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Chapter 1

ARE YOUR THOUGHTS, WORDS, IMAGINATION, YOUR WORST ENEMY?

Our thoughts, words and imagination can be our worst enemy. It is the root to causing a good or bad situation to occur. Our life is lived out through our thoughts and words. Our thoughts are as powerful as the words we say. Our thoughts can deceive us and the words we say can be deceiving. There is a warfare going on in our mind. The battle is in our thoughts, not with one another. Our mind is like a computer it stores, retrieves, and processes everything we put in it. Our mind has no limits on what it is capable of imagining. Our positive and negative thoughts fights against one another. Most of the things people think and speak they bring to existence. Wicked behavior would not have an existence if people did not think, speak and imagine doing evil. Our body language and face expression tells others what we are thinking and feeling. The mind can think the worst of a person and situation before it thinks good about them. The mind can be easily trained and deceived by anyone. We train and deceive one another’s mind everyday. Everything we think and speak negative about our own and someone’s life can affect them and us.

When we put ourselves into a situation to make a decision there is always going to be a thought (voice) in our head telling us what to do and not. The outcome of our situation is determined by which thought (voice) we choose to listen to. Most people second guess their relationship, feelings and choices. There is nothing we can do good or bad without making a choice to do it. Our subconscious tells us not to drive drunk, go down that street or have sex with her or him. The voice of reasoning is a warning. It can come at anytime to save our life if we listen to it. This young man was going to take the train to work, but a voice in his head said take the car today. As he was driving to work he heard on the radio the train he was going to take derailed. This young man heard a voice in his head say skip going to the club tonight, but another voice said go out. The young man decided to go out and got into a car accident. Everyone in the vehicle lived but him. This young lady set her drink down at a party to go dance. When she came back to her drink a voice in her head said do not drink it. Her friend picked the drink up and before she could say something her friend drunk it. About ten minutes after the drink her friend passed out. Come to find out the drink was spiked with a rape drug. Most people think about what they are about to do before they do it. Sleeping with someone’s spouse does not just happen. Everyone has more than enough time to listen to the voice of reasoning before they kill, lie and cheat. It is a conscious decision that one makes to do wrong or right. When we do not think twice about hurting someone there is a problem with our conscious. It shows we do not care about ourselves and who we hurt in the process. Another thing it shows is we do not fear God of what He can do to us. There are many relationships destroyed, because someone did not care to use their conscious. Growing up with morals and values help us make a conscious decision to do right by ourselves and others. Anytime our mind tells us not to do what we’re about to we should always heed to it. If there be any confusion about what choice to make in a situation then it maybe something we should not be doing. Remember, God is not of confusion in the mind. God spiritually enlightens us to do the right thing and the Devil does the opposite.

Thoughts and words such as, I want a divorce, I am ugly and I want to die are some of the negative things we think and say to ourselves and others. We can speak into our situation or relationship, life or death. Our thoughts and words, good and bad can manifest itself. This is how powerful our thoughts and words are. Have you ever joked about something happening and it came true? It is like that saying be careful of what you wish for and say. Some people get what they ask for, but it is not what they wanted to happen. If we speak positive, but our thoughts are negative then the outcome of our situation will be determine by this. Positive thoughts about your situation and self overpowers negativity and confusion. Positive thinking gives you confidence and reassurance in yourself and situation. If you think you have the job, but say out of your mouth you do not. This would be of confusion. We cannot think negative and speak positive and expect a good outcome. We cannot be both. Everyone is capable of speaking and thinking positive about their situation and life. If our mind is not positive then it is negative. There is no in between.

Dominantly, everything we use good and bad are from someone’s imagination and brought to existence. Everything in the world that we use, we give it the power. Nuclear bombs are from someone’s imagination and brought to existence. It did not create itself and it cannot be activated unless man gives it the power. The games for playstation was from someone’s imagination. We give the characters in these games the power. Money has the power that it has because we gave it the power. Money cannot use itself. We make money work for us. Some people may not have a wicked imagination, but once in awhile have wicked thoughts come into their mind about something or someone. These people maybe angry at the time to have wicked thoughts. But, there are people who wake up and go to sleep imagining evil. We’re not only what we eat, we’re what we think. We can always cast out our wicked thoughts about someone or something. But, once we have brought our wicked thoughts to existence there is no turning back. To imagine murdering someone is wicked, but to bring murder to existence is evil and a sin. It’s wicked to imagine what a polar bear and rabbit DNA together would look like, but to bring it to existence is an abomination to God. Now, imagine God’s judgement for men who imagine wicked devices then bring them to existence.

