Not pregnant yet? You bet!

Not pregnant yet? You bet!
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The book «Not pregnant yet? You bet!» reveals the possibilities of psychotherapy in the treatment of infertility. It examines more thanthirty women’s stories selected by the author from her long-term psychotherapeutic practice. All of them are devoted to various aspectsof infertility, provided with comments that will interest both aninexperienced reader and a specialist in the field of practicalpsychology.

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Римма Ефимкина. Not pregnant yet? You bet!

Table on contents. Foreword

Chapter 1

Becoming a mother: psychological initiation experience

“It’s hard to get through”

Difference between patient and client

“Don’t see any obstacles”

“It’s hard to get through”: commentary

“It is hard to get through”: post scriptum

Infertility reasons: psychological and medical points of view

Women’s bodies, women’s wisdom

Childbirth as initiation

Initiation in fairy-tales

Chapter 2

Male factor

Male infertility

Women who love too much

“Kittens”15

In fine font

“Kittens”: commentary

“Receive the package earlier”

“Receive the package earlier”: commentary

“Rice on the inside of a pot”

“Rice on the inside of a pot”: commentary

“Rice on the inside of a pot”: post scriptum

“Motionless sperm”

Chapter 3

Mal (e) practice

Cosmos means order

Eggs on credit

“Jumble”

“Jumble”: commentary

Violating boundaries

“Jumble”: post scriptum

How about a kiss?

Chapter 4

Saving oneself is one’s own business

Responsibility and conception

Risk factors

Leo Tolstoy’s heroines and their attitude towards motherhood

Liza Bolkonskaya: dying in labor

“Temporary difficulties”

“Temporary difficulties”: commentary

“Temporary difficulties”: post scriptum

Kitty Levina giving birth

Profane and sacred

“Circle made of colored paper”

Chapter 5

Why medicine does not help me?

Medical approach to infertility

Medical lingo

“A word can kill”

“Drawing of an apple”

The ultimate truth

How should infertility be treated?

My story: “Cold feet”

Escalation of symptom

Chapter 6

Psychotherapy as an alternative to medicine

How does psychotherapy work

“She is bound, but he has an option”

“She is bound, but he has an option”: commentary

“She is bound, but he has an option”: post scriptum

The way I hear it, of translation from Martian62

The method of Socrates irony

“Rubbish in the head”

“Rubbish in the head”: commentary

“The circumstances are such, that there is no opportunity”

Chapter 7

To give birth or not to give birth

Doubts should be voiced

Is being a mother worth the suffering?

“Wasted tickets”

To name the beast

“Mother’s call”

Chapter 8

Mother’s curse or mother’s blessing?

“Useless achievement of the ancestors”

“Useless achievement of the ancestors”: commentary

“Useless achievement of the ancestors”: post scriptum

Curse and blessing

“Having children is scary”

“Having children is scary!”: commentary

“Having children is scary”: post scriptum

“Higher power”

“Higher Power”: commentary

“I planned you”

“I planned you”: commentary

“Reconcile the antagonists”

“Reconcile the antagonists”: commentary

“Reconcile the antagonists”: post scriptum

“I wish I gave birth instead of you”

“I wish I gave birth instead of you”: commentary

“Hug stronger – let go – get off”

My personal story

Story of my daughter

“I wish I gave birth instead of you”: post scriptum

Chapter 9

Infertile couple is two people!

“Delegate the responsibility”

“Delegate the responsibility”: commentary

“Synchrony”

“Synchrony”: commentary

“Two dogs”

“Two dogs”: commentary

Chapter 10

Sterile flowers

Leo Tolstoy again

“No feelings”

“No feelings”: commentary

My doubts

“No feelings”: post scriptum

“Late child”

“Late child”: commentary

“Afraid to have a baby with Down syndrome”

God does not make mistakes

“Afraid to have a baby with Down syndrome”: commentary

“Afraid to have a baby with Down syndrome”: post scriptum

“Shock trauma: consequences of violence”

“Shock trauma: consequences of violence”: commentary

“It’s been ten years”

“It’s been ten years”: commentary

Chapter 11

Restoring the essence

Milton Erickson: “Shock therapy”

“Shock therapy”: commentary

“Waking up the libido”

“Waking up the libido”: commentary

Revolt of the kittens

“Young husband”

“Young husband”: commentary

Chapter 12

Limitations give birth to new opportunities

The mind knows, the body won’t allow it

Fairytale “Snow Maden”

Crisis of the middle of life

“Bridge”

“Bridge”: commentary

What to fill one’s life with?

“Give me a sign”

“Give me a sign”: commentary

Ability to childbearing as a metaphor

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There are many reasons why people can’t have children. According to the dominant in our society materialistic point of view on childbirth the issue is of purely technical nature and can be fixed like fixing a car. However, cases described in this book show that these issues have psychological reasons. And they can be fixed if we see the meaning of what is going on and understand it. Usually, if we do, any medical interventions become unnecessary.

I own a whole collection of babies’ photos born by “infertile” women as a result of our both individual and group psychotherapy meetings. I’m really proud of my collection. Besides, it is a piece of “evidence” proving that psychotherapy works. “Impartial” doctors diagnosed these women with fertility issues. The diagnosis included infertility, missed miscarriage, repeated miscarriage. These were numerous sad stories from very different women of childbearing age. And all of them had a happy ending.

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– How was that?

– He was not himself. The day before he insisted I packed my stuff and moved out of my parents’. I got scared and came without my stuff. He got angry and said he would drive me back if I was not able decide; he got me into the car and drove. He was going over the speed limit and ran down a woman who was crossing the street.

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