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Too many times we talk, rattling on with a personal agenda. Or we dither away trying to conjure up a solution for a real or imaginary problem. Seldom is the first choice to listen. We seem to think that beating a subject to death with words will somehow present a magic answer.

When talking proves fruitless, stop and listen.

Examine, just for a moment, who might be important to listen to. Do you need to listen to another person—perhaps a doctor, family member, pastor, or friend? Do you need to listen to that too often ignored inner voice? Do you need to listen to someone that you can’t see—someone who isn’t covered in skin?

If you find yourself caring for another person for a temporary or an extended period, one of your best assets is the ability to listen. Resources and answers abound if you close your mouth and open your ears. It’s absolutely amazing what you can learn when you stop talking!

Just listen.

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