We would not have so many hurtful thoughts in our mind if our heart did not get broken through life. Our heart will focus more on the bad things that happened to us than the good. Our heart is a for sure muscle that can be manipulated, broken and changed. We have to guard our heart with all diligence, because out of our heart will come the issues of life. What someone did and said to us is hard to forget, but can be forgiven. People have allowed the issues of life to cause them strokes, heart attacks and headaches. Holding on to what someone said and did to us is too much strain on the brain and heart. We have to forgive in order to live. God said “be renewed in our spirit and mind.” We have to renew our mind, spirit and heart with positive things everyday we live. We can be the cause of our own confusion in our life. We cannot partake and be of confusion. We have to get away from confusion. We have to cleanse our heart and mind of all evil thinking about someone or something. Evil will not have no partake in our heart and mind if we resist evil. Remember, God judges the heart of man. What a man think is in his heart. The Devil has been using us through our mind since Adam and Eve. The Devil will always remind us of our past and he uses the closest people to us to remind us of our past. Our past is not in our future and neither are the people who remind us of our past. The only way the Devil can get to our heart is through our mind. Once we renew our mind the Devil will not be able to get to our heart.

Most people lean on their own understanding. When people lean on their own understanding the issue becomes complicated and they make bad decisions. People who go on their own understanding are steadfast on what they believe in that they know nothing about. They live their life seeing things only one way. They have the same arrogance that got Lucifer kicked out of Heaven. We have to ask God for wisdom and knowledge to obtain understanding of all things that are processed through our mind. Once we have the understanding, we will make better decisions. Many people are in jail, dead, have killed and stole from leaning on their own understanding. They were steadfast on what they believe they had to do. Everything is worth taking a second thought or look, whether it’s religion, money, revenge, a man or woman. Adam and Eve leaned on their own understanding when they ate off the tree. Eve only saw things one way and was steadfast on believing what the serpent said. Many people are steadfast on believing what they heard about someone. What we hear about someone is irrelevant if we were not there as a witness. There is always two sides to every story. Both sides have to be heard before leaning on our own understanding about someone or something. Some of the things we hear about people be true and some is not. Many people have been divorced, incarcerated and killed because of what someone said about them that was not true. No matter who we hear something from, there is nothing wrong with doing our own investigating about what we heard.

Some people love with dissimulation. They love with a false appearance. Some people are not in love with the person they are with. They stay in the relationship because of children or convenience. Some people hugs are not genuine. Some people only deal with you because you are married to someone they know. Some people do not want to be bothered with you unless you have money. Some people only show affection when they want sex from you. After they climax, they are back to being distance. This is called loving with dissimulation. A false appearance. There are many things we falsely show one another love for. If we only love and deal with people to benefit ourselves than we love with dissimulation. We have to love without dissimulation. Without a false appearance. We have to love everyone whole heartily. Without an excuse or reason to.

Most people do not know how to take rejection well. Rejection makes people feel unwanted and unloved. Your family, friend, spouse and parents can make you feel unwanted and unloved. Some people intentions are to make you feel unloved and unwanted. It makes them feel powerful and you powerless. Rejection causes people to commit murder or suicide. No one wants to feel unwanted and unloved. It is understandable to reject someone who refuses to do right. But, to reject someone intentionally is wrong. As well, being rejected is not always a bad thing. Sometimes rejection is for our own good. We may not like being rejected but, some of the people that reject us were not for our best interest. Life does not stop from a job or someone rejecting you. That job or person may were going to bring you problems. God knows best. Do not take rejection personal.

(Psalms 9:17 The wicked shall be turned into hell, and all the nations that forget God.)

(Psalms 9:20 Put them in fear, O LORD: that the nations may know themselves to be but men.)

(Psalms 56:4 In God I will praise his word, in God I have put my trust: I will not fear what flesh can do unto me.)

(Psalms 56:11 In God have I put my trust: I will not be afraid what man can do unto me.)

(Proverbs 16:24 Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones.)

(Proverbs 12:22 Lying lips are abomination to the Lord; but they that deal truly are his delight.)

(Philippians 2:10 At the name of Jesus every knee shall bow, of the things of heaven, earth and under the earth.)

(Philippians 2:11 And that every tongue shall confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.)

(Ecclesiastes 3:17 I said in mine heart, God shall judge the righteous and the wicked; for there is a time there for every purpose and for every work.)

(Ecclesiastes 3:20 All go unto one place; all are of the dust, and all turn to dust again.)

(Romans 2:9 Tribulation and anguish, upon every soul of man that doeth evil, of the Jews first, and also the Gentiles.)

(James 3:6 And the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity; so is the tongue among our members, that it defileth the whole body and setteth on fire, the course of nature and it is set on fire of hell.)

(James 3:8 But the tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison.)

(James 3:9 Therewith bless we God, even the Father; and therewith curse we men, which are made after the similitude of God.)

(James 3:10 Out of the mouth proceeded blessing and cursing, My bretheren these things ought not so to be.)

