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What you should do immediately after the separation
ОглавлениеThere are many reasons for your break-up, and without knowing the causes, you cannot plan your future strategy. Instead of going back to her without a plan, you should take a break and take some time for yourself. Work on yourself first and see what needs to be done. Maybe there are some habits of yours, your lack of confidence or your insecurities that must have led to the break-up or the problems in your relationship. If you don't fix these things, you won't be able to get back into a relationship with the same person, as it could all lead to the same situation again and you will end up alone. It is better to be alone for a while than to be alone forever. This being alone is the most important part of the plan to win back your ex. It helps you to face different problems.
Spend some time alone
Nowadays, we are influenced by numerous sources of information around us, from friends to family to media to interactions at work. And this information overload pollutes our minds. Instead of looking at our relationships from our own perspective, we see things through the preconceptions created in our minds by these influences. So, to make things right with your partner, it is very important to think with a clear mind. Maybe it wasn't anyone's fault; maybe it was the workload, the burden of responsibility or other routine issues that must have caused conflict. When you start seeing things with an empty mind, you understand them better.