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Life is an amazingly enjoyable experience when you have the perfect partner to share it with. The day you meet "the one" your heart goes into overdrive and it feels like the entire world has changed for the better overnight. When the day comes that you both decide to move in together and live under the same roof it seems like heaven couldn't get any closer. The day you actually pick up the keys you both feel like you're on cloud nine.

For many couples, however, moving in together marks the beginning of the end. Some couples have such "fairy tale ending notions" in their mind about what moving in together means that the expectations they raise become almost impossible to meet. The moment those expectations fall apart it is not uncommon for one or both partners to shift focus onto those aspects of the other that they don't like, that frustrate them, that annoy them or that they wish were different. From what was meant to be a great experience, sharing life 24/7 becomes a lesson in perseverance and resentment. Arguments begin to erupt and before long what was a happy home in the beginning becomes a place of turmoil and misery that often results in both partners splitting apart and forever hating each other.

Yet, while a couple is fighting, arguing and breaking apart in one home, in the next there is a couple who is blissfully happy. Since moving in together they've been the happiest they've ever been, loving every minute spent together and living life unable to imagine being with anyone else. Just as two in every three marriages fail, one in every three is going from strength to strength and, in time, both partners will grow old together as they enjoy the very best life has to offer through a text-book happy home.

What is it that separates the happy home from the home that falls apart? What do those couples who seem to do everything right do differently to those who seem to do everything wrong? Why are some couples able to succeed where others fail? How can you guarantee you and your partner will be the one in three that remain happy forever? How can you have a text-book happy home that stands up against thick and thin? This "text book" has been written to give you the answers you seek.