(James 3:13 Who is a wise man and endued with knowledge among you? let him shew out of a good conversation his works with meekness of wisdom.)

(James 3:14 But if ye have bitter envying and strife in your hearts, glory not, and lie not against the truth.)

(James 3:15 This wisdom descendeth not from above, but is earthly, sensual, devilish.)

(James 3:16 For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work.)

(James 3:17 But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be entreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy.)

(James 3:18 And the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace of them that make peace.)

(Ecclesiastes 7:29 Lo, this only have I found, that God hath made man upright; but they have sought out many inventions.)

(Proverbs 10:32 The lips of the righteous know what is acceptable; but the mouth of the wicked speaketh frowardness.)

(Proverbs 10:18 He that hideth hatred with lying lips, and he that uttereth slander, is a fool.)

(Proverbs 14:23 In all labour there is profit; but the talk of the lips tendeth only to penury.)

(Luke 12:2 For there is nothing covered, that shall not be revealed; neither hid, that shall not be known.)

(Luke 12:3 Therefore whatsoever ye have spoken in darkness shall be heard in the light; and that which ye have spoken in the ear in the closets.)

(Ephesians 5:11 And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them.)

(Ephesians 5:12 For it is a shame even to speak of those things which are done in secret.)

(Job 42:2 I know that thou canst do everything, and that no thought can be with-holden from thee.)

(Proverbs 11:13 A talebearer revealed secrets; but he that is of a faithful spirit concealeth the matter.)

(Proverbs 20:19 He that goeth about as a talebearer revealed secrets; therefore meddle not with him that flatters with his lips.)

(Proverbs 17:28 Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise; and he that shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding.)

(James 4:5 Do ye think that the scripture saith in vain, The spirit that dwelleth in us lusteth to envy?)

(James 4:6 But he giveth more grace. Wherefore he saith, God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble.)

(James 4:7 Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.)

(James 4:8 Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double minded.)

(James 4:9 Be afflicted, and mourn. and weep: let your laughter be turned to mourning, and your joy to heaviness.)

(James 4:10 Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up.)

(Proverbs 3:28 Say not unto thy neighbor, Go, and come again, and tomorrow I will give; when thou hast it by thee.)

(James 5:16 Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.)

(John 8:32 And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.)

(John 8:38 I speak that which I have seen with my Father: and ye do that which ye have seen with your father.)

(2 Timothy 3:16 All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:)

It is wrong to accuse someone of doing wrong without talking with them first. As well, it is folly to give an answer before hearing the problem. These are true sayings. Think before you speak, choose your words carefully and if you do not have anything good to say, do not say anything at all. We can break up our relationship or lose our job, because we did not think before we spoke. What we say out our mouth comes from our heart. We are held accountable for every word that comes from our mouth. The Angels in Heaven writes down every word we speak. There is nothing wrong with telling someone how you feel, but without the negative emotions behind them. There is a wrong and right way to speak to anyone. If you speak to someone in a humbling way, it is on them. But, if you speak to them rude, then it is on you.

Our emotions transcend everything. Our emotions take things to the extreme. We bring our emotions to life and let our emotions think and speak for us. We put an emotion behind what is being said and done to us. We say and think things that we really do not mean because of our emotions. Emotions can expose the truth or magnify the lies. Love is the only emotion we should set our standards by and live by. However, the emotion love can be manipulated into the wrong sense. Such as, you love your car, but if your car breaks down will you still love it. We love our spouse, but if they cheat on us will we still love them. We have to be careful on how we emphasize our emotions towards people and things. When we are dealing with people we do not want to, we need to be steadfast on keeping the love that God gave us as our focal point. Because, love is nothing but facts and the truth. If we deviate from the facts and truth we have opened ourselves up for ungodly emotions that can tear us down mentally and physically. If we take our emotions out of it, we will not get offended by what people say and do to us.

Blessing and cursing should not come out of the same mouth. We cannot bless someone then curse them. Such as, God bless you, then I hope you die. When we say things like this we are speaking a curse on someone life and ourselves. We can speak blessings or curses on our family, health, job and relationships. Once we think and speak divorce, we put a curse on our marriage. Once we say our child is not going to be nothing, we put a curse on our child’s life. Some people know there is a curse put up on them and some do not. Some people know they are speaking a curse and some do not. We do not have to know someone personally for them to curse us. Some people were able to find where their curse came from and break it. We are fighting against principalities in dark places. People uses your name, hair, picture to cast curses. Speaking failure and death into someone’s life is speaking a curse. There are people who will encourage you, but in their heart is deceit. Some people would act like they care about your situation. But, they are around to gloat, know your business and watch you fall. What if you did not know someone was casting a curse on you? Our negative thoughts towards someone is casting a curse. This is why we have to stay in prayer. The more we speak blessings into someone’s life the more we are blessed. We are either going to bless or curse someone with what we think, speak and feel. There is no in between. We have to learn the difference between blessing and cursing someone. The curse we’re trying to cast will return back upon us ten fold.

