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The family, the base of the whole society
ОглавлениеEveryone comes from a man and a woman and they are welcomed into the bosom of a family. It has been so since the beginning of time. The importance of the family group is reflected in the personal life of each one. If we have a good family base with solidified values, we have a great chance to be good parents, children, brothers, co-workers, in short, to be real people.
How can the current family group be defined? A family is a group of people with related personalities and goals do not necessarily have to be of the same blood. They can be included in these groups, besides a heterosexual couple, homosexual couples, single parents with children, relatives in coexistence and even communities of friends. Family is all good and are the ones we can really count on in difficult times.
Children are a delicate part of the family. Adults should strive to create in them an affective bond in such a way that they obey it. Avoid bad influences for their children and protect them from violence and crime. they are perpetuated for life.
Creating bonds and strengthening existing ones with the people closest bring more happiness and security to the human being. Validate who is by your side for all life and overcome the differences for a pleasant coexistence. Be happy.
Blood and Heart Family: There are reported cases of family abuse and rejection. Often separation is inevitable and the human being discovers greater support among strangers. The family of heart, the one who accepts you as you are, should be valued as an inbred. Thank you if you find these angels on earth.
Role of family members: A family is a social group with defined rules among its members. Parents and eldest children have an obligation to provide for the support and guidance of minor children while they have to be obedient, helpful, and dedicated to studies. It is a mutual exchange. If there is a breach of this contract, things can be unsustainable.
The importance of a religious orientation: Since young people, children should be guided as existing religious matrices. The fact that parents are of a certain religion does not give them the right to impose their will on their children. Respect the autonomy and free will of these little beings is an essential exercise for a good relationship. Regardless of their decision, love will not change.
Values to be worshiped: humanity, fidelity, loyalty, sincerity, fear of God, love, wisdom, cooperation, unity, respect, dignity, fellowship, tolerance, freedom, evolution, courage, faith and hope.
Rules: Clean the house, wake up early, cook, wash dishes, clean the room, read a good book, greet others, behave at meals, ask permission to leave and enter environments, tell them when to leave, good music relaxing, work, do good, talk, give advice, guide, study, share objects of common use, welcome visits, etcetera.