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conversation starters

Want to talk but don’t know what to say? Try these talking tips to help get you chatting.

Conversation starters Talk about something that affects both of you at the moment. For example, “I’ve never heard this song before. Do you know who sings it?”

Compliments Compliments can go a long way. If you like another guest’s sweater or haircut, let her know. And if someone compliments you, use it to kick off a conversation. “Thanks! I was nervous about getting a short style, but it’s great for me because I play soccer. Do you play any sports?”

Things in common If the guest is in one of your classes, talk about the teacher, what unit you’re on, or your last pop quiz. “I really like our science class, because our teacher does the best projects.”

Questions Asking questions is a great way to get people to open up to you.

• What songs are on your MP3 player? • What books have you read recently? • What kind of hobbies do you have?

Listen up The best conversationalist isn’t always the person who talks the most. Show interest in the person you’re talking to by asking questions and focusing on what she’s saying instead of just waiting to talk again. “Wow, you do karate? I’ve never tried it. How did you get started with that?”