To lie has to come to our mind and out our mouth, which make us a liar. People know when they are going to tell a lie before they tell it. Some people lie so much lying comes natural. Some people tell lies to have a conversation. It is unnecessary to tell a lie, because all lies will eventually catch up with us. Some people say they only lie to save their life. Well, if they were living for God they would not have to lie to save their life. In some situations we are forced to lie or have our children lie for us. Such as, when a bill collector calls. We have our children tell them we are not home. A child should never be taught or put into a situation to lie for any reason or anyone. Once we lie we have to keep up with that lie we told. One lie brings many more lies. Some people do not know the full truth about some things they just make up lies as they tell the story. If you tell the truth with a lie, you are still a liar. People tell lies with the truth because it keeps people interested and the suspense going. People are sadly mistaken if they think lying does not make them a thief. If you will lie, you will steal and cheat. Cheating on someone is the same as lying to them. Some people get caught in their lies and some do not. Some people are good at lying and some are bad at it. No matter what the situation is we are not to lie about them. There is no such thing as a little white lie. A lie is a lie. Liars are not in the Kingdom of Heaven.

A thief is no different from a liar and cheat. No matter the quantity and quality if we steal it, we are a thief. From a lie, Satan was given dominion over the world. The world did not fall into Satan’s lap. Satan came with furtiveness. Meaning stealth and slyness to have dominion. He is a thief with low social status. Some of the same people that sit in our face come with furtiveness to take what we work hard for and to be. Some people do business with thieves. Even though, they did not steal it they would buy stolen goods from a thief. Some people have a thief steal the goods for them. Money, joy, identity and ideas are things people steal. Some people purposely steal your joy because they are unhappy with their life. Some people have been killed or beaten near death for their idea or the material things they had. Many people are known for plagiarism. Some people do not have their own idea and individuality. If we think for ourselves we can come up with our own idea instead of someone else’s. If we love ourselves first, we would not want to be and act like someone else. Instead of stealing food and money go ask for it. Keep asking for what you want until you get a break through. But, do not steal it. We cause people distress when we lie and steal from them. If we knock, it shall be open. If we ask, we shall receive. If we cannot get what we want, then we need to wait instead of stealing it. We are an uneducated person of low social status if we steal, lie and cheat. A thief expects to be stole from and a liar expects to be lied to. Thieves and cheaters are not in the Kingdom of Heaven.

To tell of those things that are done in secret is a shame on you. It is a disgrace, dishonor and immodest to tell the things we heard and saw someone do in secret. It is better to keep your secrets to yourself or tell it to a stranger you will never see again. Some secrets cause shame and dishonor. Noah was laying drunk, butt naked in secret. Noah’s son was punish by God, for exposing Noah’s nakedness. This was an dishonor to Noah. What we do in the dark God will bring to light. The secrets we tell will eventually be revealed. So, what are we telling? Most of the things we do and say in secret we know is wrong and not of God. As well, God sees everything so, what are we hiding? Everyone knows a secret about someone. No one secret is safe. Secrets are made to be broken. But, shame on the person who tells a secret for money, revenge and jealousy. The one who is keeping the secret is no different from the one with the secret. As we get closer to the coming of Jesus the things we say and do in secret is being exposed. Such as, adultery, molestation, murder, etc… Because some people continue to do these things they are being exposed right now today. Whatever we want to know about God is in the Bible and Jesus’s words are in red. We may not know when God and Jesus is returning, but Him coming back is no secret.

Our conversations we have about someone should be for edification, not humiliation. Instead of having a conversation about helping someone improve we bad mouth them. Such as, when our child or spouse make us angry, we get on the phone with someone and bad mouth them. We are not building people up when we bad mouth them. Too much talking becomes babbling. The more we talk the more trouble we get into and we do not know it. Have you ever had a conversation with someone that was good, but went bad? People stop being friends from a conversation that made no sense from the beginning. Too much talking can lead us to speaking evil about someone. We can be talking about the weather, then someone’s personal business that we know. Too much talking can open up old wounds, we suppressed in the back of our mind. Some people who talk too much tell stories that never happen. When we are angry with someone and discuss how we feel with a friend. The more we talk about it the more angrier we get. Hate and retaliation will grow in our heart. With the right conversation a person can have people killing, stealing and prostituting for them. This has happen to a lot of people. They got into trouble from a conversation. Our conversations cannot be of both positive and negative. There should be two words said in a conversation yes or no. Anymore words said more than these two words brings trouble.

