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After 20 years of sharing emotional and intuitive counseling, helping clients to learn how to become empowered, I discovered an amazing life process I call Soul Windows. A perfectly balanced divine communication system to help you on this journey you call life. Soul Windows are the tools of the divine self that shake up all the emotional belief systems you designed for yourself to create a karmic release of separation from Oneness. You will accept a belief and go along with dysfunctional ideas created by tribal, family or environmental conditions and then you hit a certain age and something does not sit well with you anymore. The usual comments depending on what Soul Window we are talking about is “No, I do not want to do that anymore, I am unhappy and do not know why or I just cannot take this anymore.” Your personal beliefs attract and create your physical reality. If taught as a child that love always comes with the conditions of being hurt and disappointment, then all your life interactions are based on those beliefs. You would repeatedly create relationships that would support that concept of love because it is all you know. Even though it may bring you hurt and unhappiness time and time again, the comfort level of familiarity and the fear of the unknown keeps you in the loop. Your identity is wrapped completely around that belief system. It is not an authentic truth, but it is your truth and more than likely your family, tribal or even religious truths. Somewhere on your life journey, your divine self will set it up to question your loyalty to those beliefs through the Soul Windows. You are not going to change any dysfunctional belief unless you can convince your sub-conscious (Inner Child emotions) there is something better to replace it.

I used a self-hypnosis program of Empowered Thinking to help accomplish that goal with clients. If the Inner Child begins to hear repeatedly what they believed to be love might actually be something else, they can make a choice of rejecting the old and replacing it with a more loving version. You must first experience a new version of belief that makes you feel better about yourself. Once you experience a feel good moment, the Inner Child will happily embrace the new belief. If it feels good then it must be better, it makes sense on every level. Your sub-conscious is just a big emotional computer program that controls your feelings and responding behavior based on the core beliefs that are running. You can begin to make choices that do not support hurt or abandonment and begin to experience the unconditional love that is truly yours by birthright. Soul Windows are the tools the divine self uses to help the Inner Child learn how to trust that knowing inner voice. They also help the adult listen to the knowing voice of divine reason instead of the ego’s screams of fear. After repeatedly giving the subconscious feel good emotional beliefs, the Inner Child’s behavior will embrace the new idea and start making choices accordingly. You realize you like how the new ideas make you feel and the change begins. Healing change comes down to whose opinion you value more, someone else’s opinion of you given to you as a young child or how you want to feel about yourself now. You must first have a feel good belief program running in your sub-conscious mind before you can make that choice.

After watching clients change to the better with the Empowered Thinking program, I began to notice that every age group had certain life challenges that came about regardless of what their story was. There was a pattern to this madness, as they say. The astonishing fact is that you have in your soul’s etheric field, scheduled life cycle signals designed to become active at certain age groups in your life journey. These energetic life cycle signals, created to open particular Soul Windows, bring a change of desires and situations for you to begin a new life chapter. Allowing that program to do what you came here to do, for the soul to experience growth. It is like a window opening in order for the soul to become remapped and rewired to make change. Look at it from this perspective, you are sleeping and dreaming and then the lights turn on briefly, getting your attention and giving you the agenda for the next life cycle, which by the way YOU wrote.

