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1 Client: I don’t know why I do these dumb things. It’s almost as if I did not want a relationship.

Restating

1 Counselor/Therapist: You don’t know why you do dumb things. It may be that you don’t want a relationship.

2 Client: I do want a relationship, but each time I get close, I seem to do everything in my power to destroy it.

Paraphrasing

1 Counselor/Therapist: You are very sure that you want a relationship, but each time you have the opportunity, you sabotage your chances.