Growing up people followed who were popular, rich, pretty and the bully. There is something we have in common with the people we choose to be friends with. The people were friends with can make us a better person or the worse one on the planet. Most people do not care if the person they are friends with behavior is good and evil. No one who does good and evil at the same time should be followed, they’re Lukewarm. It is the blind leading the blind. If a person behavior is positive every time you see them, this is a person to follow. But, if a person behavior is negative every time you see them, this is a person not to follow. We lose our soul and integrity following people who does the opposite of good. You hang around liars, thieves and murderers you will become one yourself. You may not be doing the same things as your friend, but society does not look at it that way. If your friend is known for being a thief, you are going to be considered one. Even if you never stole a day in your life. If your girlfriend is known for being a whore, people will feel you are. We become as guilty as the people we hang with and eventually we will become like them. Most of the time the people we follow to do wrong are not the ones who get caught. We cannot partake in other people’s sins. Just because, the people were friends with choose to kill, steal and destroy does not mean to be like them. Remember that Satan do not want to burn in Hell alone and neither does the people we follow to do evil. The Devil and everyone who is swift to do evil always have an advocate. Who we are friends with says a lot about our character and what we think about ourselves. There is no in between.

We should never try to impress people because we will come off as a fake, brown nose and want to be. Some of us try to impress our family members by making faces (like frowning) behind the one we suppose to love back. People showing out and trying to impress others has been going on since childhood. Most people want a pat on the back for doing something impressive. Some people do not show out until they get some liquor and drugs in them. Some people are fine to be around as long as no one else is around. But, when other people come around they get loud and obnoxious. Some of our friends and family would have their friend over and would mistreat us to impress their friend. Some people will impress their boss at work, but do nothing to impress their spouse and children at home. We use other people mishaps and downfalls to impress others to make ourselves look and feel good. If people want to know the truth. Most people we try to impress by treating others bad do not like people who show out. We are only making ourselves look like a monkey’s ass when we try to impress people for them to like us. People are not telling us to dance monkey dance to impress them. We are dancing like a monkey on our own to impress people. If people are not influenced in a positive way by what we impress them with, we are impressing them in the wrong way. This is a true saying treat people how you want to be treated. Love yourself first and you will not have to hurt others to impress someone.

We cannot have positive and negative energy within or around us. It will only cause friction (sparks) in our life. Such as, a car battery. We have to put the positive with the positive and the negative with the negative or there will be sparks. If we are around positive people we will have positive things happen for us. If we are around negative people we will have negative things happen to us. Some friends no longer have any dealings with one another. Because, one of them have positive energy and the other one negative. Such as, you may want to work for what you want, but your friend want to kill, steal and destroy for it. The energy a person gives off when they are angry is negative. People should not go to or from anywhere angry. Their reaction to certain things is done out of anger. Bad things happen when people energy is negative because of anger. People can get into a car accident, fight or fall over dead. These things can happen. Our support system can be negative. When a person support system is negative they start to doubt themselves. They can reject you and others and may kill themselves. Our support system has to be positive or they will hindered us. No matter who they are, their negative energy can be the reason why you are not succeeding in life. Nothing will go right in your life with negative people around. The energy from violent games and movies is negative. Which is the same energy we allow in our homes and we wonder why our children are lying, stealing and killing. Positive people build and negative people tear down. There is no in between. People are either of the house of God or the heap of ruins. People with positive energy are the light in this dark world. There is a change in our situation for the better from being around positive people. A world without positive people will not exist. Who wants to be around someone’s negative energy everyday? Many people are in a relationship with someone who energy is negative everyday. If were not negative as they are eventually we will be. Life is too precious and short to be negative about it. So many people are comfortable with giving off both negative and positive energy. This is unacceptable Showing our son how to be a man, then physically abuse your wife is positive and negative energy. Helping a friend in need, then tear them down is positive and negative energy. Positive and negative energy are not equal to one another. Satan is not equal to God his creator. Faith, love, joy, peace, charity are all positive energy from God. Doubt, hate, lust, greed, jealousy, murmuring (complaining) are all negative energy from Satan. Positive people will not see Hell. Hell is going to be filled with negative and Lukewarm people. There is no in between. From waking up to laying down let’s start being positive. Let’s make it our business to be around people who speak, do and think positive.

