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left out

I know someone who invited every girl in my class but me to her party. I thought we were friends. What did I do wrong?

Getting left out happens to all of us at some point. It’s no fun, but it may have nothing to do with you personally. Maybe there was a limit to how many people could be invited, or the hostess’s parents made the final decisions on the guest list. Either way, accept the situation as it is, and don’t let it sour your friendship.

On the day of the party, avoid moping around the house by having something fun planned—start a craft project, create a playlist of your favorite songs, get lost in a great book, or plan a sleepover with another friend who was not invited.

I got invited to a party but my best friend didn’t. Now I’m afraid to tell her.

Even if you’re trying to spare your friend’s feelings, you should be honest about receiving an invitation. Keeping a secret can lead to feelings of hurt and betrayal, which can poison a friendship. Suggest doing something together on a different day. And, unless she asks, don’t talk too much about the party afterward.