific details about what you like or liked.

Instead of this: “Cool poem.”

Say this:

I loved your haiku,

especially the line about your cat

being a sushi specialist.

Don’t expect a compliment back.

Instead of this: “Nice sweater. Do you like mine?”

Say this:

You look pretty in that sweater.

It makes your eyes look so blue.

Don’t add a “but” statement after complimenting someone.

Instead of this: “Your party was fun, BUT my sister’s party

was amazing.”

Say this:

Your party rocked! I loved

your decorations.