To assume what we hear about someone to be true without any proof is wrong. Without any proof we cannot say what we heard about someone is true. People who assume pretends to know the truth. They do not search out the truth they take it upon themselves what the truth is. The same way you assume things about someone the same way someone can assume things about you. Some people have caused themselves and others unnecessary pain and trouble from going off of assumptions. Such as, the woman who found used rubbers in her home. She assumed her husband was cheating on her while she was out of town and divorced him. Come to find out her sister was having sex with her boyfriend in their home. Instead of her finding out the truth she went off of assumption and it cost her marriage. By the time some people learn the truth the damage be done. Most people will not get the full truth. The truth be changed and corrupted by the time they hear it. Some of us will not get the truth until Judgement day. A lot of us spread what we hear about a person as well. Spreading what we hear about someone before knowing the truth is wrong. Believing in what we hear and see is the way of the world. The things we see and hear has been repeated and done for centuries. There is no one who has heard, seen and done different from what people have been doing in the days of Noah. Everything repeats itself. The world goes around. There is no lie told and nothing said about someone that has not been already lied about and repeated. If we are going to talk about someone make sure it is for edification. If we do not know the full story about someone go ask them before slandering their name. Do not assume anything, because it will make an ass out of us every time and cost our soul. It is not of God to be a false witness against anyone. The ninth commandment is do not bear false witness against thy neighbor. Meaning do not make false accusations against anyone. If we were not there, we have no reason to comment, assume or make a false report.

Remember, words can bring life or death. Someone can be depressed or sad and commit suicide or murder from the negative words someone say to them. This happens a lot in the world. Some people cannot handle what is being said to and about them. Such as, the young lady who told her boyfriend to kill himself. Or a girl killing herself because someone said she was ugly. Sticks and stones does break your bones. But, words does too. Some people hyper-ventilate from what is being said to them. Someone can be sad and from you saying hello can lift them up. It is better to build someone up, then to have their blood on our hands from them hurting others or themselves from what we said them.

A jealous hearted person is a HATER! Haters cannot hide their jealousy. If what we say and feel about a person is negative because of what they have materially and financially then we are a HATER! Haters come in all shapes, sizes and colors. Looking good, having money and material things reveals who the haters are. Some people will hate on your relationship and become competitive or try to tear it apart. Some people hate that you are happy and will try their best to destroy your happiness. Haters can be doing their own thing and still hate on the next man. Haters will count your money and pimples on your face. They will discuss with others what you spend money on. What problems they see you having and not. What a person does with their money and have materially is none of anyone’s business. No one knows if God blessed that person with the money and material things they have. So, why hate on someone? Hate is kinfolks to jealousy and envy. Many people have been murdered, incarcerated and kidnapped because someone was jealous of them. The way a person feel spiritually can make people hate on them. Haters attack people who are spiritually happy serving Jesus. Haters main focus should be on saving their soul. They need to hate on evil. It will keep them busy and from Hell. Jealous hearted people should put their concerns on building their own. Instead of being uneasy about the people who do have their own. There is no reason we should hate and be jealous of anyone. We cannot take these material things with us when we die.

(Proverbs 4:24 Put away from thee a froward mouth, and perverse lips put far from thee.)

(Proverbs 16:3 Commit thy works unto the Lord, and thy thoughts shall be established.)

(Matthew 10:33 But whosoever shall deny me before men, him will I also deny before my Father which is in heaven.)

(Ephesians 4:15 But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ:)

(Ephesians 4:17 This I say therefore, and testify in the Lord, that ye henceforth walk not as other Gentiles walk, in the vanity of their mind,)

(Ephesians 4:18 Having the understanding darkened, being alienated from the life of God through the ignorance that is in them, because of the blindness of their heart:)

(Philippians 3:13 Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before.)

(1 Corinthians 15:33 Be not deceive: evil communication corrupt good manners.)

(Proverbs 10:12 Hatred stirreth up strifes: but love covereth all sins.)

(1 Peter 1:14 As obedient children, not fashioning yourselves according to the former lusts in your ignorance.)

(1 Peter 1:15 But as he which hath called you is holy, so be ye holy in all manner of conversation.)

(1 Peter 2:11 Dearly beloved, I beseech you as strangers and pilgrims, abstain from fleshly lusts, which war against the soul;)

(Isaiah 26:3 Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he trusted in thee.)

(Proverbs 2:9 Speak not in the ears of a fool for he will despise the wisdom of thy word. )

(Proverbs 24:9 The thought of foolishness is sin; and the scorner is an abomination to men. )

(Proverbs 25:11 A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver. )

(Proverbs 15:1 A soft answer turneth away wrath; but grievous words stir up anger. )

(Proverb 10:11 The mouth of a righteous man is a well of life; but violence covereth the mouth of the wicked. )

