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Do you remember the anecdote about the reaction of the spouse coming from work on the doorstep of the house? My wife went to a sex shop, bought a sado-maso leather suit there, a mask on her face and fully armed met her soul mate.

The husband with interest looked at the faithful, appreciating the efforts, and asked:

«Well, what do we have for dinner, Batman?»

It’s a shame, of course, because the wife so wanted to make a difference in their sex life. Very often the reason for cooling in a marriage is a banal way of life, which jams so that at night the couple are no longer up to romance and sex, just to get some sleep. Someone is trying to arrange a weekend of flirting, when the children leave for the grandparent’s weekend, someone warms up themselves and the second half by viewing pornography. Everyone tries to fight to the best of their ability and imagination with a routine that can not be avoided in long family relationships.

Psychologists talk about the crisis after 7 years of marriage, sexologists – about a break in relations after the first year, then – in the third or fourth year, when the novelty and freshness of erotic sensations leave, and the partner loses her former sexual attraction. And then on TV from morning to night, they compulsively broadcast, just instill the thought that the average man is simply obliged from morning to evening to cook in the topic of sex. Against the background of these brutal machos with bare torsos, any man gets a heap of doubts about his abilities and, as a consequence, a decrease in potency.

Ophotoscopic models inspire women with fear of the thought of cellulite, which must be hidden in the dark under the blanket from their second half. Fears and monotony in sex lead to the fact that after ten years of marriage, only 42% of couples lead a regular sex life.

However, the situation can be corrected, because the two loving people are quite able to restore the former passion in the relationship, introducing a new stream in them. Let’s start with a change in the view of the ordinary: with changes in the habitual habitat – bedroom and house, we finish – with space and elements.