People attached to the good opinion of others have deep self-doubts about where their own value comes from. Co-dependence is a common behavior of low self-esteem and sometimes is so subtle you cannot recognize the real issue. If someone has the capability to push your buttons or make you do something you are not happy doing, then you are attached to their good opinion of you. You need to have that person embrace the same beliefs and opinions you have or you feel challenged over the control you think you are losing. When you finally disconnect yourself from the good opinion of others, you feel a real sense of freedom and a great burden lifted. It can be a 24 hour a day job trying to figure out how to get others to do what you need them to do. Trying to second-guess someone else’s thinking and figure out what YOU have to do to get their approval is emotionally exhausting, frustrating and futile. When you finally realize this, you have that incredible epiphany and ah ha moment of healing. You now know your opinion of yourself is the only one that really counts and actually has the most value. There is a spiritual saying that when you shift your perception of disharmony and finally see for the first time the cause of it, you realize you have just missed the obvious! Usually that happens when you finally become aware you were never going to win at being loved unconditionally anyway. Someone was always going to out think or out manipulate you to get their needs met first. Soul Windows assist you with bringing about this new wisdom to help you see things from an authentic perspective. Trying to live a co-dependent life and thinking eventually you will figure out how you are going to get your needs met without having to compromise is the ever elusive gold ring. Depending on someone or something outside of yourself to feel whole, safe, loved or of value is always going to be just out of your reach. It is like holding your breath; sooner or later you will realize there is someone who is one-step ahead of you in the need department and about to collect it from YOU! No matter how slick you are, how nice you are, how smart you are, how controlling you are or how clever you think you are, you are going to meet your match to force you to grow out of that need. YOU designed it that way! You are finally going to understand the situation is not what you thought it was or they are not doing what you expected them to do. When that happens, all the illusory foundations come out from under you. Then your defense mechanisms will kick into gear: feeling fear, anger, violence, blame, control, withdrawal, manipulation or whatever is your tool of choice. Your other choice is being humble and in gratitude of being shown where NOT to travel. This choice is never one the ego prefers as it forces you to take full responsibility of co-creating your circumstances. When a Soul Window opens, the ego must step back and allow space for change as divine truth will always overrule ego’s falsehoods. The ego is never happy about that!

I had many metaphysical and spiritual clients but also some that were not into spirituality but knew there must be some version of a God and some kind of plan, or hoped there was. I even counseled atheists who took the approach of what the heck, I am so miserable what do I have to lose. Especially when I explained the Inner Child does not really care if you call God “Sam”, it is the concept of being One and a part of something bigger than they are. They were always relieved to find the counseling program was not all metaphysical woo-woo and full of praise God and Jesus! It just made a lot of sense there had to be something more in the game we were playing called life. Maybe the program should have been called: “Common Sense Spirituality”. Considering the over the top mystical approach to healing is what usually keeps people from grasping the concept that in the end, it is all YOU. No angels, no mystical beings, no punishing or rewarding God, (they always like the part of a non-punishing God but are never thrilled with the idea of a God who does not reward for good behavior) no heaven to reach or hell to be afraid of. This life is just your beautiful soul having a wonderful adventure from a script that you wrote. I am not saying angels and all our wonderful light beings are not there to help, they are just all a reflection of you and your beliefs. One of my favorite sayings to get that point across is, “If you wrote the script for your life, then I would guess you can rewrite it”. Soul Windows open at important life markers, helping to see you have the power to make changes in your life script. We are spiritual beings having a human experience, not the other way around. This life is not the IT or the only game in town. When we do not understand the game we are playing, it becomes scary in the belief that an unseen someone or something is pulling the strings in your life. When we carry this belief, wanting to embrace rescue me energy always interferes with accepting the responsibility for your own success of so-called failures. To get this point across, the first thing I always told clients is your life is not a crapshoot rolled by God. YOU designed it for a purpose and if you examine the patterns in your life, it will become obvious what that life lesson is. Soul Windows open to remind you by creating continual change in your life circumstances and assist you in accomplishing those life lessons. I was blessed with the intuitive ability to see one’s life journey without the ego’s smoke and mirrors defense program that fiercely defends an illusion of separateness and aloneness.

People who usually showed up for counseling or the therapy program were in the throws of severe life changes such as extreme fear, a health crisis, abandonment and self-doubt. In the past, they were just at a point of being stuck in life but with the new intense energy on earth now, it seemed everyone was going through volatile changes. No one is having the luxury of extended time anymore. They found the old way of pushing things aside, putting off problems, pretending issues did not exist or hoped they would just go away was not working anymore. The Empowered Thinking program taught them to shift the place of responsibility from out there in someone else’s hands as in: It is God’s will, in God’s hands, it is out of my hands, it is Divine will, there is nothing I can do about it, etc. It put the responsibility where real power begins, with YOU! YOU are that divine will in partnership. YOU are co-creating your life with the divine self and YOU are the one making the decisions on how this life is going to unfold. That is free will. Soul Windows are designed to remind you on your life journey, what free will looks like.