Everyone have mood swings. It would be nice for people to stay in one mood at all times. If we are going to be nice or an ass hole, be it at all times, not when we feel like it. If we are nice and an ass hole at the same time we are being Lukewarm. A lot of us do not realize we are hot and cold in many things. Mood swings are the cause of arguments and breakups. Someone in the relationship is always in a bad mood and never like being bothered. Some people with mood swings cannot be trusted. We will never know if they will become abusive or not. If everyone have mood swings this mean everyone is bipolar and should take medicine. But, everyone is not bipolar and need to take medicine. Most people mood changes after a while. They do not stay the same mood all day unless their is a problem with their spirit. People who are happy then sad every other day emotional equilibrium is off. Women who are going through hormonal changes emotional equilibrium is off. But, there is something wrong with someone’s spirit who is angry, vindictive and argumentative everyday. Some people do not know they are carrying many different spirits around with them. Some people may have the spirits of hate, anger, jealousy and depression all on the inside of them. These people have a spiritual warfare going on. They need Jesus not medicine. All medicine does is keep those spirits within us fed. When we wake up, we set our mood for the day and sometimes we allow people to set our mood. Being moody means you are of confusion and like entertaining those evil spirits. Everyone have the power to keep their mood (emotions) under control. So, being moody is unacceptable. It is a choice people make to be. Claiming to be bipolar is an excuse some people give to purposely act out. To balance our mood swings, we have to balance our manner of living. The way we think and speak has to be on one accord to have internal calm. There are no moody people in Heaven.

We cannot make plans to do nothing. All planned out things does not go the way we want them. As well, no one knows if they are going to see the next day. We have to consult with God first before making any plans. He has the plan for our life. We cannot blame God for our plans not working out. We cannot boast about tomorrow. Tomorrow may come, but we may not be here to see it. We are not to worry ourselves with what we are going to wear and eat. God provides for us and once we realize that our life will be less complicated. There are people who boast about the things they have, use to have and never had. Which is not good. The things people have is by grace and mercy. The things people use to have is in the past. People who say they have, but never had it, are like a bird without wings. When we boast, we open up the door for jealousy from others. In some people mind you are bragging. Some people do not like to hear about what another person has or use to have. Sometimes when we boast about what we have people will plot to rob from us. Do not brag, make plans and worry about what you are going to eat for tomorrow. Tomorrow does not always cater to our needs. We need to deal with today. Tomorrow will have problems of its own.

It is not what goes into our mouth that defiles us. It is what comes out our mouth that defiles our whole body. Speaking all kinds of manure would be the reason we see Hell. What comes out of our mouth is profanity, lies and blasphemy. How can good work in some people’s life when they speak evil about themselves and others? We will only do and say how we truly feel from our heart. If you say and do evil, then evil is in your heart. We have to watch what we say around and to our children. There is no oops I am sorry, I said that or I did not mean what I said, I was angry. We can live our lives apologizing and regretting what we said, but we can never take it back. What we say can be forgiven, but most things people say can never be forgotten. Our tongue is poisonous and like fire. Some of the things people say to an enemy, they say to the one they love. The Angels in Heaven writes down everything we say from good to bad. We do not want to have any accusations against us on Judgement Day. Some people who like to be in bondage with handcuffs and chains like someone to talk to them derogatory. They do this by choice. Which to each his own. But, there are not too many people on Earth who would like for someone to talk to them derogatory for pleasure.

To make jokes about people who are less fortunate than you is wrong. Some of us hate to be near a person who is less fortunate. This is not right. It is wrong to treat someone indifferent because they do not live up to your standards. We do not know their situation. There are people who cannot afford to buy nice things. Some people choose to live on the streets. Some people have money problems. Some people just want to live simple. Always put yourself in other people’s shoes and watch how you treat people. The world goes around. You can end up worse than they are or your child can one day. Most people do not take kindly to jokes, because some people are not joking about what they say to someone. They will say they are joking, but they are using the joke to express how they feel about that person. We should not tell jokes to humiliate someone.

Teasing a someone is different from making a joke about them. To tease another person is wrong in every way. There are some people who will beat you down for teasing them or someone they love. Some mentally disturbed people will not react until someone tease them. They are human beings with feelings too. Such as, what happen to me. I was driving down a busy street and this young lady threw rocks at my truck. I did a u-turn to ask her why did she throw rocks at my truck. She was walking towards me cursing and screaming what you want to do? As she got closer I knew something was wrong, because she was talking like she was drunk. When she got to my truck I asked her why did she throw rocks at my truck? She said “those men across the street were teasing her and they made her mad.” She said “sorry” and started talking to me like a child even though she was a young adult. Then her mother came running out the house saying “please forgive her, she does not know what she is doing.” Cursing like a drunk sailor and throwing rocks at those men didn’t look like she did not know what she was doing. You may not get teased the same way you teased someone. But, someone can tease you for losing your hair, spouse or job.

(Proverbs 27:1 Boast not thyself of to morrow; for thou knowest not what a day bring forth.)

(Proverbs 25:14 Whoso boasteth himself of false gifts is like clouds and wind without rain.)

(Proverbs 11:9 An hypocrite with his mouth destroyed his neighbor; but through knowledge shall the just be delivered.)

(Matthew 6:25 says take no thought for your life, what you shall eat or what ye shall drink nor what your body shall put on.)

(Matthew 6:34 take therefore no thought for the morrow; for morrow shall take thought for the things of itself.)

(Ephesians 4:31 Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice.)

(Ephesians 5:20 Giving thanks always for all things unto God and the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.)

(James 4:11 Speak not evil one of another, bretheren, He that speaketh evil of his brother and Judgeth his brother speaketh evil of the law, and judgeth the law, but if thou Judgest the law, thou art not a doer of the law, but a Judge.)

(James 4:12 There is one lawgiver, who is able to save and to destroy: Who art thou that Judgest another.)

(James 4:13 Go to now, ye that say, Today or tomorrow we will go into such a city, and continue there a year, and buy and sell, and get gain:)

(James 4:14 Whereas ye know not what shall be on the tomorrow. For what is your life? It is even a vapour, that appeareth for a little time, and then vanisheth away.)

(James 4:15 For that ye ought to say, If the Lord will, we shall live, and do this, or that.)

(James 4:16 But now ye rejoice in your boastings: all such rejoicing is evil.)

(James 4:17 Therefore to him that knoweth to do good, and doeth it not, to him it is sin.)

(Psalms 42:8 Yet the LORD will command his lovingkindness in the daytime, and in the night his song shall be with me, and my prayer unto God of my life.)

(Mark 13:11 But when they shall lead you, and deliver you up, take no thought beforehand what ye shall speak, neither do ye premeditate: but whatsoever shall be given you in that hour, that speak ye: for it is not ye that speak, but the Holy Ghost.)

Most of the choices we’ve made in life was from listening to other people. Not everyone we listen to is looking out for our best interest. Eve ate off the tree from listening to the serpent and Adam ate because of Eve. Some people would not have hate in their heart if someone did not preach and teach it to them. What makes any words from a man that can bleed, lie and serve the Devil like you believable? Most people need guidance and through their mind is where they can be controlled. We should be able to tell the difference from a righteous man and woman. The truth a man and woman speak would inspire you to do right by God and others. People have to do the research themselves on what they hear someone say. It is always a catch to what some people say, because they are in the world like you. A lot of people do not know which way to go so, they turn to other people to lead them. There is always one person in every group that leads and others will follow. Instead of some people getting their own money, they rather follow people with money. Not everyone who has power and money have internal peace. Many people have committed suicide from following and listening to someone. Just because, someone we value tells us to kill ourselves does not mean to do it. This person means us no good to tell us to kill ourselves. If your girlfriend tell you to sleep with someone for money, she mean you no good. If your friend try to make you do drugs, he mean you no good. Some people will intentionally mislead you. But, we are responsible for our own actions. It is on you, whom you choose to listen to. But, choose wisely.

Dominantly, the whole world has given someone the power to control and lead them. People who listen to another person tell them to kill, steal and destroy is a soul that is easy to corrupt. They are willing to prostitute themselves for another person. Can someone have that much power over another human’s mind? It is not known why people would give someone an order to kill another human being. The person who does the killing is the one who have the power and control if you want to know the truth. The person who give an order to kill, steal and destroy have no power. If we give someone a gun and they kill someone, the person they killed blood is on our hands. Just because, we did not pull the trigger doesn’t mean we are not held responsible for that person’s death. The same as a man who have women prostituting for him. The man have no power, the women do. People will not be able to use us if we do not make ourselves available to be used for any amount of money!

The beat to a song will never be the problem. It is the words behind the music that will change people’s behavior for the better or worse. Our words in a song can influence anybody. Satan is a musician. He use to play music for God. Satan has people singing and rapping to worship him, fornicate, murder, commit suicide and get money. Who are we serving if our words in a song were purposely written to persuade people to do wrong? Some artists have never lived the life they sing and rap about. If the words to a song is about joy that is what people are going to feel and apply to their life at the time. If the words to a song is about sex, money and drugs this is what people are going to feel and apply to their life at the time. It should matter what people say in a song. Words are very powerful and can influence anyone to do good or evil. If people words in their song is not for edification then it is for destruction. There is no in between. People are entitled to express how they feel through their music. There is a market for all types of music. Some songs get you going or make you sad. Some songs you have to ask how did they get on the radio? We are to inspire and uplift people with our music, not mislead them and have them destroying themselves.

Some people are not using their common sense. There are people doing exactly what a person says to do in a song. If a song says jump on your car while it is driving people do it. We do not think for ourselves. Common sense should tell us some of the things we see others do is unnecessary and can kill us. We are being followers. People put themselves into situations. Such as, people who have orgies. There is such things as crabs, HIV and Herpes. How many people do one person need to have a climax with to be satisfied? We are not missing out on anything if we do not participate in things that are not building us up. Whatever new drugs that is being done, does not have to be done. Drugs are made to break the body down. Some words and clothes should not be repeated or worn. Like the word nigger and skinny jeans for men. Everything we see and hear have no business being repeated. We cannot do what everyone else is doing all the time. They might get away with it, but you may not. We will be following people to their death and Hell every time if we do not use our common sense.